Or in other words: Don't let them get you when you're down. CS is a cult, a cult for love losers, and this is not what you want. Only some here belong to the cult, but the clique is strong in these ones and diversity and individuality are erased. Most mavericks and interesting people who come to CS leave shortly after.
Get amongst normal people who have healthy, loving relationships. This is what you want. You don't want to be like a teenager hanging around online into middle age. I am 26 and I am beginning to feel that I am too old to be here.
Not that I think you will ever consciously think of it like this. The drive towards wholesomeness and sound priority is subconscious. Eastern women are perhaps the best example of woman without ever having to second guess themselves.
My advice is get in the real world and get away from the internet. The people here are awful Human beings, and if not awful, then they're damaged or broken and most of what they say and believe can be summarised into one word: Barren. Spend too long here and you will be contaminated through osmosis.
How humble of you to admit a need and a weakness. It's nice to see that some have the ego to spare.
And you're right to worry about love as love is no less than the composition of the next generation. It shows in you that your culture has not abandoned the future. This is an unselfishness to be proud of. Even if love never comes you will always have this small consolation.
Also, what about your dog? You love that dog external to you. You seem very reliant upon man's best friend considering that you are supposed to be self-satisfied.
Too much self-satisfaction is a sign of smug narcissism. Although I am wondering if you meditate? Meditation is a way to be narcissistic without hurting anybody. Your view is victimless that much is true, but you're kidding yourself if you don't think that it's egotistical. You're almost as smug as I am.
Anyway, asociality when we are by nature social beings is a triumph of the ego in my opinion. Loneliness makes people unhappy for a reason and that's why we come together to create cultures and civilisations. It's perfectly normal and healthy to want to belong. Losing this longing for union is a sign that your society and it people are in decay, an example is how we almost lost Scotland last week because Britain is a fractured joke upon its former self.
In fact you can trap a woman on this truth. In one breath a woman will often say that she's strong, independent and to be taken as she is, but in the next breath she will make it apparently clear that she knows all about pretense and keeping up appearances.
Anyway, your job is not to call a woman out on this logical contradiction. Calling out a woman achieves nothing. The lesson to be learned is that a woman says is to be taken with a ladle's worth of salt.
The first rule of being desperate and lonely is to hide that you are desperate and lonely. Women are much at better doing this because women are more concerned about what others think - it's a product of her inherent narcissism and vanity - yet they are right to veil it as it is unattractive.
However, and make no mistake, for every man as sad and lonely as you are there is a woman just the same.
Rejection is fine. Winners lose and get rejected repeatedly throughout life.
It's how you handle the fear of rejection that counts. Does fear motivate you to the best you can be, to give you the best chances with women, with your job or with anything at all? Or do you wilt under the pressure of fear and do nothing, or aim so low in life that nobody cares(even yourself)whether you succeed? This is what separates the men from the boys.
Science as materialist thought is clearly dominant in our era: Economics, politics, law and war in a world of facts, the masses and technology. Our search is outward-looking and as such everything we are is cold, rigid, utilitarian and honed towards materialistic expansion. The "soul" no longer exists in our beliefs.
Science as spiritualist thought is dead: Philosophy, art, architecture are all populist fads stripped of any spirituality. Our search is not inward-looking and as such fact trumps faith and there is no use for religion, spiritualism and expansion of the mind and soul.
Creationism would not experience a comeback until modern materialism and nihilism exhaust themselves. The boring, lacklustre and passionless ways of modern intellectuals and leaders as they analyse the culture to death so they can economise and politicise all has the effect of sterilising the meaning of life(nihilism)and the plebs become increasingly apathetic until society can no longer function. After this comes a new autocracy, the decline of intellectualism, and the birth of second religiousness. Perhaps Creationism will re-emerge in the future.
Some women go from forgiveness to acceptance. They simply stop believing that there is anything to forgive. I'm not recommending you to do this, but I am wary that you might.
"It is from their foes, not their friends, that cities learn the lesson of building high walls" - some wise old Greek.
The point being to think of all the things we wouldn't have and wouldn't know how to do if it wasn't for conflict and struggle. Think of how stagnant we would be.
Anyway, Happy Birthday, you're in a beautiful place for it.
You're talking about geeks! Not men. Admittedly more men than women are geeks, but not all men are sperg and most of us can read between the lines more or less and the truth is that we know you're not fine, we simply feign ignorance of your emotions for the sake of an easy life.
From the perspective of owning a small business I much prefer working for the religious. They're better at paying the bills(and on time)and don't try to swindle you as much... except the Muslims and Jews who always try to haggle, in fact, you can totally trust in them to haggle. However, you can appeal to Muslims through their sense of honour. Tell the Muslim you don't want his money and that he has dishonoured himself by trying to cheat you and his attitude will do a 180 and he will overpay the bill if anything.
Instead of Holy God we have Big Brother. Instead of priests and doctrine we have lawyers and regulation. Instead of Jesus we have Obama. Instead of heresy we have political incorrectness. Instead of sermons we have propaganda. Instead of morality we have self-interest. Instead of spiritualism we have hedonism. Instead of love thy neighbour we have love thy self. Instead of humility we have narcissism.
For so many reasons people are less trustable under Atheism. The flock no longer polices itself, and it was inevitable that without faith in God some people would then elevate themselves to the position of Masters of the Universe.
Does one need to believe in God to be moral? No, but it probably helps.
People used to wrongly believe that there was a man in the sky watching everything you do, and now in the Atheist West there literally is a man in the sky watching everything you do. We've gone from a Christian state to a surveillance state.
Men understand next to nothing about make-up, but we do appreciate the end results. This is similar to the relationship women have with money and the economy. Nail varnish I see the least point in as I only notice a woman's hands for bad reasons/man hands.
The people you're describing here were more likely to vote yes. People's desperation helped the yes campaign and it did not help the Union as you are attempting to portray.
They'll only go independent if Britain does as badly over the next 30 years as she has done over the last 30 years. By which point it would make little difference. There would be no welfare state either side of the border and all that would matter is whether you're amongst the elite minority who can afford to live in one of the gated safe zones, or not.
Yet this may not happen. The future of Britain belongs to a new generation of adults that would be extremely hard pushed to perform as badly as the last.
It matters because we've avoided the 1930s and the descent into vicious protectionism which everybody would have suffered from.
Even when the people were at their lowest ebb they've been in years, and even with children being given the right to vote, they still have not fallen for the comforting unreality of that shortbread-tin charlatan. I like this referendum because it demonstrates that the ugly truth can indeed beat the pretty lie.
We are animals, merely instinct, and everything else is a lie. But these lies are for the greater good, and in the end doesn't that make them the real truth? The answer is no.
Our civilisation and social progress stand upon myths - non-facts which encourage the aspirational delusion that we are above the animals. These serve as unnatural inhibitors which encourage the 'higher' parts of the brain to veto the impulses of the savage and animal hindbrain - what we call self-restraint. Then the 1960s happened and self-restraint was ditched, civilisation and class were disparaged, and the boomer tribespeople began their slow march back to the caves.
Personally I would pay the staff $15 an hour just to see the place go bankrupt.
In all seriousness the value of the labor is so low that you couldn't pay them any more, and Unions would be a counterproductive farce considering that type of worker has next to no bargaining power even collectively.
As important as it is that the sandwiches get made, and that she is the one to make those sandwiches, it is equally important that he treats as if she's there to make his sandwiches.
But does he really see her as nothing but a sandwich maker? Or is he joking? And if he is joking is there not a little truth in every joke? His motives are a mystery - how exciting!
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RE: Desperate Lady
Or in other words: Don't let them get you when you're down. CS is a cult, a cult for love losers, and this is not what you want. Only some here belong to the cult, but the clique is strong in these ones and diversity and individuality are erased. Most mavericks and interesting people who come to CS leave shortly after.Get amongst normal people who have healthy, loving relationships. This is what you want. You don't want to be like a teenager hanging around online into middle age. I am 26 and I am beginning to feel that I am too old to be here.