I take it you’re not aware of the physicians who treated hysteria during the Victorian era. Although it was primarily female clientele, there were some (usually undocumented, or carefully worded) cases of the same “condition” and subsequent “treatment” in male clientele. Totally legal, too, but a form of what would otherwise be illegal. A Victorian doctor was in a position to become very, very rich.
Have you seen those (usually handled) baskets made of colorful material, twisted into soft ropes and woven like their reed counterparts? I got a set of two for some friends’ wedding. Later I visited— they had them by their fireplace, with kindling in them. It looked like a decorating magazine layout. One of the better presents I’ve given. My sister and brother- in- law were given a box of spices, teas, marinades, jars of pesto, bruschetta, jams, all the little kitchen “ extras” we forget to treat ourselves to. It was the “ hit” of the reception. By the way, someone once told me it was in bad form to unwrap wedding gifts at the reception; that this should be done in private. Our family always opened them at reception. Is there an etiquette rule regarding this?
Of course this is something to think about. Here’s my ‘theory’ - those little things many of us like, but don’t buy (in favor of higher priorities, AND, money is often short for a lot of us) are more appreciated than not, as we want them, and I think the giving of them outweighs worrying whether the person takes offense. Now, to validate you a little— if a friend who knows that I no longer live a ranch life among cattle were to give me a tin of Bag Balm as a gift, I think I’d be a little rattled…get the difference?
I guess any penny would do in favor of no penny. Here, I’ll try to explain: some legends, folk/old wives’ tales say that giving someone a knife or knives is “bad luck”, as knives can do harm. So, to “break this spell/ curse” the recipient gives the giver a penny, so that the knives are now technically a “ purchase”, rather than a gift. I saw this happen at least two times. (I’m of Appalachian/ Scot ancestry). You’ll find American folklore chock full of these adages and beliefs.
Yes, I know. I was talking about slow-cooker roasts. Beef Wellington can’t be properly made in a slow cooker, and it must be top-grade standing rib for best results.
how funny— I grew up with grandparents and a bevy of great aunts, etc…and this adage came up more than once: If giving knives as a wedding gift, the bride gives you a shiny new penny. That breaks the spell, as she has now “bought” the knives.
Many people like the plug-in deodorizers ( Glade, Febreeze) but they’re rather expensive, as small items go. Maybe get the starter pack ( plug-in plus one insert) and a pack of 3 or 5 additional inserts. Try to find out what scent they might like— otherwise, lavender or “ fresh linen” are usually good choices. (About $20.00). That’s the first idea. Next, an unusual cookbook, such as “ The Mensch Chef”, or “The Shaker Kitchen [ Jeffrey S. Paige ], last, a useable fruit wicker bowl/basket with these three items, plus a pack of gourmet coffee. It’ll do the trick…about $40.00 for all, which is about right for a gift of this genre.
Depends. You aren’t required to read it. You just love to passive-aggressively put others down, stand back, and proclaim you’ve done nothing of the kind. Ordinarily, I would be very equitable, and parse this academically. However, reading some of your responses to others, and the FOURTEEN private emails I’ve received concerning your hateful, hostile and vituperative rhetoric, it’s crystal clear that you choose to be exponentially mean. What a waste of what could be a more positive, productive approach. Still, I refuse to condemn you…and this Easter, you are added to my church community’s prayer list. For you are very I’ll in this continuity of bashing people who initially tried to be your friend. Hope you find some peace. Get some rest…
The jury has long been out on how much of our brain (cognitive ability, recall, problem-solving, etc…) we actually use. For a long time, it was academically believed and taught that it was about 10%. That’s way off— currently some psychiatrists believe many people use nearly 100% of their overall brain power, and even the laziest (yes, it’s largely about being lazy..) people probably use 35%. To answer your question, first, understand that I’m very open- minded regarding the possibility of other intelligent life in The Universe. So, there’s likely beings out there who, if aware of us, would regard us as inconsequential, if at all.
Another side-comment— I was interested in doing a Prime-Rib for Easter, but I just found out that a good roast ranges from $14.00 to $23.00 per pound, or an average of $40.00++ for a 2.5 package. This is just too high. Guess you gotta go all in for the good stuff. ( even the total cost of ingredients for the Beef Wellington is about &19.00, to feed the same # of people.)
I couldn’t pick— although I’m in fair enough condition (if I were a car I’d get the best of blue book… ) Could shed some pounds, actually, but my primary tells me not to worry about it. Most people in my circle of friends, and a few outside it, say I’m handsome, endearing, comfortable…( a little promotion, here
Funny you should say that— I’ve had Beef Wellington several times in my life, and this recipe I gave is the first time I’ve made it or had it with cheese, too, so probably could omit and still have a great dish..
Footnote: if you really want the exotic flavor of Cambaloza but it’s unavailable or too pricey, a blue cheese or Gorgonzola will work, though it will take more careful work as it crumbles easily. But..you can do it!
Quality 2.5 to 3.5lb roast, phyllo sheets (1 full package), 20 or so fresh white mushrooms, thinly sliced prosciutto, 4 slices of cambaloza or Swiss cheese, I stick melted butter.
Marinade ingredients: 1/2 cup wine, Pinot noir is best, 3 TBLSP fresh chopped thyme, 3 cloves garlic, minced or pressed, full teaspoon course ground pepper, 1/4 cup olive oil.
Thoroughly blend all marinade ingredients. Cut roast into 4 or 6 equal “ steaks. Quickly and lightly brown on both sides. Just. Set on platter, cool a short while. In a container large enough for the steaks to work with easily, add marinade and meat portions. Cover, and turn to coat all very well. Place in refrigerator for 24 hours. Turn/toss a couple of times during this rest. This is so the meat will absorb the maximum amount of the marinade and give the supper the specific flavors. Day of supper: Take meat out of fridge. Slice mushrooms thin, toss in hot oil until barely golden. Turn on paper towel and pat as dry as possible. For each steak, place five phyllo sheets, one at a time heavily buttered, on baking pan. Evenly distribute sliced mushrooms. Wrap steak in prosciutto, place cheese slice on steak, place steak in middle of phyllo, wrap burrito style, pinch seam, and brush butter again. Bake in moderate to hot oven uncovered (400) for 15 to 20 minutes. You will want more…trust me!
I don’t know about Europe, but my pantry, freezer, and supply areas are CHOCK FULL. Still, I’m not just sitting on laurels. Watching EVERYTHING like a hawk. I recommend it.
Did he have a physical ailment with his eyes? He clenched them shut much of the time. Another celebrity has this: the actor from “ Third Rock From The Sun”, I don’t remember his name.
This one has me going…so, in this world, sometimes, no matter what, we lose. If you’re alert, and know where you’re going, you get tagged and named. If you stand up for yourself, you’re belligerent. If you refuse to do a task on obvious grounds of fairness, you’re tagged as having a bad attitude. If you stand up for yourself you’re an idiot. If you don’t stand up for yourself you’re a coward. Never get to win…
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they’re all there…first post. Am I missing your meaning?
RE: Please state your psychological emergency!
I take it you’re not aware of the physicians who treated hysteria during the Victorian era. Although it was primarily female clientele, there were some (usually undocumented, or carefully worded) cases of the same “condition” and subsequent “treatment” in male clientele. Totally legal, too, but a form of what would otherwise be illegal. A Victorian doctor was in a position to become very, very rich.