Thanks a million for this sage post. I was just talking to a friend the other day about this topic. Being questioning and possessing an analytical mind is not confrontational, it’s academic. Huge difference..
Much wisdom in this.. we can’t eat paper, right? Money isn’t worth anything unless it’s spent. Remember, Manhattan was purchased for about $26.00 in shells and beads..
In The Big Rock Candy Mountain You never change your socks And there’s little streams of alcohol A-tricklin’ down the rocks The brakemen have to tip their hats And the railway bulls are blind There’s a lake of stew One of whiskey, too ( you can paddle all around in a big canoe) In The Big Rock Candy Mountain I’m goin’ to stay Where you sleep all day Where they hung the jerk Who invented work In The Big Rock Candy Mountain
I hear you...but gee, I’d like the opportunity to test it out, anyway. I believe that happy wealthy people were probably happy, anyway— before the wealth. I think how you “get there”, matters, too. Born into it doesn’t give you something to bounce it against...being poor and then working your way up and out gives a different perspective. I started out ( in life) just above poverty, had many lean ‘salad’ days, worked my way through college, and probably settled somewhere between lower- middle to just above, middle class. I’LL TAKE IT!
Credit where credit is due— this was coined by George Bernard Shaw— he said “ adapt” instead of “ conform”, which could slightly alter..but the gist of it is the same...
Not meaning to generalize— people frequently have a “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it” outlook. Consider this: a goose quill and berry juice “work” for writing; kerosene lamps “work” for lighting, etc...
“The reasonable man conforms to his environment. The unreasonable man attempts to have his environment conform to him. Therefore, all progress depends upon the unreasonable man”.
It depends. There are actually men’s nursing uniforms of short pants and short sleeves. Many Australian businessmen wear very good looking “ short suits” to work, especially during the hottest season. You don’t see it much in U.S., or at least not in the PNW...
It can seem like a “catch 22”— if you stop to think a moment, the other person thinks they’ve one- upped you, frequently saying “what’s the matter, cat got your tongue..” or the like. Can’t win.. lately in Life, I think before I speak. Better to be quiet and thought a fool than to open your mouth and prove it...
S’alright, love...those 70’s shows kind of melted into each other—-“The Brady Bunch” and “The Partridge Family” for instance. Hey, I want to ask you a question about two very similar movies—“The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert”, and “To Wong Foo, Thanks For Everything, Julie Newmar”—- a bartender friend once told me that “To Wong Foo...” stole the idea from “Priscilla” (Australian made) but didn’t say whether there was a copyright or brand infringement, etc...do you happen to know?
Although I watched it, and found it interesting, I have a confession: I cannot STAND Richard Thomas. Either in or out of character. Just something about him rubs the wrong way. I saw him on a talk show after the series ended— he came across as arrogant/condescending. The way he talks even grinds on my nerves. I’d sooner hear a witch drag her fingernails across a blackboard. Dang I can’t stand John-Boy. What a p.o.s. Ok, I’m done
Been there— saw the gunfight, drank beer out of a tin cup, bought a white porcelain bolo tie ( steer skull) wrapped in rattlesnake skin. It was a great vacation. Also went up to Virginia City. One really great time for about a week..
So, I would try that another way— like, for example, “I wish that every time I play the lottery I win the grand jackpot”. That way, I’m not exactly wishing for more wishes—-
I think the strangest ones I get, and it happens frequently enough, are from men who, when I read their profiles, say they’re looking for a woman. Now, I suppose it’s nice to be approached for friendship, but my own profile is very clear of who I am and what I’m looking for...
Still watching in syndication...Michael Landon was one of my very favorite people...the episode I liked the very most was the one where Albert feigned blindness so his real father would not want him, and he could be adopted by the Ingalls... a way feel good one!
Some of us ‘read’ other people better ...I believe I do a fair to above average job...my red flags and intuitions are usually spot-on. I knew when a person close to me was marrying a crumb...sure enough, they’re in the middle of a complex, heated divorce. My intuitions are durable...but I understand that many are tricked/fooled, and it HAS happened to me...but rarely. I don’t know the recipe...just be very, very alert. People who yammer on a lot about themselves are generally not good partners...there is no one deciding factor.
Eisenhower coined the phrase, “Military Industrial Complex”. About 70 years ago. Seen “The Pentagon Papers”? Etc... wars and conflicts generate cash flow—- its a hell of a deal...literally...
RE: Theory
Thanks a million for this sage post. I was just talking to a friend the other day about this topic. Being questioning and possessing an analytical mind is not confrontational, it’s academic. Huge difference..