Thanks a trillion— very good advice and well-stated. It really is important to me to be a better person. I get tired of being misjudged or if someone is mean, and I can’t see that I’ve done anything wrong…then (sometimes) I get defensive, and unkind back, but then, generally, wish I hadn’t. But, not ALWAYS…
Oh stop it. You frequently tell people not to post! Honestly! I had started to re-think telling you a thing or two, but I’m solid with my statements. You are coming across as damaged or something! Have you had a medical check-up lately?
Its definitely a carnival around here at times…I have to say what a breath of fresh air you are right now…I’m having conflicting thoughts about what’s really fair when trying to get a point across to some folks. It’s like trying to use a waterbed mattress on a bed of nails…
You did write all those posts. Or is someone ghosting you? But ok, you’re off my mind. Good luck and take good care of that troublesome streak. I mean, you DID write those posts….Hmmmmm….you’re peculiar…
I’m afraid you’re right, and I admit I have ownership in letting my annoyance turn to anger and sometimes, defensive rhetoric. I just did it. But I’m willing to try harder, be a better person. Even a minute after being ticked off…Thanks for holiday wishes. Yeah, two wrongs never made a right.
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Socially, obligationarily, athletically, and of leadership, the Western male has substantially weakened and deteriorated.
I appreciate your nice reply. Yeah, “the good old days…” But if you really want to talk, I’m up with that… you can scoot to my profile, choose “E-Mail him” and presto— a pen pal! I could try first, e-mail you…watch your mail.
So right…and I’m guilty of doing this. Like, almost having a conversation with someone in the post…awhile back I responded to a member who was posting in a specific thread. I was saying, “ Oh hi! Long time no hear! Is your mother-in-law back from Idaho? How’d that go? That doctor who won’t fill your RX is a real pos! Find another! How’s the mama cat? We’re you able to find forever homes for the kittens.” Finally, I e-mailed. I do see this from time to time.
I think about this from time to time…and, my “story” is long, as are most. So, what has made me strong is a strong sense, desire, if you will, of just plain raw survival. And, later in life, it wasn’t just about childhood issues, or college, or career issues…it prominently became about medical survival, which trumps all. The other day a friend was asking me if I was upset or sad about some people that I had loved dearly who have “dropped” me…yup..I was dumped by people who I thought were loving friends. (It happens to everyone) No, I am not sad or upset. Tiny, tiny potatoes , comparatively.
Recipes can be tricky. One cannot always “substitute” successfully. Example, and I’ll stand by this until the hearse rolls up—when making Scottish Shortbread, you MUST use real butter. Freshly made is best. If you use synthetic, like oleo or margarine, the cookies or loaf will “bleed” ( watery). Also, you cannot use brown sugar if a recipe states white or “ regular”. The molasses in the brown sugar will leech too much moisture into the mixture. Leather Britches (highly seasoned fresh green beans dried until they are “leathery” then simmered in water and bacon for six-plus hours) cannot be made any other way than The Foxfire Books teach. They will not turn out right. Just saying….ok, there’s more….
Perhaps as right as rain. Nothing that occurred even a micro-second ago matters NOW. It’s ancient history. So, work with what’s happening CURRENTLY. Prices, especially restaurant, are WAY TOO HIGH. Period. Just say NO!
I’ve written about this recently, but would still like to read other views. I’m (nearly) boycotting eating out, anywhere, ie, cafes, full service restaurants, food trucks, drive-ins/fast food. The prices are outrageous. A very, very small sandwich, advertised as “Artisan Incredible Reuben with salad” was actually very thin, on what looked like Melba toast— perhaps two teaspoons of krout, a sliver of corned beef, and if there was Swiss, it wasn’t enough to notice. The “salad was perhaps half of a romaine lettuce leaf and a crouton. Appallingly tiny meal for $19.00 PLUS tip. This is becoming the NORM…I want to point out something, and I “ get” the overhead argument…Here is the actual cost at a Kroger’s, for a chef salad with chicken.
Lettuce—- let’s say half a romaine———-$.70 Tomato—- one Roma or vine—————. $.60 Carrot—— one California Crisp————. $.35 Ripe olives—- five or six, sliced—————$.25 Green onions— half a bunch——————$.90 Radishes——— three or four——————$.25 Egg, hard-cooked———————————$.15 Swiss cheese, 1 Oz.——————————$.75 Chicken breast, small————————— $1.05 Dressing and croutons—————————$.90 TOTAL———————————————-$5.90
Actual cost, without tip————————$21.95
A four hundred percent write-up. Ludicrous. I’m not going to pay it. Your thoughts?
Sometimes I visit friends a few miles from here. When I get back to my place, I don’t feel like it’s too much of a mess—(they are one pop can pull tab away from being mega-hoarders.).
RE: What annoys you about the forums ..
Thanks a trillion— very good advice and well-stated. It really is important to me to be a better person. I get tired of being misjudged or if someone is mean, and I can’t see that I’ve done anything wrong…then (sometimes) I get defensive, and unkind back, but then, generally, wish I hadn’t. But, not ALWAYS…