Aye, they say that 'Nostalgia is just looking back and thinking that things were better then than they are now ...'
But, even recognising that I saw those days 'through the eyes of a child' I still 90% suspect that the world was more 'people friendly' ... in general, much safer then than it is today ?
Just thinking about that a bit more ... a Jumbo tanker could cross the Atlantic in around 12 hours, I don't know how long it would take to fill or maybe there would be advantage in flying it over pre-filled and directly to the incident site ?
Perhaps it sounds silly as the name was used in 'Thunderbirds series' but perhaps there actually could be some sort 'International Rescue Organisation' that could co-ordinate rapid response to such events?
It certainly is ... NZ and Australia especially have seen many enormously destructive fires over the last few years and I'd never seen anything on the scale of that pic before today!
The incidence of fire seems to be on the increase globally ... Sometimes one cannot help but speculate in terms of 'cause and effect' as to 'why that might be occurring'
But for now here's hoping the people of Portugal, London and such other places are getting all that's humanly possibly by way of help and support.
I hear you ... but IMHO 'art therapy' and many others things become useful 'later on'
Kids ARE 'younger' but they are also extremely sensitive and while they may not be able to articulate as well as an adult can they 'know stuff' just as we do, in their own ways.
Imagine that YOU have lost a very close friend, or recall a time when you did ... and now imagine that some ( undoubtedly well meaning) individual offers you crayons and an adult colouring book 'as a distraction' ?
Or perhaps they are less creative and press you to go dining and dancing 'too soon' ... by that I mean 'this soon' before the bodies are recovered, before the funerals have taken place?
My best guess is that that idea is not going to sit well with you?
Children, like adults, also need to be 'allowed to experience their grief' and when that happens with support in a loving, compassionate (and not necessarily formalised therapy setting) they understand differently.
I've too many times seen 'armies of therapists' descend upon schools after a suicide of a student, death of a loved teacher in accident and be coerced into taking part in sessions they neither wanted or needed.
'Effective therapy' of any kind only occurs when the participants are willing ...
You can look at the abject failure of Court imposed 'Anger Management Treatment' programmes to see the reality of that!
( and sure, of course other opinions exist and that's the value of expression and debate ... sometimes it seems necessary to 'state' that what I write is 'my opinion' derived from my own life and experience - I'm not claiming 'rightness, infallibility or indeed anything else' in these threads! )
Sometimes we debate these things 'from afar' and lose track of the very real suffering of those who are directly or closely involved ... GB those people and let's keep them in our prayers.
A variation on Yac-o-Strat 3 and compounded by Yac-o-Strat 4 and Yac-o-Strat 5 dismiss the other person as ignorant and just try to make out they're wrong
I suppose next you'll send in your Rusty Rannabe Keyboard Warriors to flame me here and in my pm box
As it happens I had great respect for my late father ... he was was an intelligent, likeable man and I was moved but not surprised by the number who attended his funeral 30 years ago. In fact, I could go so far as to say that he was everything that you are not and could never even aspire to be.
I hope that one day you might grow up and develop for yourself some attractive human and humane character traits ... I can hope for that for you, but I'm certainly not going to try holding my breath while it happens!
Seeing you whine about living on a miserable 140 Euros a day and making cheap political points off the back of a human disaster ... wonders what stinking rotteneffluent went into your gene pool.
**** I have no ideas as how little you charge to (quote you) take it up the Jaxi so I'm not at liberty to perform any calculations !
BUT having said that ... the UK Financial Times is generally a reliable source for news and it reports that a combination of extremely dry weather and a lightning storm are reported to be the causes ...
Seriously though ... it ( Eisenhower's speech) makes for one hell of a good read and remarkably few Americans have ever looked at it!
If Dwight E looks down from heaven now he must be wring his hands and biting his tongue to not say 'Told you what would happen ... but y'all would NOT listen, and now that you're in The Swamp y'all are fighting The Man who want's to drain it to get y'all outta the mire !
Whats a Good Swiss beer ... does such a thing exists or do you only do chocolate, banks and gnomes ?
I know, I know ... it's terribly tedious of me to (yet again) point out thet President Ddwight Eisenhower warned all Americans of what was coming if they failed to keep a steady eye on their politicians and allowed them to be bought by industrialists!
for those who can't find it themselves ( and at risk of looking like sanguinefrarious )
My fellow Americans: Three days from now, after half a century in the service of our country, I shall lay down the responsibilities of office as, in traditional and solemn ceremony, the authority of the Presidency is vested in my successor. This evening I come to you with a message of leave-taking and farewell, and to share a few final thoughts with you, my countrymen. Like every other citizen, I wish the new President, and all who will labor with him, Godspeed. I pray that the coming years will be blessed with peace and prosperity for all. Our people expect their President and the Congress to find essential agreement on issues of great moment, the wise resolution of which will better shape the future of the Nation.
My own relations with the Congress, which began on a remote and tenuous basis when, long ago, a member of the Senate appointed me to West Point, have since ranged to the intimate during the war and immediate post-war period, and, finally, to the mutually interdependent during these past eight years.
In this final relationship, the Congress and the Administration have, on most vital issues, cooperated well, to serve the national good rather than mere partisanship, and so have assured that the business of the Nation should go forward. So, my official relationship with the Congress ends in a feeling, on my part, of gratitude that we have been able to do so much together. II. We now stand ten years past the midpoint of a century that has witnessed four major wars among great nations. Three of these involved our own country. Despite these holocausts America is today the strongest, the most influential and most productive nation in the world. Understandably proud of this pre-eminence, we yet realize that America's leadership and prestige depend, not merely upon our unmatched material progress, riches and military strength, but on how we use our power in the interests of world peace and human betterment. III. Throughout America's adventure in free government, our basic purposes have been to keep the peace; to foster progress in human achievement, and to enhance liberty, dignity and integrity among people and among nations. To strive for less would be unworthy of a free and religious people. Any failure traceable to arrogance, or our lack of comprehension or readiness to sacrifice would inflict upon us grievous hurt both at home and abroad.
Progress toward these noble goals is persistently threatened by the conflict now engulfing the world. It commands our whole attention, absorbs our very beings. We face a hostile ideology -- global in scope, atheistic in character, ruthless in purpose, and insidious in method. Unhappily the danger is poses promises to be of indefinite duration. To meet it successfully, there is called for, not so much the emotional and transitory sacrifices of crisis, but rather those which enable us to carry forward steadily, surely, and without complaint the burdens of a prolonged and complex struggle - with liberty the stake. Only thus shall we remain, despite every provocation, on our charted course toward permanent peace and human betterment.
Crises there will continue to be. In meeting them, whether foreign or domestic, great or small, there is a recurring temptation to feel that some spectacular and costly action could become the miraculous solution to all current difficulties.
Historically the Chinese have been a people who have always looked far ahead and played 'the long game' whereas US influence upon the west has been to encourage / demand the shortest of short term views ... eat a huge huge breakfast as you might not live until lunch time ( and ignore that obesity will undoubtedly shorten the lifespans of all )
Are mental health systems loaded ... ie designed to 'get you in through the door'
Overheard at a party
Man ... so, how do you shrinks decide who's in need of admission ?
Shrink ... we fill a bath with water and offer the person a teaspoon, a table spoon, a jug, a bucket and a large sponge with which to empty the bath.
Man And then ...
Shrink, smiling slyly, ... Well, which would you choose ?
Man ... I guess the bucket it's obviously faster?
Shrink ' Then, would you like a private room or to share with another patient? A person not in need of our professional care would simply pull the plug !
I suspect poor ole YubbaBubba has many such days and ( IMHO) there's no right or wring thing to do, nor indeed any need to 'do' anything nor to 'refrain from' doing anything ... and that applies to here too!
" To hide or not to hide a post ... that is The Question"
Sorry Bill S !!!
:-)
My own preference, and this may not suit others, is that I have a sense of humour so tend to be laughing at those who try to have a go ...
RE: Who is Reality Winner?
But, but ... but LJ, if he were to east his own words he'd be consuming the sourest food on the planet !