Depends how long the relationship was ... marriage took a little time to get over but then that was a big chunk of my adult life!
But in general I'd say I allow some time to grieve for 'The Loss' and then it's 'Next ...' It's important (IMHO) to acknowledge one's own sense of loss and work through that honestly, otherwise it becomes baggage and sours life
No point fretting or otherwise wasting much time over something that didn't work ...
Do they work for members ... depends, if you're looking 'local' then you might be lucky.
Reality check though ... many people seem to have been here forever and, I'm wondering, if for for many of the girls it's ALL 'just about being chased' and never allowing themselves to be caught!
I'd say it were a silly girl's silly game, if you were to ask me, and it's fuelling the MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) movement.
As an outcome - I suspect the world will look very different in 20 years time.
Rambling .... but absolutely, of course ... it's come to be expected from you and we all love it :-)
Just didn't see the connection 'on that occasion'
Carry on rambling ...
<<< Fosters amber nectar ... I took a sample of Foster's to a vet for analysis and he said 'Congrats, result is back and confirms that your dog is pregnant !'
And now ... most kiwis live on a diet of crap from the takeaway chains
I don't mind sending you a case of Lion Red ... it's pumped straight out of AKL harbour and canned for export to Australia. And still beats the pants off that foster's stuff for taste !
Only a Complete Nong with Mitty-like Aspirations would ever dream of calling Plymouth an 'Ocean City' when all you have is exposure to the English Channel !
But thanks for the post ... it looked like a lost cause for a while there
< --- one of those weak feeble beers typically consumed by southerners !!!
Indeed, but none of your list of marrionettes entered the White House with the goal of actually doing anything about the issues ... they just kept on stirring pot, abusing other sovereign nations and throwing guns and troops at the world like that was the only solution possible for anything. Anyone sets out to change ANYTHING they're sure to face obstruction from the obstinate and obstructive ... but who conducted the poll ... if it were US MSM they must be choking in their craw that they have to admit it's so high - they all said he'd be long gone by now !
36% The largest amount of any West Virginian's brain that's ever been known to have electrical activity of any kind ...
Absolutely NOTHING whatsoever to do with Maori culture ... he's a bogan who was out cold and pranked on by his stupid brother.
That it happened at all probably says more about SERCO (British prison operator contracted to NZ Government) and their acknowledged low performance standards ( as evidenced by 'Fight Club' not to mention death and suicides inside jail ... oh aye and the ready availability of copious amounts of homebrew ) That job must have taken many hours ... and there was not one single prison officer who noticed? That's the REAL STORY but easier to pick on one munter ?
Authentic Maori face tattoos or 'ta moko' in conjunction with body art, tell the story of the man's life ... nothing at all to do with drunk trash as illustrated here!
Haere mae
for the simple minded wazzock who created the thread ;-)
Regardless of the 'legality' of the act if someone were threatening my on life or the lives of those close to me then if I had the means of despatch at hand then yes.
If they do not have respect for my life then I consider that to be my right and with a bit of luck I'll have a good brief and a panel of intelligent jurors.
Perhaps what we're seeing now is akin to the course many terminal diseases ... there's a point where the disease is so well established, so deeply rooted that 'the end is inevitable' without some form of Divine Intervention ?
Maybe it's not enough for the decent people just 'to be decent' maybe there's a need for spiritually informed decency so that people behave well for a 'bigger reason' than their own human comfort ?
Do none of you people have your opinions ... are you waiting to be told what to think ?
The gent in question said it straightforwardly enough, he's very proud of his lineage and further back than 5 generations that was the nature of warfare 'If my ancestors were great warriors in their day and eating the enemy after killing him was 'the norm of the day' how can I be proud with accepting that part also occurred ?
Many religions and cultures believed in devouring the enemy ... so, if their are religious wars should the deceased combatants be eaten rather than left to waste ?
This comes after a conversation with a real NZ native who proudly told me his ancestors ate one another !
Brilliant conversation ... you would have to have been there !!!
I guess you're from a different era Moose and you have my respect.
An era when to be SELECTED for an officer's role was an indication of the high level of ethic and conduct that was expected from a candidate in that era. A time when far more failed than were ever accepted ?
Now, the police (here UK / USA and many other places) have let themselves down by their own misconduct so many times over so many decades that they no longer are regarded by the higher echelons of of our youth as a 'respectable' career choice ... so they keep on lowering the physical and educational criteria just to fill uniform and 'keep the numbers up'
It's plainly many are 'in the force' for quite the wrong reason ... ie related to the use of 'force' rather than the delivery of community 'service
If you were to read 'Into the Forest' written by former NZ police officer and later National MP Ross Meurant I suspect you might see how things changed!
RE: How do you deal with a breakup
Depends how long the relationship was ... marriage took a little time to get over but then that was a big chunk of my adult life!But in general I'd say I allow some time to grieve for 'The Loss' and then it's 'Next ...' It's important (IMHO) to acknowledge one's own sense of loss and work through that honestly, otherwise it becomes baggage and sours life
No point fretting or otherwise wasting much time over something that didn't work ...