I've been here for quite a few months. Too much was going on all the time. I browsed over the topics, and posts, but I was feeling down for a few months and just recently started feeling like sharing my thoughts. Now I'm feeling a lively and want to share.
I don't even know what everyone is talking about, insults. It's brought up so much, I feel like it's flashbacks from a bad movie.
I find it challenging and stimulating to try to squeeze in, and not step on toes, yet be myself. That means people are reading what is being said. That's a good thing, right?
If you weren't physically attracted "at first" If it is at first, they aren't family yet.
After you are already committed, and the person's looks change, as everyone does with age, of course you love them, they are your family and you have already grown together in a way that nothing can divide, right?
Physical attraction to me doesn't mean they are "physically attractive" in the cosmetic sense. There must be that chemistry between us for me to continue dating them. The chemistry definitely includes a mental and emotional connection.
Sure, they're great. Fresh outlook, energetic, upbeat younger guys are fantastic. Been there and done that, and now within eight years younger is my limit. Can't start up with someone who still wants to have kids, I'd be wasting his time. Rather not start up with anyone who has young kids, unless they are his grand kids.
Yes, yes and yes, I'm estatic to say. I have had some fantastic experiences and some average. Also very happy to say I've never met anyone who I felt uncomfortable around. All were extremely nice and if things didn't work out, it was not because of anything any of them did. There must be a chemistry to continue, unless it is mutual that you will just be friends. That's usually not the case, where I've been concerned. So to anyone who says meeting people online is "dangerous" haha no it isn't, it can be no more dangerous than dating someone from work or yep, even church. You just hear about the internet bad experiences more often.
Being married doesn't mean they will suddenly share household responsibilities or any of that other good stuff. Living with them is a way of finding out how things might be. Even then it's no guarantee, there ARE NONE. There are no answers and no guarantees.
Are the ones you are coming across indecent? Don't bother to answer, they are probably asses, or you wouldn't be asking.
By decent, you must mean, unattached, have a job, responsible, blah blah.... someone who wants to settle down, a nice guy. Yes they are all over the place! But the question is, what are they looking for? Indecent women!
Try to find out online what the laws are in your state. If you have access to the will, and you are able to buy a blank form, perhaps you can retype it word for word, but make the changes according to the wishes of your mother. Then have it signed by two people who are NOT involved in the Will and who will not benefit in any way from it. Was the original Will notarized? I am pretty sure in Calif., Wills and Deeds cannot be notarized. After you have prepared it, you may want to have a probate atty. check it out. If all is legal, don't forget to destroy the one you don't want used.
I wish I had someone to talk to
not scaredcough coughhhh
maybe the reason for the sunglasses is my eyes are bloodshot