the older one gets the more skepticism grows... sadly this is not solely a one gender issue. As surely as one wagers on the amount of rainfall or how many times times one must ask for a date...theseae only answers taht can be known by experience...you asked where? you yourself answered "Seems?"
fellow CS member I can only respond with these heart felt words... You sir, are not alone in this search for what is paramount to the Holy Grail, so rare yet differnet to us all.
BEST OF LUCK TO YOU SIR... If it comes too easy... beware!
anyone onliune that devises a letter that says for me "riches with no effort"...I'm reporting. the mere thougytt that someone anyone could possible give me any amount of money from another country..its absurd!!
However if you're as stupid as the person who accepted and made change for a 200.00 American Bill.... not only should you be fired but you should pay the shortage in your shifts till....
Final answer...
if your'e that greedy.... welcome to the lesson...you'll not soon forget. nothing worth anything is that easy.
I guess that pertains also to those that within a week/month of being online searching for a mate should make a rule of also... true love was/is and always be NEVER EASY. with out trail and tribulations what real foundation can love have?
you are the type that (for what ever reason) can create a conversation with "just anybody"no hedonistic motives" JusT a Hello how are you or the sim[plw conversation starters like can you believe what they charging for this?" kind of stuff.
I'm no Don Juan but seriously, has anyone else been effected positively or negatively by their ability to 'just talk'?
advise to those whose "others" have to contend and to those who are constantly defending themselves with "I only asked, or commented on..." is over possessiveness a problem with your relationship how do you deal with it?
America's Overnight Sensation Joe the Plumber Owes $1,200 in Taxes Ohio Has a Lien on Him for Nearly $1,200 in Taxes By IMAEYEN IBANGA and RUSSELL GOLDMAN Oct. 16, 2008
heres the BEeyouitfull part, some anonyomous party paid it for him..
and now Joe the" tax evader non licensed" plumber has aspirations to run for politics.
profiles are like 30 second TV/radio adverts... it only reveals what we ourselves want to portray.
Whereas, in forums, such as this one more can be learned.
By ones candor and opinions on so many topics, you know the types i refer to...the Yes folks, those argumentative types, those "suck up" types and the delusional types.
Yeah, profiles show what you think of yourself, but words are one thing and actions and responses to questions and/or issues speak way louder than a personal"pick me" ad.
lets see we kept ourselves in shape by joining team sports and was berated because it took up most of our freetime
secondly from those experiences of 20 plus years we are not blind nor stupid we see what and where it was getting us. much in the way of a woman once married who let herself go until the divorce then she starts with the maintaining of appearances and looks and such.
recall the 700 billion and then Hell yes, I agree NO to every one.... but they opened this avenue and damn them all if now they want to place a detour sign on the easy road they so conveniently "overnight"built for the financial industry.
I see this as Apples and Oranges... the manufacturing industry is vital to Americas economy... those financial wizards have frist hand knowledge of how the money works and travels...yet they of their own doing are failing even now. yet to belittle the manufacturing industry that provides more jobs and investors in stocks and 401 and ira's are at risk... feeding one village idiot and not the other is just wrong.
who's next to receive a fistful of cash??? health industry, education???
Thank you beautiful lady for your kind encouraging words.
secondly, this is why i am asking about this time of year yo meet someone ewho normally is so busy that what we are actually experiencing is a "dry spell" for them. thus you not really seeing the real person per say. as to the season of joy, that too can be merely a pretense to fill the otherwise void they are currently experiencing.
I still am leery of beginning anything new at this time, because, if not for my own little demons that appear this time of year then the belief that i am not alone in this predicament.
And how many will publicly announce the simple fact that they are indeed experiencing loneliness or seasonal depression?
depression is at its greatest strength this time of year, all those holidays in such close proximity. the season itself has a depression name SAD seasonal acquired depression.
should more caution be used before making the commitment at this time of year?
I'll admit I'm drinking more frequently... is it depression or celebrating the holiday season?
let me share this, I danced with 3 strange women, ( strange meaning I did not know their names.) even after trhe dances
i struck out for 1 reason ( MO), honesty.... it's sad when others before you left such a bad impression that regardless of who y9u are you are prejugded....by a past encounter (s).
here is the question... how does one... when does one decide what is past is past?
or probably the most important question is why should I thinmk it'll be different with them?
drinking and driving, shrooms and driving demerol and driving prozac and driving, librium and driving, all every single prescription or natural substance that alters the mind should be against the law.
damn this mentality if your in an altered state by something illegal you are guilty of a crime while if you on legal medication the rules are different.
I hear too many times people stating nay bragging that they don't do illegal drugs yet when looking for car keys they pull out 2 and 3 bottles of Prescribed drugs yet they are allowed on the road...... yeah theres a double standard that only gods knows how many lives are lost because of it.
A Japanese company (Toyota) and an American company (Ford Motors) decided to have a canoe race on the Missouri River Both teams practiced long and hard to reach their peak performance before the race.
On the big day, the Japanese won by a mile.
The Americans, very discouraged and depressed, decided to investigate the reason for the crushing defeat. A management team made up of senior management was formed to investigate and recommend appropriate action.
Their conclusion was the Japanese had 8 people rowing and 1 person steering, while the American team had 7 people steering and 2 people rowing.
Feeling a deeper study was in order; American management hired a consulting company and paid them a large amount of money for a second opinion.
They advised, of course, that too many people were steering the boat, while not enough people were rowing.
Not sure of how to utilize that information, but wanting to prevent another loss to the Japanese, the rowing team's management structure was totally reorganized to 4 steering supervisors, 2 area steering superintendents and 1 assistant superintendent steering manager.
They also implemented a new performance system that would give the 2 people rowing the boat greater incentive to work harder. It was called the 'Rowing Team Quality First Program,' with meetings, dinners and free pens for the rowers. There was discussion of getting new paddles, canoes and other equipment, extra vacation days for practices and bonuses. The pension program was trimmed to 'equal the competition' and some of the resultant savings were channeled into morale boosting programs and teamwork posters.
The next year the Japanese won by two miles.
Humiliated, the American management laid-off one rower, halted development of a new canoe, sold all the paddles, and canceled all capital investments for new equipment. The money saved was distributed to the Senior Executives as bonuses.
The next year, try as he might, the lone designated rower was unable to even finish the race (having no paddles,) so he was laid off for unacceptable performance, all canoe equipment was sold and the next year's racing team was out-sourced to India .
Sadly, the End.
Here's something else to think about: Ford has spent the last thirty years moving all its factories out of the US , claiming they can't make money paying American wages.
TOYOTA has spent the last thirty years building more than a dozen plants inside the US . Until lately... TOYOTA was making billions in profits while Ford racked up billions in losses.
until recently, Ford folks where still scratching their heads, and collecting bonuses... and now wants the Government to 'bail them out' .
So it would not be as devastating to the worlds economy as Citicorp or AIG , or the other financial investments firms going under? Or did those organizations just have a better "pitch man" to secure the loans?
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RE: No good single women anymore looking for a decent guy ?
the older one gets the more skepticism grows... sadly this is not solely a one gender issue.As surely as one wagers on the amount of rainfall or how many times times one must ask for a date...theseae only answers taht can be known by experience...you asked where? you yourself answered "Seems?"
fellow CS member I can only respond with these heart felt words...
You sir, are not alone in this search for what is paramount to the Holy Grail, so rare yet differnet to us all.
BEST OF LUCK TO YOU SIR...
If it comes too easy... beware!