If I said you had a beautiful body..

Would you hold it against me?


Any native (and good non-native) English speakers will know that sentence can be read in two different ways, with different meanings.


Words are powerful, but that power can be both productive or destructive depending on the meaning of the author, or more importantly, how they are read by the reader.

This is especially true on a medium such as CS where the written word is the main means of communication.

Posts are sometimes misconstrued for a number of reasons. It could be simply misread; defensiveness; ego; current mood; agenda, etc., or any combination of the above.

Sometimes it is a good thing that the post is misinterpreted. I read one post last week and I went 'Whoooo,.. that is a dig! '
But the person to whom it was directed, read it completely differently and not as a negative against them .

But often, it is simply an innocent statement taken up incorrectly, and maybe not even related to the person who misinterprets it, and suddenly world war three ensues.


CS is a microcosm of the real world.
It is just as well nobody here has access to weapons of mass destruction grin
Post Comment

Comments (79)

scold Molly slid the comment by me on page one rolling on the floor laughing
Now his reply "ladies...."makes sense. Touche'.grin
Hahaha.. its all good.. smile
laugh …you are probably right Molly .. probably wink
I don't doubt it, Cach wink
Incu, you're beyond smooth cool
Molls.. fortunately I still haven't slid off my bike.. grin motorcycle
Incu, you must have velcro on the seat laugh
Molls.. I've known people who were so smooth that even velcro couldn't hold them in one place.. wink
Incu, I don't trust ultra-smooth scold
Neither do I Molls.. uh oh
Smooth operators dunno ¿?
Chuchi.. smooth is good.. just the right amount though.. cool
LOL! sure, maybe you are right ....writing
Well then Molly, if an English man said that to me, what could most possibly that means?
I am not an english speaker so I would really know..
Kal, it could mean hold your body against him, in the physical sense.

Or, it could mean to think badly of someone
If you say it to any male-the answer is always YES and a hug,smile.laugh guaranteed.
I don't say it too often cool
Thanks for that profound post, Pat grin
I'm just thinking, if a ball-lift is cheaper than a face-lift, which it probably is, maybe its better to have that procedure done so they sit nicer and present better.
Pat, maybe a nice pair of rainbow-coloured braces would do that job well, without having to resort to expensive and painful surgery.
peace in the valley no fighting sun shining here lovely and warm time to get up and out ..
You already know what I say about your body wink

Words are powerful it all depends on how you want to take them.
JJ, it's gorgeous here too...but I'm stuck indoors mumbling
For you, Mic grin


Spotted In Dublin: One Of The Most Perfectly Timed Photos Of The Year


Embedded image from another site
wow shock

hmmm
I like your reactions, Kal laugh
Thanks for the heads up on Socrates's blog, Molly cheers

gingerbread
You're welcome, Mic hug
wheres all seems therecall on holiday
Thanks for the earworm, Molly, I HATE that song mumbling
Sorry for that, missus grin
Yes, I believe you. tongue
Awwwwww...thanks, Molly hug blushing


I've been told that a lot wink

barf barf barf

laugh laugh laugh
Only if you said it very nicely!blushing
I always say it nicely, User batting
Pasta, that is good advice.



"Act in haste, regret at leisure "
Setting up a Go Fund me page for Dedovix to #SpreadtheCSLoveUSALadiesapplause
ashlander/.....heres 10 cents.......good luck........rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Hell we can't even Skype him here for 10 cents. I'll take it though.Any off it,as his sponsor.laugh
Post Comment - Let others know what you think about this Blog.