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Profile Honesty

Profile Honesty

How honest should we be on our profiles? Would it put people off, or would it simply attract the type we are really looking for, and who are looking for us? Should physical disabilities/abnormalities be put out there? What about mental issue

The Chase

The Chase

Courting, to use Cat’s phraseology, is usually a game of cat and mouse; the predator and the prey. Not in a bad sense, but one usually does the chasing, and even in today’s modern world, that is usually the man. So, how do you play the ga

Compulsory Blogging

Compulsory Blogging.

This is my first blog - so please be gentle with me! While perusing posts on the blogs, I have noticed how member's personalities become exposed over time. It seems to me, that this sort of interaction is a much better way of getting

Expectations Part 1

Expectations. Part 1

The following blog https://www.connectingsingles.com/blog_96449_1/when_you_are_expected_to_pay_for_lunch_or_dinner_o.htm titled "When you are expected to pay for lunch or dinner on the first date offline. Online dating part 2" was created on t

Young Asian Women with Older White Men

Young Asian Women with Older White Men...

There are many advantages for both young Asian woman and an older White man in an interracial relationship. Is it really worth it?

What to do

What to do....

I need your help. I have a confession to make and I don't know what steps to take next. I have a crush on a CS member. He has no idea. We chat here and there, mostly just banter on the blogs, and I try to keep things sounding platonic becau

Its been a long day

It's been a long day

I need one of those hugs that turn into sex.

My Kind Of Date

My Kind Of Date

When was the last time you went out for a date and really enjoyed it? I joined another dating site a week ago and meet a nice 47 years old man. We agreed to meet at Starbuck's last night. I left work a little early to meet the guy at 12 midnigh

Recognise anyone

Recognise anyone?

It’s just a bit of fun, not looking to offend anyone, but have you ever spotted one or more of these female single types? I think there are a couple missing The guys on the other hand seem to boil down to two types, flirts or not flirts .

Would you

Would you?

Would you tell a woman that you know has a boyfriend and you have heard her complain about him in the past..."If you are ever looking for a new man, I think you are a nice, responsible, pretty woman, and I am single." The old me would never want t

Odd couples

Odd couples

I sometimes think I'm a bit too fussy. All I ask is a man with the brain, body, and sense of humour, to rival this trio. http://photos.connectingsingles.com/blogs

Artificial Friendship

Artificial Friendship?

I was newly struck by the artificial nature of being online after reading the responses on a recent blog named ‘Dinner For Six’. What particularly struck me was the way some of us – I include myself here – apologized to our other friends

Jims CS matchmaking service

Jim's CS matchmaking service.

For the fee of a comment to do so, if you request so, I will match you with someone on CS, who I feel is most appropriate for you. This could open up a new possibility for you. (Dislaimer - that does not mean the person you are matched with will

To Bowl A Maiden Over

To Bowl A Maiden Over

This is not about cricket, but you will need to understand one or two cricket terms here. For the benefit of those not into cricket: a maiden over is when you can bowl 6 balls in succession without conceding a single run.

Sell By Date

Sell-By Date

Like food, all relationships have a sell-by date. Relationships started way back when the average life-expectancy would have been only 25-40 years of age. So a lifetime commitment to a relationship wasn't quite so long, 10-15 years if you were

Our experiences in dating here at CS or anywhere

Our experience(s) in dating here at CS or anywhere

Maybe some of us on here have anything to share about our journey in finding the "one". Considering all the fake profiles, scammers they are called, what truly is our chances of finding him/her on this site? Or anywhere for that matter. I ha

You dont attract what you want You attract who you are

You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are.

You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are The moment you’re happy on your own is when the right relationship enters your life (Myke Macapinlac) Many people complain about not being able to find a partner, or finding the wrong one

Dating for the Aware

Dating for the Aware

Having been a member of CS for approximately 2 months, I’ve made certain observations. 1. From reading the comments of others, I’ve concluded that some people have been members for many years. Although the site may offer a sense of camaraderie an

What would it take for you to fall in love again

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Can you fall in love again Would you want to fall in love again? Does love only have to benefit you? Is love a game to you? Is love a means to an end for you? Do you think love is real? What?....Love?....what the hell is that? lo

Lying about age

Lying about age.

From memory, I can’t recall ever being in contact with someone on CS that didn’t lie about his or her age. Although I now state my correct age, for quite a while my profile stated I was 60, although at the time I was only 58. My reasons for this w

Im in love with two women

I’m in love with two women

Can a man be in love with two women? I love my new girlfriend and she loves me… But I am also in love with the mother of her son and she is in love with me too. I don’t want to lose either of them. Should I tell them about each other?

Kissing frogs

Kissing frogs

Why, WHY, go looking for more frogs to kiss when you already met someone? Don’t we join singles website to meet someone special, to buy a ticket in the love lottery and hope to hit the jackpot? Okay, not every ticket pays out, not every date rings th

Odd couple

Odd couple

I met these people, and for all I know they met on CS although that would be a fantastic coincidence and, if they read this blog, a little embarrassing. So I shall say nice things. They ARE nice. He is, I don't know, middle-aged, very fit and br

Relationships and Algorithms

Relationships and Algorithms

Many dating sites use mathematical algorithms to match people. And charge a lot of money for this service. However, according to an article I recently read in the Washington Post, they are no better than random choice. Why? Because they mat

Ask me anything

Ask me anything

I'm here to help you in anything you want help with, I've been told by many that I'm good with giving advice and I'm a good person to have a conversation with... With that said you can ask me anything... This blog is about what ever you want to ta

The love thing

The love thing

I have blogged on this before, but I never got an answer that made sense to me so bear with me. To get the right answer, you have to ask the right question, so I’m trying. (I know, very ) I’m picky, okay, and there haven’t been many men

One Year Today

One Year Today

If my memory serves me right I have been with CS exactly one year today. It had been an eventful year and a lot of things had happened. Back on the home front life was colorful and interesting; with a few downs and many more ups :thum

I Wonder What Im Looking For

I Wonder What I’m Looking For

The last few years of my marriage were bad, the last couple were horrendous. Would things have turned out differently if I’d been a better partner? Probably, but I’ll never know for sure. Much of what went wrong was my fault, but how much of it th

The difficulty with finding someone online

The difficulty with finding someone online

Is it really that difficult? How many long-term relationships have formed due to this site? I have been here a few years now and I know of maybe 2 relationships that have formed. My friend who introduced me to this site found his wife on this si

When Love Comes Knocking At Your Door

When Love Comes Knocking At Your Door.

When somebody knocks on my front door, I open it. I think the majority of people do. Especially here in South Africa because most of us have safety gates to prevent surprises when we open the door. Something that was not necessary when I was a child.

What Men and Women WantChanges As They Grow Older

What Men and Women Want…Changes As They Grow Older

This is solely based on my observations. I would welcome any opinion that could clarify and contribute more meaning to my following statements::wink: Women in their 20s desire men around their age who are good looking, funny, clever and

Basic Human Needs

Basic Human Needs

If a woman is married to an uncommunicative man, she has the choice of talking to herself, not very satisfactory, or else sharing with friends, or even strangers. That is considered acceptable to all. Right? When a man is married to a nonsexual w

Womenfor Dummies

Women…for Dummies

This short but concise guide will help men have a little more understanding on women and how to deal with them. Women have been around for a very long time, practically the same time as men; however this fact has been forgotten after hundreds of g

Just being curious here

Just being curious here

Yes I know this is a bit of a piggyback post because OldBlue is asking something similar - but not exactly the same. Why would someone want you, what do YOU bring to the table? Your looks? Your brain? Your interests and hobbies? Perfect world

A Six Or A Nix

A Six Or A Nix

If the anticipation is really better than the act then I guess there will always be another mountain to climb. So now that I have bowled my Maiden Over I want to hit her for a six as well. I will have to take strike on Middle

Can it work

Can it work?

Long distance relationships are problematic and demand a lot of sacrifice; to say the least. It brings about many logistic problems. Visiting each other is fun, but once the romances had been sorted out, the real problems start; for such a relationsh

Tips to date a Spanish woman

Tips to date a Spanish woman

Tips to date a Spanish woman. I do recognize I'm not the typical Spanish woman, but I have a good idea what Spanish women like and expect from a man. Spanish women are exotic and have a style of their own.So here are some dos and don'ts if you ar

Perfect match but which one

Perfect match - but which one?

Let's call him A (for Adventure ) he's around 50, a good technician, will never have a problem finding a job, right now he's up for technical manager at his company with one other candidate and feeling increasingly stressed. He and his wife us

Divorced

Divorced?

This act of treason had always been the biggest imaginable taboo in my family and I have the dubious honor to be the first in the family to have attained such status. Since then an uncle, my sister and a cousin got divorced but that did no

Gamechangers

Gamechangers

We all, whether on our profile, or just in our heads, have a list of the characteristics and qualities we would like in a potential partner. The list can be mind-boggling in some cases , both for the prospective partner, and even more importan

Still Waiting For The Right One

Still Waiting For The Right One?

Then I have bad news for you. He or she may never come. That person does not exist and is not likely to be born in the next millennium. He or she is only a figment of your imagination. Even if you should be lucky enough to find that 10

I want a wife

I want a wife

Map's blog raised a subject I feel strongly on, and he's fine with me stealing the direction it took. I want a wife. A little woman to do the cooking, housework, laundry, would be heaven. Her evenings would be her own, too, she could g

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