It's probably too late and this comment will never get read BUT just in case you pop back in I want to say this!
While that may be the case with some women I find that by being nice and courteous to women works alot with the others that do accept you. I am not a hunk but I have had my share of women that were gorgeous and many that were average looking. Some relationships lasted a long time some a few weeks.
Again, the key. Just be nice and see where it takes you. Don't be "hurt" or retaliate if you get snubbed because you will be and that's they're choice.
Amia! You are a beautiful lady. You are intelligent! AND you are young!!!
Smile like you never smiled before and some young handsome guy will pop right into your life and say, "What a dynamite smile you have"! And BINGO!!!! There he is!!
I live in a small trailer and my propane furnace just busted on me as I am reading your blog!!! The trailer is quite old and if the furnace has been in it since day one it's earned it's keep.
Fortunately, California does not get real cold like snowy and windy cold so I will just sit here bundled up to stay warm. I say that because anything below 70 is freezing for me and always has been! Later on I'll go down to Walmart and buy an electric space heater because they're about $40 as opposed to a furnace going for over $250. We have trailer park advantages in that the water & power is included in the rent!
I say this with the experience of being a teenager and growing into middle age and now way past that time at age 71. But that's the way it is when your younger. I look back and remember people I extended a friendly gesture to and being snubbed. Especially during the teen years. I also remember snubbing others and regretting that I did
I have always loved people and love talking to them. My problem is that whenever I do some women think I'm trying to hit on them. And that is not so. As a result, I'm not as out going as I used to be.
That may be your problem too, but with men. You like people, you talk to them and married men interpret that as "the signal" that you are hitting on them.
It's puzzling that people think that way but that's the way it is.
My son and I were once going to get these. He was going to have a Calvin put on and I was going to get a Hobbs put on. We never did and my guess is that we would have tatted the biceps!
Kinda reminds me of the place I used to work at in Los Angeles. There were plenty of real humorous characters there. This lady used to go to the drinking fountain all the time and one day this guy asks her if she was taking a tranquilizer.
She replies, "No, something for my nerves"! hee hee
Yeah, little girls and I mean about 10 to 15 guessing by the sound of their voice. It was quite a shocker. So even though some people believe it's only men they would really be surprised if they really knew.
Politicians are exactly that. I don't use the different TV political debates and primaries to make my choice. Nor do i rely on the press who just rake mud. I wait for the voting material and I read those then I make my choice!
I have always forgotten things. Keys, wallet, where I leave important papers and on and on. I used to beat myself over it but I don't anymore. I read a book about forgetting once (the title and the author are long forgotten! hee hee). But it basically said that forgetting is so common one shouldn't worry about it. So I don't!!!
This is what I do because God says that HE will judge and not the press and certainly not me!
I will vote for who I want to. I will keep my choice to myself because it is nobodies business but mine.
And the press does not affect me. These "correspondents" think too much muck because it sells newspapers! And there's a whole lot other news than the political stuff!
Hey Shaun! My name is Ed and you can e-mail me any time. I am a Christian and I really believe in the healing powers of Jesus Christ. But if your not into Jesus then we can just talk about what's on your mind without discussing God!
RE: all women
It's probably too late and this comment will never get read BUT just in case you pop back in I want to say this!While that may be the case with some women I find that by being nice and courteous to women works alot with the others that do accept you. I am not a hunk but I have had my share of women that were gorgeous and many that were average looking. Some relationships lasted a long time some a few weeks.
Again, the key. Just be nice and see where it takes you. Don't be "hurt" or retaliate if you get snubbed because you will be and that's they're choice.