relationships
A common question I think that comes up between two people as they are beginning to form a relationship is...what do you want or need from a relationship.I would be wary of those who want and need too much...or perhaps anything at all.
Wouldn't it be great if people wanted and needed nothing....but instead, were grateful instead.
What a great way to reciprocate love.
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Thanks Jim.
:)
Johnny, that description sounds like you are a participant in the tv show called 90 Day Fiancee.
People who pay thousands of dollars to get a Visa for someone from another country, some of them marry in 90 days, other say forget about it. Some get married and when the marriage doesn't work out they have to get a lawyer to force the person back to their country and like you said they have to support that person for 10 years. Who in their right mind would get involved in a nightmare like that. People who are desperate. That's who.
But in a big country with a huge population, there must surely be one person there that would fit the bill.
I ain't got a pot of gold
Girl I ain't even got a rainbow
But I've heard that love is where
Treasure can be found
Don't expect too much from me
And I won't let you down...
Interesting way to look at things anyway.
No, I don't need or want anything in material wise and emotionally. I want the freedom to be me and give freedom for him to be him.
But him being him is going to hinder my being me, I can be grateful if he just leaves me alone and fly a kite.
I think I get what you mean. Some people are blessings to be a part of our lives. We just have to be grateful for that.
Italian and Chinese cuisine is okay. But can that kind of relationship survive without the warm desserts in bed?
I am watching that show right now. :)
There must be...but yet I am still single.
What do I know.
By default, anything you desire from a partner should be fulfilled without having this huge list they need to adhere to.
That includes you being completely fulfilled in the bedroom until you can't take anymore.
I used to date a Jill, but I am not Jack.
I will look at your blog....thanks for sharing.
...of course there are many gray areas to everything...
This is just in general.
Your kind of relationship sounds very tiring.
Yes...very similar.
It is interesting the comments.
I don't know...now.
But if a woman has this mentality that "she can be picky."
She is probably right...she can be.
But I wonder at what point she thinks she has no right to be picky anymore.....like after she is in an exclusive relationship...or perhaps married.
Now if she feels trapped in a relationship and she feels she can still be picky....
well, that I would think would cause a conflict with her emotions.
I say this...because I feel a lot of women feel that way....that they can be picky and have every right to be picky.
But anyway, I am getting off the subject. I was actually going to write a blog about this subject. Maybe later.
Thanks SA for sharing that.
Thanks for sharing.
I would suggest doing what suits you the best...as I am sure you and anyone else who reads this blog is going to do.
That also includes your bedding practices as well. I am with you in that department regarding being serious about that.
Happy. Today no school. Less traffic. Less time spent on the road.
I didn't have time to celebrate my mother's birthday last week. Today I have allocated time for that. She was thoughtful and told me to finish my work on her birthday. But I don't mind spoiling her even though it's a belated celebration.
Enjoy your evening Johnny. Take care and be good.
I remember a past girlfriend who I’d not known too long, she asked me to co-sign for her to buy a new car. She said if I did this, she would give me Anything I want. She repeated and stressed the word Anything!
When I explained to her, I’d rather not sign because if she doesn’t pay the payments, I’m liable.
Next thing, she shouted, “Well, f#*@ you then! I don’t want anything from you. Stick a pencil up your @##! Don’t call me anymore!”
So, you see, she was a nice well spoken lady. She decided she didn’t want anything from me.
Nice Robert. be careful with some of those lassies. She will ask for the George and stick you with that pencil.