Listening to Kevin Samuels....for the men...What is a low value woman...
S.I.G.N.According to Kevin Samuels:
A low value woman is...
S = Shame (They will shame you).
I = Insult ( " " insult " ).
G = Guilt ( " " guilt " ).
N = Need to be right (they will always need to be right).
Which leads to these types of traits:
no accountability
no honesty
no apologies
What do you think men and women....do you agree with him? Is Kevin Samuels right about low value women?
Happy Friday all.
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I understand. So, what do you think about my questions? Do you think those qualities he mentions indicates a low value woman?
As far as me personally, my thoughts on this....
There are some great women out there.
However.
I have seen personally there are women out there with the same qualities KS indicates as a low value woman.
And for me personally, life is not fun with a woman with those low value traits.
There are both ignorant men and women out there that do not understand what is valuable in a relationship. And for you FF, if you have the unfortunate experience of being with a woman with those low value traits because you got blinded by her beauty....I feel sorry for you.
Thus....educating people to the traits of low value, I think...is very important.
I think many people do not understand this as well.
As far as who KS is as a person, I do not know him well enough to make a determination on that. Some of the things he says, I feel are a bit harsh as well. But, I do not know if that is just the harshness of reality...or where exactly it is coming from. However, I will say, much of his message seems to be on point....and valuable information to those out there who do not understand the dynamics of relationships.
Do you think people these days understand the dynamics of relationships?
Human beings are social creatures....they want to be around other humans...and form relationships.
So, if they want to be part of a relationship, I would think they need to understand the dynamics of a relationship.
If they want to remain single, then fine....do as you wish. But if you want to be in a relationship, you need to share yourself...it is not "your way or the highway"...it is give and take and an element of selflessness has to come into play. It has to.
Thank you for your psychological breakdown of his presentation. Sincerely, very informative.
Does that display his knowledge though? He understands human nature of a deeper level than most? It could be...it could also point out that he is willing to go to deep levels for manipulation. It could be that as well.
However, does it discount the information that he is sharing about relationship dynamics?
Remember, he is teaching us about relationships.
He is not teaching us on how to be single.
I agree that people have to be careful with whom they associate and align themselves with. Not all are terrible people and not all are great people. But there are some out there worth aligning yourself with, only time tells who they are.
Which, to be outright honest with you....is NOT what I am doing here.
You are having me trying to defend a stance or a point of view that I am sharing....and it is a stance or a point of view I am not even trying to share.
I do not dislike women Jac...and I honestly thing KS does not dislike women.
...end of story.
What Sea has shared is what I recall the Bible teaching about women.
Thanks Sea...and I agree with you. We are facing something very intelligent today...and in my opinion...and it is not a good thing.
I do appreciate your insight and thank you for sharing it.
We got a little off topic here and that is fine. This blog was intended to get the opinion on what KS identifies as a low value woman.
I thought it was worth while to share to open they eyes to those wishing to become involved in a relationship, and possible traits to be aware of.
Of course, this does not discount the traits of a low value man. I think someone shared a video on that as well...and I think that is equally important to be aware of too.
However, with men being primarily visual creatures....they should be aware that that shallowness could indeed get them in trouble with the wrong woman, and to be mindful of other traits as well.
Thanks again Jac.
Either gender that initiates platonic relations with those methods will not receive the time or desire and be lacking an inner circle of support and comfort that is healthy and based on mutual respect.
This foundation has potential for intimacy and trust.
I would not have imagined that this was not taught early in life.
Faith,family and friends have been under attack socially and by the institutions we used trust.It is a s.i.g.n.
The comments were very telling and you are handling it with aplomb.
(respectfully too)
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I hope you got something special yesterday in your St.Nicks stocking.
So you guys/gals don't think humans should have any sort of traits/characteristics that you should or should not value in another human being.
Women have things they value in a man, equally...now as we get educated....men have things value in a woman. Is that so wrong? Two both of you I ask.
I've noticed a few men on the blogs that show the same trait. That includes having the final word in a 'debate'.
Capisjhh?
It is almost meant to be informative as well.
I am not trying to date men.
You still never answered the question.
"You don't have the right to declare that some women are of a low value as human beings just because you don't like them, or the way they behave."
Now, what about that answer to my question?
You and Jac are the ones trying to turn this blog into something else.
Okay FF...what about you then. Would you allow anyone (including women) into your home to live with?
The answer is...
Of course not.
Why not?
If I were interested in dating you, we could converse with one another for a period of time where you could determine my SIGN for yourself. However, I am not trying to date a man.
Sorry.
Why not?
I figured I would have gotten an apology from you for tell me I don't like women. Actually Jac, I am lying. I knew you wouldn't give an apology.
Regarding you answer the question, you really do not have to. Everyone knows the answer.
I figured I would have gotten an apology from you for tell me I don't like women. Actually Jac, I am lying. I knew you wouldn't give an apology.
Lead like a man.
This conversation between you and I has gone far enough. Until the next one.
Just sayn'.
James 2:8-9 – Treat each other equally.
If you really fulfill the royal law according to the Scripture, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself,” you are doing well. But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors.
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Loving thy neighbor as thyself as the 11rh Commandment states is a lifelong journey that we should all try every day to achieve. When we break a conversation down to who is right and who is wrong we miss the essence of Gods word, and that is Love.
For me, the message has opened my eyes a bit to be more careful in the vetting process when allowing somebody to enter your life on a personal level.
Sea, I do agree about the message of love in the Bible.
I hope others have found this blog of interest and of use.
Happy Friday once again all.