Listening to Kevin Samuels....for the men...What is a low value woman...
S.I.G.N.According to Kevin Samuels:
A low value woman is...
S = Shame (They will shame you).
I = Insult ( " " insult " ).
G = Guilt ( " " guilt " ).
N = Need to be right (they will always need to be right).
Which leads to these types of traits:
no accountability
no honesty
no apologies
What do you think men and women....do you agree with him? Is Kevin Samuels right about low value women?
Happy Friday all.
Comments (79)
Let's be heroes mate
I had the mindset as you too...where a man had to be a high value man to a woman. However, with that mindset, men are only setting themselves up to fail in the long run...with some women.
What I mean by that...women are always looking for the best man they can find. Let's say for example us as men be the best version of ourselves...that still does not stop our woman from seeking out a higher value man. And believe it or not, there will always be a higher value man. So the most recent saying I have heard holds true, "She is not yours, it is only your time."
I would encourage men to really listen to some of the things online breaking down women. I don't ask you to believe any of it...but if you have experience with women....I ask you keep and open mind to what you are hearing about women and see if it does not apply to your experience(s) with women or not.
I think men would be surprised.
By the way Grand, I have provide a link to the specific episode I am referring to in this blog.
I would also encourage women as well to listen to some of these things and see if it does not apply to their real life situations they are in right now.
Peace all....and again....Happy Friday.
High value..for either gender...
I do agree, men have a responsibility as well. ...good men anyway.
I think you are part to mostly right with the high value woman...in KS's definition. I know nurturing and peaceful are parts of it.
Top traits of a high-value woman:
She has high self-esteem. ...
She is kind. ...
She is dedicated to learning more. ...
She is not malicious. ...
She is not afraid to speak her mind. ...
Her happiness comes from within. ...
She prioritizes self-care. ...
She knows how to delegate.
Those are just a few.
Some people you like, some you don't. It doesn't change their value.
I think you are part to mostly right with the high value woman...in KS's definition. I know nurturing and peaceful are parts of it.
The video you cited begins with women being under male authority; the SIGN thing is about traits women must have in order to be subjugated by men. Being peaceful in this context is about not challenging male authority - KS just wants to be nutured by women whilst he fails to nuture them.
None of this is emotionally mature, nor humane. In a partnership no one has authority over the other, neither is of greater value and both nurture each other.
Did you notice the purpose/technique of the countdown intro, the perpetual motion office toy, the precision grooming and the drink?
I don't quite understand what this blog is about. See -->
Do you have an accompanying song to go with this blog?
The data is already in front of us to prove whether or not KS is right....but unfortunately it would take about a month of some intense research...that is the downside.
I don't know for a fact, because obviously I have never done this. However, I would bet the evidence would support that men apologize more when they are wrong than women. All a person has to do is go through many blogs here and the comments to find out how many sincere apologies were handed out by men and women when they were wrong.
A woman who uses unfair techniques and never can be humble Johnny
is not what I want either, I rather be alone then. To the end of times.
So yes, grab one with a conscious. Not too much to ask.
painting a rather dim picture?
So are you saying it is only me with "woman issues?"
If so, I am just going to keep my response to that fairly simple, rather than provide data and get into some long-winded response.
My hat is off to you then...if your woman life...and lives of all the men you know...is woman issue free.
*please note: I am not talking about all women here. I have seen and I do know some women who are great people and the men they are with are absolutely lucky to find such valuable women.
You are basically just showing your ignorance here...and that is fairly a low value man trait in my opinion.
No worries Johnny. U may be right.
Laters
I think very wise of you...to listen to him a bit to get the whole gist of his viewpoint. I actually did the same. When I first listened to him, I found him to be a bit arrogant and harsh on people. I still think he is a bit harsh on people, but...it might be just the harsh truth of their situation.
I do agree, he stems all his beliefs from a traditional/Biblical standpoint. Also, I do agree, with the modern world, his belief is almost like oil and water. However, I will say, the traditional Biblical standard has worked up until a few years back for 1000's of years.
You know Patty...I heard something very interesting about love.
They said:
Love is about being selfless.
I wonder how today's society is?
Here's your s.i.g.n.
That is pretty much what I thought as well.
One last question....and you do not need to answer it publicly. This question is meant for your own self introspection. Here it is. When is the last time you genuinely smiled at a man?
Does this blog have anything to do with "hors d'oeuvre bait," something you once wrote about in a past blog?
how come you don't share much of that here with us?
R we the enemies you have to counter- as a warrior of good?
Basically like Buffy the vampire slayer.
how come you don't share much of that here with us?
R we the enemies you have to counter- as a warrior of good?
Basically like Buffy the vampire slayer.
What made you think I pity people?
Why would you want me to act like I pity you?
What made you think I pity people?
Why would you want me to act like I pity you?
Have a good one.
I guess maybe part of it could address that. The other part could cover the condiments.
I really do not know a lot about KS. However, he says he charges $900+ an hour for his counseling services
Thank you for your comments. I totally agree with you about knowing your value....and I would also add that there is nothing wrong with anyone, man or woman, improving upon their value as well.
Nobody should be mistreated...and nobody should tolerate it.
A healthy relationship should define what mistreatment is. Mistreatment might mean something different to one, than to the other.
What percent of men do you think hate women?
Have a good one.
When you have clarified your posts for me in the past, your written English has been of a very good standard,. better than many English speaking people.
Please stop thinking I understand your writing when it's a mess. I don't.
Thank you for your opinion.
I think he addresses women in particular because that is what he is focused on with is teachings.
I think he recognizes that men have a social issue in these modern days. So he is educating them...and he feels he is trying to help both genders.
I also think, the proof is there with his both men and women subscribers that are well over 1 million people.
I am guessing you are well aware of what a narcissist is. I think we have a wide spread issue of that going around these days....and a lack of love...a.k.a....selflessness too.
I think it is a perfectly relevant question.
If you are really asking the reason for the question...it is because if somebody is biased...meaning they already have a mindset that is skewed to one direction, no amount of rational....or irrational conversation in their biased mind will make any sense. So, I was just wondering if you had a biased mind and am I wasting my time expressing my opinions on the topic of this blog or not.
And I do agree with you about my lack of understanding. That is part of the reason for this blog in the first place too...that is why I end the blog with the questions I do.
As you see in the end of my original post...I have those two questions.
What do you think men and women...do you agree with him? Is KS right about low value women?
Would you ask those two questions to a man hater?
Let me put it another way.
Here in the U.S., we have two main political parties...Democrats and Republicans.
Let's say I ask a question to a diehard Democrat, regarding the opinion of a Republican....most likely the diehard Democrat will be against the opinion of the Republican, no matter what the opinion is.