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We all get failed sometimes in life as well as know all the methods for Success,some people call it destiny but instead of destiny there is forbearance a person can follow to rise with great hope and change the destiny.

...I'm the living proof that mind is a terrible thing

Terribly good!

Cheers!

too many things have happened
too soon
too many wants and needs,
too fast
changes here, changes there
and more changes everywhere

New year, new start, new relationship.
New love
A brand new life?

happiness...yes...contentment...yes
Excited yet anxious nervous...yes
To last? That is the question.

Forgivess...forgiveness for...
What...

Today everything is ok...

Have you ever been with someone and your mind when totally blank? No thoughts, no worries,
No nothing. You feel absolutely nothing but pure joy of being with THAT someone. It's like the
World halted for a moment (or a day) and there's nowhere else you'd rather be but there, right at
that very place where he's seated across you - nervous, excited, smiling at you. You keep on
talking and responding but you can hardly hear your voice... It's as if you're not there, but your
soul went to outer space or something. It's not you who's talking it's like you're on autopilot or
watchamacaliit. You want time to take it's time and day to drag itself painstakingly slow. Right
at that very instance you know that no war won't end, no ills will be left uncured, no thirst will
will remain not satiated and no sin is every unforgiveable.

Changes...be positive...life has always a new meaning.

20 Famous Quotes That Will Inspire Success In You

1. “If you don’t build your dream, someone else will hire you to help them build theirs.” Dhirubhai Ambani

2. “The first step toward success is taken when you refuse to be a captive of the environment in which you first find yourself.” Mark Caine

3. “People who succeed have momentum. The more they succeed, the more they want to succeed, and the more they find a way to succeed. Similarly, when someone is failing, the tendency is to get on a downward spiral that can even become a self-fulfilling prophecy.” Tony Robbins

4. “When I dare to be powerful – to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.” Audre Lorde

5. “Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.” Mark Twain

6. “Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.” Eleanor Roosevelt

7. “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Thomas A. Edison

8. “If you don’t value your time, neither will others. Stop giving away your time and talents. Value what you know & start charging for it.” Kim Garst

9. “A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him.” David Brinkley

10. “Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They’re not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can’t do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.” Steve Jobs

11. “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” Eleanor Roosevelt

12. “Let him who would enjoy a good future waste none of his present.” Roger Babson

13. “Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.” Mahatma Gandhi
14. “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.” Mark Twain

15. “The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will.” Vince Lombardi

16. “Success is about creating benefit for all and enjoying the process. If you focus on this & adopt this definition, success is yours.” Kelly Kim

17. “I used to want the words ‘She tried’ on my tombstone. Now I want ‘She did it.'” Katherine Dunham

18. “Really it comes down to your philosophy. Do you want to play it safe and be good or do you want to take a chance and be great?” Jimmy J

19. “It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.” J. K Rowling

20. “You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.” Albert Einstein

Be Kind

Yes, it seems obvious, but it’s easy to get frustrated with someone you love, who doesn’t seem to be getting over “it,” whatever “it” may be. It’s natural to feel yourself losing your temper, when this is something you think you could handle so much better.

Everyone goes through those times, and the best way to ride the rough waves is to endure them. It can be done; your loved one will survive, but he also needs to know it’s okay for him to let himself hurt. He can’t be in such a rush to “get over it” that he tamps the hurt down, where it can fester and make the future even worse.

So remember: Be kind when you’re looking for the
right words of encouragement to one you love. You will find the right thing to say. Just put yourself in their place, and imagine how you’d feel if you were on the receiving end of your words... #Jt

You can’t stop people from talking about you.


People are mean. They will make judgments about you right off the bat without any prior knowledge and they will try to mold you into a character
they deem worthy of respect. If you construct your identity around the criticism of others, you will end up being a very boring person.

It is not until you’ve stripped yourself of your personal opinions, only to have someone find fault with your new identity, that you realize how little other people’s opinions matter. Someone will build you up only to tell you that you’re doing everything entirely wrong and sometimes, that’s the only way to realize that people will talk about you no matter
what you do.

Long story short: you won’t satisfy everyone, and if you try, you’ll either end up dull or crazy...
#Jt

If you don't make changes in your life, you will be non-stop in the same place. And that is a bad feeling, trust me.

One of the best ways to improve any area of your life is to be sure you are speaking about things the way you WANT them to be. Do you often do the opposite? Do you groan and complain about how bad things are? And do you find that you seem to get more and more of those bad things in your life?

Start turning that around today by using the power of your words to call in better experiences. When people ask how you are, rather than complaining, say something like, "Feeling pretty good today, thanks!" or "Things could always be worse!". Notice that you don't have to lie and say that things are great when they really aren't - but find a way to answer in a positive manner.

You may not believe it will change anything, but you may be surprised by how well it really works.




Today's Positive Quote:

"When people asked, I used to tell them how sick I was. The more I talked about being sick, the worse I got. Finally, I started saying, 'I'm getting better.' It took a while, but then I started to feel better too." - Michael Hirsch (Person with AIDS)

Everyone looks like that he can own four wives, which one you should love?
A rich man had four wives, his favorite love was the fourth wife.He gave her luxuary clothes and the most delicious food.He cared for her carefully and gave her the best stuff.
He also loved his third wife very much.He was honored of her and show her with his friends.But the rich man also was always afraid of her, he worried she would be with other men together one day.
And he also loved his second wife.She was patient, tender and caring.Actually she was his confidant.No matter what problems when he met, he always asked for her help.And then his second wife also always helped him to pull through the difficulties.
His first wife was a very honest partner.She contributed herself for their family.Although the first wife loved him very much and so deeply, he didn't love her and almost forgot her.
One day, the rich man got illness.Not long time he knew he would be dead.He remembered his luxuary lives and said:"Now i have four wives,but if i am dead i am lonely.How lonely i will be!"
So he asked the fourth wife:"I love you the most and gave you the best, now i will be dead, will you follow me and……""No way"The fourth wife said and left far away from his home.
The rich man was hurt by her response.So he asked his third wife: "All this life i love you so much, but now i will be dead , would you like to be with me together?""No" the third wife answered and said:"lives is so good and many men love me, if you are dead i will marry again!"the rich man's heart was cold.
He asked his second wife again:"You always help me to over the difficulties and now i need your help.If i am dead, can you be with me together? "“Sorry dear, this time i can not!”She answered:“ I can send you to the cemetery at most !"The rich man shocked and dispaired.
At this time a sound come:"I will be together with you!No matter where you go , no matter where is heaven or hell, i will follow you all the time!"He looked up and his first wife stand there. She looks skinny, long-term malnutrition.The rich man was sorrow very much and said:"I should take good care of you, but……"
Actually, all of us have four wives in our life:
1.The fourth wife is our body.No matter how much we spent on it and how long we took for it to protect its good status, as beautiful face, we always be satisfied with its all needs.But when the time is over, it will leave us.
2.The third wife is our authority, power, reputation and wealth.No matter how much honors it gave us, when we are dead, all of it is belong to others.
3.The second wife is our friends and relatives. No matter how closed we are in our alived time, they can only accompany us to the cemetery at most.
4.Actually the first wife is our soul.When we chased wealth and enjoyment of body, it often be forgotten.
Never lose yourself.

The word romance is associated with the notion of being vulnerable in men's minds. They are conditioned to perceive being romantic as being feminine or being a wimp. Even the meaning of the word romance is confusing to men in general.

I took upon myself the task of asking the men whom I encountered in my daily life about their perceptions and definitions of the word romance and discovered that there was no distinct consensus to the concept of romance among men. One individual contemplated for a moment and then he told me that romance signifies making women feeling good at the expense of making men uncertain about their identities.

The final conclusion that I draw from my discussion with men was that they are ignorant about romance as they are about every aspect of a relationship. Watching football all afternoon means being romantic to most men. Going hunting or playing ball with a group of misfits while leaving their ladies keeping the castles clean and tidy for the return of their kings from their trips, is considered romantic by some men. Cooking and cleaning after a hard day at work while the bums sitting watching television without any consideration of offering their help to their ladies, is seen in some distorted minds of men as being romantic. Spending thousands of dollars to buy bowling or golfing equipments while being absolutely stingy when it comes to buying a bouquet of flowers for a special occasion for the ladies in their lives, is conceived in some klutz of men as being romantic. Forgetting the ladies birthdays and anniversaries among other important occasions implies in the men zucchini brains as being romantic. No wonder, women have the justified notion that men are not romantic.

Women whom I encountered expressed their perceptions of romance in a manner that one can draw a common conclusion. The majority of women to whom I posed the question concerning their definitions and their perceptions of romance indicated that they wish to be appreciated, made feel wonderful about their feminine and mental assets and not be taken for granted. Some implied that being given flowers from time to time is conceived as being romantic. Preparing a candle lit dinners for two is perceived as being romantic. Buying an expensive gift and wrapping it nicely to present it to one’s lady would be considered romantic. Walking hand in hand while absorbing the beauty of nature is another manner in which a man can display his romanticism. The problems pertinent to the question of being romantic or not are originated from the variance of the perception of what would be considered romantic among the man and the woman in a relationship.

One must be honest and talk about every aspect of a relationship, including romance upon meeting for the first time and continue the discussion of their expectations from one another concerning being romantic, if the circumstances arise and they become a couple. The apprehension of discussing these issues for the fear of scaring one off, will lead to a disastrous relationship in which the woman, the man or both lack fulfillment of their romantic notions. We are conditioned to be too cautious and afraid to open up which leads to being imprisoned within walls of fear and caution. We wait for the right time, in our conditioned minds to talk freely and when that time arrives for opening up, it is too late because one is too involved to risk it all by opening up. Another factor that leads to the disappointment from the women, men or both sides concerning the fulfillment of the romantic notions within them is the pretension of being romantic that is assumed by the man or the woman to entice the other during the span of their courtship. Both the man and the woman should be completely truthful and be themselves from day one to avoid the heartaches that would result from falling in love with the person the other pretending to be.