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If we are really truthful, who has gone through life without ever bending the truth? But sometimes there's evidence of some doing so being perhaps a little disturbed. Tons of examples here, but one of the most striking involves a lady I met at one of the 12 step meetings I needed years ago. Amy was quite bright, and a real looker, if perhaps a little on the frigid/neurotic side, which of course can be alluring for some men. But after joining a few local meetings, she began disclosing that she had terminal cancer. In time, the truth came out, as it almost always does, that this wasn't so. People were still nice to her, but all saw her in a different light. We humans are a funny bunch. In spite of his many faults, our Rainbow doesn't tell tall tales. But he does hide his toys, and sometimes our things, without damaging any. Dogs---humans. Aa.

Jack Ma, funny yet very inspirational

As you might see up there in the title there are some very meaningful and strong words that many of us just do not know their true value..... My life is a roller coaster. My relationship went in shambles and i decided to share some thoughts with you all ... peace

My personal relationship did not work out because i did not trust and did not take things to the next level. If someone's worth the extra effort try and go their way. By that i mean if you have an argument it is ok to give in and not to escalate things. YES it will mean telling them its your fault when deep down you know its not. Deep down your partner will know that they are wrong and will appreciate the extra effort you put into the relationship.

Never say goodbye! It is a really cruel word especially when you are having an argument ... Never go to sleep without talking things over.

Family is important but do not ever let your or her family be the reason to breakup. At the end of the day you would be living with the person and not with their family really. If you do not agree with how family regards your spouse it should not be the cause for breaking up.

Never ever compromise if your partner still meets the ex. If there are kids or real estate it is understandable that you might have to compromise but it does not mean that you should accept everything for e.g a social occasion .... That being said you know when you should trust the partner or not. Trust your gut instinct. It is ALWAYS right!

Honesty is also very important. Show them how much you really love them. It is useless keeping it to yourself out of pride.

Be Positive. Do what it takes to win the other person back. Do not play the proud human and let things fall off your grasp. That being said don't ever be a stalker ... be a gentleman!

Never cheat your partner! You will regret it later on. I was on the receiving end. Be careful that you were not the one to cause it! While nothing justifies affairs .... make sure you never motivate the affair to become a reality because clearly you must have been doing something wrong! And most probably that is why the partner went into rebound mode.

Show commitment, not only to the person but also to the relationship itself. Don't be overloaded with work all the time. You will just instigate thoughts in your partner's head who will in turn cast doubt on the outcome of the relationship.

Don't be cold with your partner who is trying to attempt to fix things between you two after an argument. Don't play proud... it will get you nowhere! You will regret it when someone that really loves you is gone for good..... you will only realise that when it's all too late ...........

Never try to replace your partner with someone else. Another date after a breakup will just resolve nothing! It will only make you feel worse because the person you left is in reality irreplaceable! Stop trying to find your ex in your new acquaintance .... it just won 't happen! And you will mourn your ex even more! Give yourself time!

Think about things! If the relationship is salvageable, then there is no reason not to give it another try! Give it as many tries as necessary. If you really love someone then you should not put a number of lives on the relationship before you say game over. That is just nonsense and will bring you nowhere in life! These days we live in a very busy life .... and there seems to be less and less tolerance between couples ....... Be there for each other and show love to each other.

A rebound 'date' will never make you happy... nor it will make you forget.... you will just feel more and more miserable.

Love is not only on Valentine's ...its for every day of your life. ..... Stop listening to others to forget your partner... especially your new acquaintance ...... Let nobody interfere with what you really want in life ..... Never give up

OK, dozens of posts, fora and blogs on the topic. But getting a little technical, how about recalling them? Variables here. How vivid they might be. How much they relate to our lives, characters included. Wake up time---struggles to recall them---presence of distractions. Multiple and o*gasm ones. Ruses to aid recall. Persistance at such. Dream content---benign or troublesome. Sleep movements---somnambulistic, attacking bed partner. Repeat dreams, or some similar to day dreams. Hypnogogic/hypnopompic phenomena. Attempts to modify our dreams. Uses in talk therapies. Nightmares. Childhood traumatic recall ones. Dream heavy and scarce periods. After drinking/drugging. Dissociative phenomena. Lots more, but this ought to do for now. I had a half year run of almost none. Past few weeks, been bombarded. Ueber vivid, with many familiar characters. And can recall almost all even after breakfast, which is unusual. And now when one appears lost, a little help (alphabet soup, etc.) and it's back. WTF?

...As with the home movies of our twins, and pets, and travels---fun to look back at the entries from time to time. Always describe/record dreams, when I can recall them. If I don't get up right after waking from one, often they vanish into some deep memory bank. Working on strategies to recall them. Getting better at it, but drives me nuts when a juicy one is gone for good.

Find a YouTube video on headlight adjustment
Pay three bills tonight
Scan some documents for accountant

is it me or does this website only have mature women over the age of 40...am i on the wrong website?..

From time to time here, where almost all posts are largely in good taste, if pointed, one does see the rare quite inappropriate blog. Profanity, too direct s*xual references, and so on. If I were a betting man, I'd bet on the drink. Sad, sad, sad. I should know. Aa.

Well 3.50am here in my new adopted coutry portugal.oh what a buetiful place this is.Oh no!!! what have I said .you lot wiil invade the place and it will be like bloody calaforia.

Any way bin out tonight it deosn,t start till 9 or 10 and goes on till well 4 in most places.sorry i,m banging on a bit.

No getting to the title "undercarriage"

It,s bin noted (yes I do read some of the garbage)that I might be paired up with snoocomsy.

Well I quite feel this is an houner as she,s my cup of tea .Inteelegent,good looking,nice body but alas 51 and i,m 65 I could be here father.
So theoreticaly if we did link up she would be disapionted as I now have problems with dropping and retracting my"UNDERCARRIAGE"

As you know my know I was a flying instructor.

Hense Flyme1.

Keep posative always Love Love Love.

When you FEEL healthy and vital and alive and prosperous... you attract more of all those things.

Your life is right now. It's not later. It's not in that time of retirement. It's not when the lover gets here. It's not when you've moved into the new house. It's not when you get the better job. Your life is right now. It will always be right now. You might as well decide to start enjoying your life right now, because it's not ever going to get better than right now... until it gets better right now!

Aging allows us to drop the baggage. It is only through life experiences that our incredible power can be brought forward in all its glory.


All the dangers in our world are like a blessed wake up call.
They tell us to live life NOW...
not tomorrow,
not when the children grow up,
not when we retire...
but NOW.

As we open our hearts to others, we begin to discover the truth of our own inner beauty, inner strength and inner light.


As your awareness of the riches available to you in your everyday life grows, you are on the way to becoming the laughing Buddha. Life is joyous. Life is Light. Life is happy. You are awake at last.