Most Commented Self-Improvement Blogs (526)

Doston chehre bahut kuch baya karte hn tu bahuton mein kai unchahe raaz bhi chipe rehte.hum tu samajh nhi pate agar tumhari bewafai dekhi nhi hoti.

Lekin na mein majno hoon aur na hi tum laila.
Mehfil mein Teri hum ju nhi hn tu GAM nhi hn.

Shayad jina ISSI ka naam hn

Zindagi Zinda logon ke zine ka naam Han. Nhi shayad nhi jevam mein agar gam na hota tu Zinda rehne ka Mann na hota.
Musafir kaho ya kafir zindagi jene ka aab Mann nhi hota
Kitne ladai hum karte hn roz.mohabat mein tutate hn har roz kitne fariyadi zudte hn har roz.shayad khuda bhagwan vyast rehte Han roz.
Himmat tu bhut thi lene ki pratishod phir kya badala zamane ka harqat karte vahi hum roz.
Log bhi hote gaye bor zindagi zii rahe hn roz.

If you catch yourself in a cycle of trying to change
someone, or defending yourself against someone who is trying to change you, walk away. But if you are pursuing a dream, take another step. And don’t forget that sometimes this step will involve modifying your dream, or planning a new one, it’s
OK to change your mind or have more than one dream...

Make yourself necessary to someone

Friends,
Love is a magic word in the English language. It not only brings happiness, but on a more subtler level, it is a harbiger of comfort and success. The world is in total mess and turmoil. Its a materialistic world of make believe, films, fake sadhus, psyseudo happines and true lies. You bring happines to a person by faking your emotions in such a style that he starts believeing you instantly.This may take time for you to learn; it is by trail and error. You tug at the long rope of {politics} to get there. And all this program is not easy; your fake charm should look real and impresve to your friend, relative, boss or any of your associates. This type of life is not real.

One of the most awesome concept of spirituality is to love anything ___ living or non living unconditionally. Living means human beings, birds, plants, animals; whilst non-living things may mean anything.___ your shoes, your sleeping bed, your cliothes, your items in your house. To-day's times are difficult times for friendships and associations. At the outset, relationships can fly out of the window over the cuckoos head and not to be heard of again. Associations are coming at a premium and friendship is dead and buried, never to surface again. And what is left now? Everything is destroyed, nothing is saved, but you can start the salvage operations. You pick up piece by piece, join together and see what picture you can paint.

On the other hand, there is an excellent {other} way to find contentment, joy, bliss, which are higher virtues than the so called happiness. You are in possession of one of the greatest word in the world called {love}. You can start loving non-living things. Have you thought of loving your pillow on which you put your beautiful head to sleep? Wish it long life to serve you bettter with a great thank you. what about your shoes? Say thank you every time you slip your feet into them. Shoes are fantastic accessories for a man or a woman for grooming and looking like a King or a Queen on wearing them. Those deprived to have them look poor, desolate and lost in life. And the tables and chairs on which you enjoy a hearty breakfast, a quick fix lunch or a lazy dinner with your family and friends? Have a soft corner for this furniture that cannot talk, but perennially inviting you to come and sit and use them to your heart's comfort. You can always talk to them and thank these non-living pieces of art and you will definitely hear a reply in the corner of your heart.

One of the most important non-living things is the {bed} on which you lay down your tired body after a day's struggle at the work place. How do you thank it? At night, bsfore you go to sleep, be aware of it by thinking of it as your dear friend. Keep your bed clean by changing the bed sheets properly from time to time. Can you sleep without a clean bed containing mattress, bed sheet, pillow with a possible roll over long {Dhool} in which you dig your ever tired legs for comfort? No way! Wish good night to this friend before sleep; you wil really feel good. How many times have you flashed your eyes on your time clock, hung in the prominant place in your room? Many times, but you have never thought of the services it has given you, minute by minute, day by day, year by year by ticking endlesly in its body? Have a humble heart to say to it ___ {a big thank you!}

You will never feel lonely, if you start loving non-living things. Moreoever, to-day's relationships is available at a price; non-living things never set a condition and they are 100% free; save, of course you pay a one time small amount to buy these from the market. Actually, you are not buying, you are forging a life long friendship with this lifeless object, but metamorphically a live concept.
Manohar Bhatia.

i just want to throw this out there please answer as honest as possible thank you

No one is ever obligated to love you back. Sometimes you’re the one breaking your own heart because you anticipated and expected something, and that doesn’t automatically mean they were supposed to reciprocate. You can either dwell, or move on with the knowledge that just because they didn’t love you doesn’t mean you’re any less lovable.

The paradox of our time in history is that we
have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider
Freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend
more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less.
We have bigger houses and smaller families, more
conveniences, but less time.

We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness. We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom. We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.

We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often. We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life. We’ve added years to life not life to years. We’ve been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We’ve done larger things, but not better things. We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We’ve conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait.

We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less. These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes.

These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the
showroom window and nothing in the stockroom.
A time when technology can bring this letter to
you, and a time when you can choose either to
share this insight, or to just hit delete…

Remember, to spend some time with your loved
ones, because they are not going to be around
forever. Remember, say a kind word to someone
who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to
you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn’t cost a cent. Remember, to say, “I love you” to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it.

A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it
comes from deep inside of you. Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person might not be there again. Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind... #Jt

The first step is never easy.

The beginnings to good things are always the hardest, but it’s these hard times that pave the path to greatness. Be strong and keep the faith. It will be worth it in the end. The greatest miracle of your success in life will not be that you finished, it will be that you found the strength and courage to begin.

And remember, it’s not that those who are strong
never get weak in the knees, or that they never hold their breath before they embark… It’s that while their knees are shaking, they force themselves to breathe and take the first step... #Jt

With real joy comes real pain.

Any time we fully experience true joy or feel the
preciousness of life on an emotional level, we can
expect to feel a great amount of sadness. Many
of us shy away from the things that would make
us happiest, because they also make us feel pain.
The opposite is also true. We cannot selectively
numb ourselves to sadness without numbing
ourselves to joy. When it comes to falling in love,
we may be hesitant to go “all in,” for fear of the
sadness it would stir up in us.