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Looking for Love in all the Wrong Places...
Intense morning light pours into my kitchen through the patio doors, illuminating it with a warm glow. Bouncing off the glass patio table top, I'm drawn outside to partake of my morning coffee in one of the comfy blue & white striped cushions on the chairs. The towering peak and presence of Mt. Cheam gleams brightly as rays stretch from behind a mountain range, exposing it's ragged edges and previously shadowed crevices.
Although unseen, I can hear the distinctive skree of an eagle, overhead. A soft green haze covers a neighbouring budding tree, partially hidden behind a cedar hedge. Birds trill and flit to and from said tree, perching briefly on limbs. A gentle breeze rustles the leaves of shrubs surrounding my patio, tickling my bare legs. Sadie kitty emerges from her prowls under the hedge, rolling contentedly on the warmth of the aggregate patio.
Oh, that wondrous first day of sitting outside in one's nightclothes, sipping hot coffee, one's inner being as burnished by spring's radiance as much as one's surroundings. An exceptionally glorious day to be alive!
I've been asked why don't I write about deeper subjects, and my reply is, I have. I have over 1200 blogs on another site from ten years ago that chronicle my journey through a very bleak and black period of life, immersion in self-help and self-improvement books, and a quest to be the best I can be. Although the mission is still very much alive, the urge to share is not as great a need. I have found that place of contentment, of choosing to be happy, and ever so grateful for where I am today.
Without those dark places, would I appreciate the vividness of today? Without those many people and authors that touched my heart and pointed me towards the brightness, would I have recognized those issues that required me to examine and deal with them?
I no longer am looking for love, as I found it within myself. I don't need anyone to 'complete' me, as I feel entirely whole. A partner would be nice, but it's not a necessity, and if one shows up, it'll be wonderful. If not, it'll still be wonderful.
After tension, drama and overwhelming stress, I'm so appreciative of the area and home I never thought I'd have, that's what my focus is. Enjoying life. Squeezing every last drop out of it, and sharing the wonder and beauty I see when nature draws me into her arms. How my camera has changed so much of my perspective to the point of taking risks and facing fears I'd otherwise never attempt.
My journey in learning photography has not been as quick as I'd like it, and has been, to say the least, frustrating at times. It's also been extremely rewarding. After just reaching level 2 in our club, last night's exhibition rewarded me with a 9 out of 10 for one of my photos and the highest mark in level 2, winning first place. W00t!
I'm the newest member in level 2, and this is only my second exhibition, so I'm pretty stoked, considering there are a lot of members in that level. Of course, photography is like any artistic endeavour, and it all depends on the adjudicator. She had some awesome tips for me for another photo, which I'll utilize later.
So yes, I could write on my favourite self-improvement authors, which books led me to the most enlightenment and why, and perhaps, in time, I might. What I did learn is every person has their own journey, and it's not a contest as to where you are on your climb up the mountain. We're all climbing together, and it's not how you get there, it's whether you do or not.
In closing, I'll add the photo that earned me top place last night. It's a reflection of tree trunks in the water, when I sat on the edge of a bank for hours, watching the ducks through my camera lens, and as the sun began to set, cast a golden tint over the slough. Reversing the photo and bumping up the colour turned it into an abstract that some love, and many won't.
Although unseen, I can hear the distinctive skree of an eagle, overhead. A soft green haze covers a neighbouring budding tree, partially hidden behind a cedar hedge. Birds trill and flit to and from said tree, perching briefly on limbs. A gentle breeze rustles the leaves of shrubs surrounding my patio, tickling my bare legs. Sadie kitty emerges from her prowls under the hedge, rolling contentedly on the warmth of the aggregate patio.
Oh, that wondrous first day of sitting outside in one's nightclothes, sipping hot coffee, one's inner being as burnished by spring's radiance as much as one's surroundings. An exceptionally glorious day to be alive!
I've been asked why don't I write about deeper subjects, and my reply is, I have. I have over 1200 blogs on another site from ten years ago that chronicle my journey through a very bleak and black period of life, immersion in self-help and self-improvement books, and a quest to be the best I can be. Although the mission is still very much alive, the urge to share is not as great a need. I have found that place of contentment, of choosing to be happy, and ever so grateful for where I am today.
Without those dark places, would I appreciate the vividness of today? Without those many people and authors that touched my heart and pointed me towards the brightness, would I have recognized those issues that required me to examine and deal with them?
I no longer am looking for love, as I found it within myself. I don't need anyone to 'complete' me, as I feel entirely whole. A partner would be nice, but it's not a necessity, and if one shows up, it'll be wonderful. If not, it'll still be wonderful.
After tension, drama and overwhelming stress, I'm so appreciative of the area and home I never thought I'd have, that's what my focus is. Enjoying life. Squeezing every last drop out of it, and sharing the wonder and beauty I see when nature draws me into her arms. How my camera has changed so much of my perspective to the point of taking risks and facing fears I'd otherwise never attempt.
My journey in learning photography has not been as quick as I'd like it, and has been, to say the least, frustrating at times. It's also been extremely rewarding. After just reaching level 2 in our club, last night's exhibition rewarded me with a 9 out of 10 for one of my photos and the highest mark in level 2, winning first place. W00t!
I'm the newest member in level 2, and this is only my second exhibition, so I'm pretty stoked, considering there are a lot of members in that level. Of course, photography is like any artistic endeavour, and it all depends on the adjudicator. She had some awesome tips for me for another photo, which I'll utilize later.
So yes, I could write on my favourite self-improvement authors, which books led me to the most enlightenment and why, and perhaps, in time, I might. What I did learn is every person has their own journey, and it's not a contest as to where you are on your climb up the mountain. We're all climbing together, and it's not how you get there, it's whether you do or not.
In closing, I'll add the photo that earned me top place last night. It's a reflection of tree trunks in the water, when I sat on the edge of a bank for hours, watching the ducks through my camera lens, and as the sun began to set, cast a golden tint over the slough. Reversing the photo and bumping up the colour turned it into an abstract that some love, and many won't.
To our own selves be true....
.....or something like that. Let's face it folks, doesn't exactly seem like the general level of civility world wide is on the rapid increase. Many of us are quick to anger at the behaviors of others. Think about the many irritating examples. The driving of others. Friends' forgetfulness. The adage---"one always hurts the one one loves". Most interactions with teenage miscreants. My own blogs. People who don't use full sentences. And so on. Wish I had learned the following solid truth decades ago. If I really think about it honestly, almost every annoyng behavior I experience with other humans is something I've myself done to others----often more than once. OK. Got the helmet and flack vest on, so bombs away. Aa
Reflection - Womens Day
Womens Day, 5 years ago was when I decided to call it quits with my then husband. A day I'll probably never forget. As years have gone by I've learnt to accept my decision and today still have no regrets. This process was never seen as a problem in my life but a challenge. A challenge I overcame.
As an individual I've grown emotionally, mentally and most of all more stronger spiritually. Today I'm proud to say I've learnt to be a father as well.
To all the singles out there from me to you - don't be afraid to start over it gives you a chance to rebuild something better
As an individual I've grown emotionally, mentally and most of all more stronger spiritually. Today I'm proud to say I've learnt to be a father as well.
To all the singles out there from me to you - don't be afraid to start over it gives you a chance to rebuild something better
Introvert people..Are you? I am!
Society tends to mislabel introverts as being antisocial or reclusive, but this isn’t true. As introverts, we tend to speak with like-minded people versus anyone or everyone. Sometimes, we choose not to speak at all. That doesn’t mean we are not interested in what is being said… it means that we would much rather listen than talk.
Often, an extrovert will ask an introvert, “You’re so quiet, what’s wrong with you?” There’s nothing wrong with us! It is difficult for the introvert to understand why everyone isn’t like he or she.
One of the most famous introverts was Gandhi. I seriously doubt if anyone asked him, “What’s wrong with you?” Despite his introvertedness, he was socially available for interviews and public appearances.
The extrovert tends to be more interested in his or her environment and in socializing with other people while the introvert is more interested in his or her thoughts and feelings. This doesn’t necessarily mean that the introvert cannot have extroverted tendencies or vice-versa. It simply means that there are general tendencies that seem to be consistent with both the introvert and the extrovert.
If given the choice, the introvert will prefer to work alone or in small groups than with a largegroup of Why Are Spiritual People Generally Introverts? ' The ideal profession for the introvert does not involve being around a lot of people and may include careers in writing, computer programming, webmasters and graphic design. In the end, the introvert could do virtually any job that an extrovert can do but ultimately, introverts need to find their own space at the end of the day.
Many introverts are avid readers and are constantly studying and researching various topics of interest, including spirituality and metaphysics. Reading may come in various forms such as books, e-books or internet articles.
The introvert tends to be guided by his or her higher self in what areas to pursue when researching spiritual and metaphysical topics, almost as if the higher self is guiding the introvert (which it is!).
By internalizing their feelings, the introverts are susceptible to anxiety related issues such as
migraines and Why Are Spiritual People Generally Introverts?Because the introvert tends to look within for answers, he or she will find it easier to meditate and to quiet the mind. The extrovert’s mind tends to remain overactive as he or she will often have difficulty quieting the mind while focusing within.
Another common spiritual activity for the introvert is yoga, which integrates the body and mind while the extrovert is more apt to play team sports. In yoga, one uses their body as a vehicle for consciousness while in most sports, the body is used as a vehicle for aggression. Once again, this does not mean that the introvert will not participate in team sports, nor does it mean that the extrovert will not practice yoga. These are general tendencies that introverts and extroverts exhibit in every day life.
The introvert may have a stronger bond with nature as nature may not provide enough stimulation for the extrovert. You will generally find that people who enjoy hiking are predominantly introverts, as they appreciate the solitude and oneness they receive from being outdoors in whatever particular element of nature that they enjoy
Stargazing is another popular activity for the introvert for the same reason, as extroverts will become quickly bored with staring at the sky and may not understand how the stars are connected to our bodies and everything that is happening on our planet.
While 75% of the population are extroverts, the introvert needs to remain true to his or herself, despite peer pressure to conform to society. Despite not wanting the acknowledgement or recognition, the spiritualists within this genre are the leaders of tomorrow’s world as we enter a new stage of consciousness and spiritual awareness.
Often, an extrovert will ask an introvert, “You’re so quiet, what’s wrong with you?” There’s nothing wrong with us! It is difficult for the introvert to understand why everyone isn’t like he or she.
One of the most famous introverts was Gandhi. I seriously doubt if anyone asked him, “What’s wrong with you?” Despite his introvertedness, he was socially available for interviews and public appearances.
The extrovert tends to be more interested in his or her environment and in socializing with other people while the introvert is more interested in his or her thoughts and feelings. This doesn’t necessarily mean that the introvert cannot have extroverted tendencies or vice-versa. It simply means that there are general tendencies that seem to be consistent with both the introvert and the extrovert.
If given the choice, the introvert will prefer to work alone or in small groups than with a largegroup of Why Are Spiritual People Generally Introverts? ' The ideal profession for the introvert does not involve being around a lot of people and may include careers in writing, computer programming, webmasters and graphic design. In the end, the introvert could do virtually any job that an extrovert can do but ultimately, introverts need to find their own space at the end of the day.
Many introverts are avid readers and are constantly studying and researching various topics of interest, including spirituality and metaphysics. Reading may come in various forms such as books, e-books or internet articles.
The introvert tends to be guided by his or her higher self in what areas to pursue when researching spiritual and metaphysical topics, almost as if the higher self is guiding the introvert (which it is!).
By internalizing their feelings, the introverts are susceptible to anxiety related issues such as
migraines and Why Are Spiritual People Generally Introverts?Because the introvert tends to look within for answers, he or she will find it easier to meditate and to quiet the mind. The extrovert’s mind tends to remain overactive as he or she will often have difficulty quieting the mind while focusing within.
Another common spiritual activity for the introvert is yoga, which integrates the body and mind while the extrovert is more apt to play team sports. In yoga, one uses their body as a vehicle for consciousness while in most sports, the body is used as a vehicle for aggression. Once again, this does not mean that the introvert will not participate in team sports, nor does it mean that the extrovert will not practice yoga. These are general tendencies that introverts and extroverts exhibit in every day life.
The introvert may have a stronger bond with nature as nature may not provide enough stimulation for the extrovert. You will generally find that people who enjoy hiking are predominantly introverts, as they appreciate the solitude and oneness they receive from being outdoors in whatever particular element of nature that they enjoy
Stargazing is another popular activity for the introvert for the same reason, as extroverts will become quickly bored with staring at the sky and may not understand how the stars are connected to our bodies and everything that is happening on our planet.
While 75% of the population are extroverts, the introvert needs to remain true to his or herself, despite peer pressure to conform to society. Despite not wanting the acknowledgement or recognition, the spiritualists within this genre are the leaders of tomorrow’s world as we enter a new stage of consciousness and spiritual awareness.
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Life and Death
Life and death are two sides of the same coin
Yet we embrace the first and shun the last
But no matter which view of life we join
Death is something that surely will come to pass
So be mindful of this fact in living
And seek to enrich the quality of your life
Think carefully of what you are doing
And always seek to avoid needless strife
If you help others as you go along
The peace of mind from this will be your gain
And as mentioned in the words of the song
Surely your life would not have been in vain
Live your life in such a meaningful way
That gives contentment and satisfaction
So that when your death arrives you can say
My life was truly a mission well done
Yet we embrace the first and shun the last
But no matter which view of life we join
Death is something that surely will come to pass
So be mindful of this fact in living
And seek to enrich the quality of your life
Think carefully of what you are doing
And always seek to avoid needless strife
If you help others as you go along
The peace of mind from this will be your gain
And as mentioned in the words of the song
Surely your life would not have been in vain
Live your life in such a meaningful way
That gives contentment and satisfaction
So that when your death arrives you can say
My life was truly a mission well done
Daily outputs: Positive & Blessing Speeches
I have been a member of CS for about a year. Of course hoping to find a goodman as a soulmate. AT FIRST that is the ONLY POINT being a member of CS.
As time passed by...there is another thing that I enjoyed in CS. The BLOGs. Recently for the last month, I spent time reading the blogs...and I enjoy it. I read how members support each other....share many topics...(positive and bad)...sharing experience ....and many more. I begin to notice the usual bloggers....
Now...when sign in to CS, the first thing I click is BLOGS. And spent more time reading it compare to browsing searching online men. 
Even when I hide my profile...I still sign in to CS...reading BLOGs. 
Thank you bloggers for your writings.
Daily outputs:
Positive & Blessing Speeches will result.....
- Positive attitude/manner
- Positive mind/thoughts
- Positive language
And that is BLESSINGs for your love ones and yourself.
Happy day.....to All...
Lindzy
As time passed by...there is another thing that I enjoyed in CS. The BLOGs. Recently for the last month, I spent time reading the blogs...and I enjoy it. I read how members support each other....share many topics...(positive and bad)...sharing experience ....and many more. I begin to notice the usual bloggers....
Now...when sign in to CS, the first thing I click is BLOGS. And spent more time reading it compare to browsing searching online men. Even when I hide my profile...I still sign in to CS...reading BLOGs. Thank you bloggers for your writings. Daily outputs:
Positive & Blessing Speeches will result.....
- Positive attitude/manner
- Positive mind/thoughts
- Positive language
And that is BLESSINGs for your love ones and yourself.
Happy day.....to All...
Lindzy
I thought a thought
I thought a thought
I thought a lot about that thought
I thought and I thought a lot about that thought
I thought the thought that I thought was a really good thought
I posted it.
I think I'm going to be killed
I thought a lot about that thought
I thought and I thought a lot about that thought
I thought the thought that I thought was a really good thought
I posted it.
I think I'm going to be killed
dealing with hatred
Anytime you think about someones' bad side or the bad someone has don, you just feel some level of hatred for that person, while not pause a bit and just think about one tiny good side of the person, you will get a whole different feelings about that person, i think that helps to deal with hatred and enmity
Everyone loves a roller coaster...
Just throw up your arms and scream!! My comment on another blog gave me an idea for this one.
Do you let life take you hither and dither? Or do you grab the "bull by the horns and decide your own destiny?
Tell us your success or failure stories.
Do you let life take you hither and dither? Or do you grab the "bull by the horns and decide your own destiny?
Tell us your success or failure stories.
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