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We all believe that we are unique, and yes you are unique, in that no-one will find another you anywhere on earth, but what about your offspring, are they not a part of you however remote, it might appear to you and others? Honest opinions please? And No bull-shitting?

We Always Focus on Every One Else!
But We Forget Our Self!
We Are Important!
People Need Us!!
"So Be Nice to Your Self"
"Start Today"
"Find a Big Mirror"
And Look Your Self!
What Is The Nice' s Thing You Have!
For Example ! It Is You Eyes?
Make It stand Out! ( By Using Black Eye linner under your Eyes)
Also By Wearing a Top the Color of Your Eyes!
Make Today " Me Time"!
Go to the Shop and Buy your Favorite Food ! What ever It Is!
If You Like Dancing? Put You Favorite Music and Dance Or Go To You Favorite Club to Dance! ( I Highly Recommend Campbelltown Catholic Club! It Is A Happy and Safe Place To Go!)
If you Are a Heavy Drinker Cut Down Strait a Way!
It Is Very Dangerous Habit! Please Start To Cut Down The Amount Of Alcohol You Are Consuming Now Right Away!
Together With The Number Of Cigarettes You Are Taking! " Please Today"
Make Your Self Heathy Again!

Stay Away From Negative People!
Hang Around With People Whom Will Like And Love You!
Do Not Stress Not Matter What Happen!
Dress Nice And Smell Nice !
With Colors That Suit You!
Love Your Self!
By Doing That You Will Be Able To Love Others Too!

Thankyou !

By falicia

What Is Your Opinion?

So Do Not Worry If You Do Make Mistakes!
Just Learn from Them!
And Try Not To Do Them Again!
Do Not Let Any one To Disrespect You, Because You Did a Mistake!
That is How We Learn In Life! By Doing Mistakes!
Many Discovered and Great Inventions Are Been Done by Making Mistakes!
So Hold Your Head Up!
And Do Not Worry!
Thank you!
By falicia

What Is Your Opinion?

A very, very, VERY old word that is actually two words which has an extensive meaning, the modern pseudo/inaccurate meaning we know it commonly as, is song. But before the guitar the Maori word for song was aniani which actually means chant.

So I will break down the two words:

Wai (pronounced as why) =
Memory, Recollection of words, Instruction given, Water, Fishing net.

Ata (pronounced as utter, except without the rrrrr in the end,) =
Care/careful, deliberation(referring to slow and careful movement), thoroughness, gentle, slow, clear open without concealment. Deliberate. Form, shape as opposed to substance. Reflected image. Early morning/dawn

Similar to the Japanese we write our words/sentences backwards, referring to english grammar. So the pseudonym is ata wai.

So in summary:
The pronunciation is short and sharp and is said as one word without the rrrrr at the end

Waiata (why-utter) = A careful deliberation, gentle clear and open without concealment, both in form and shape done in the early mornings. Of a memory, recollection of words, or instruction given. From Our Father. aka Water of Heaven.

Dance, Will Help You to Forget All Your Problems!
It Will Set You Free of All Of Them!
" Please at List Try It"

"Dance' You Do No Need to Be a Good Dancer to Dance !
No Many People Are!
You Just Need to Like It!

Dance Is Great for Your Wellbeing!
It Will Help You to Stay Young Fit and Healthy!

Find a Safe Club Near You!
If You Are Not a Heavy Drinker !
It Will Not Cost You Too Much!

" Please Enjoy Your Self "
"Dance Is One Way to Do It!

"Start This Weekend"
You Will Live Longer!
Have Fun
from falicia


What Is Your Opinion?

The curmudgeon, hard arse take on life, and use of humor, level of honesty, depth of charity, scrappy disposition, questionable judgment, dim views of many others---especially those perceived as less fortunate, critical view of organized faith and those so disposed, envy --always misdirected, deep denial, cavalier attitude toward kind friends, and much more. Pleased for the progress, so far, but the art is truly long. All began when I saw that liberals seem to love the universe at the expense of the individual. And conservatives love the individual, at the expense of the masses.

what's his name? My dad could forget your name as quickly as you introduce yourself, but he would remember your face, the place, the car you drove and what you were wearing.
I take after my dad.
Stuck in sales, I'm meeting customers, designers, contractors all the time. I write their names on a tablet. Any thing I can do to remember helps. For example: "Hello Michele, is that one L or two?" It seems to work for me. Repeat their name on the greeting, write it down and make lots of notes!

In early America Mountain Men and Native Americans had developed a series of foot paths they used for traversing mountains and following game animals. America developed, Mountain Men and some Indian tribes became history, but many of their paths through the woods and over mountains remained. In 1921 the American Congress approved the concept of determining which foot paths could be connected as a means of preserving past ways and heritage while offering traverse of rural American woods and desert. In the 1930s with the help of Roosevelt's Civilian Conservation Corps (CCC) some of the trails were extended and opened to the public. The Appalachian Trail (AT) is one of them.

The AT is a marked foot path about 2,200 miles (3,500 kilometers) long. Located in 14 Eastern States it wanders North and South. By design many of the areas it traverses are designated as National or State Parks and intentionally kept wild and rural. In some parts of the trail a person hiking may be more than 30 miles from the nearest town or paved road. There are places where the trail unavoidably descends into a town and passage through the town is unavoidable, but those are intentionally rare. Wild animals (both dangerous ones and not dangerous ones) are often encountered on the trail. Much of the AT is over mountainous terrain. It is not unusual for someone hiking the entire Appalachian Trail (thousands do so every year) to lose 50 or more pounds (i.e., 80+ kilos) during the months long hike. It is said if you are not physically fit when you begin, you probably will be by the time you finish the Trail.

The AT does cross many roads. Sometimes by an overhead bridge, and sometimes you have to run or walk across the road. It also of course connects with or crosses many other trails, some marked, some not marked. Some go East and West, some go no where in particular. Follow the patches of white paint on trees and signs (a few posted by volunteers) to not get lost. You need to bring your own food and water and a sleeping bag. Be prepared to go to the bathroom in the woods as public latrines are few. Please bury your poop and don't litter. For the most part weapons are prohibited on the trail, but camp knives are permitted in most of the states.

Hikiing the AT is considered a rite of passage. It changes you. Many start the hike, then quit after only a few days. When it rains the rocks get slippery and everything becomes mud. The scenery is often beautiful and breath taking. Hopefully you remain hydrated on the really hot days. If the idea of waking up in the morning to find a spider crawling on you, or see a snake slithering by terrifies you, the AT is not for you.

Two weeks ago with my friend (unofficial step daughter) I hiked a portion of the AT in Maryland. Maryland is considered one of the easiesr states on the AT because much of it is flat. Nonetheless I hiked up to Annapolis Rock (elevation 1,700 feet). A fairly rocky and steep walk of several miles. We saw folks of all races doing the hike. Men, women and even some with children. I enjoyed it a lot and recommend the AT to all.

Annapolis Rock from the ground



Annapolis Rock from the top facing West. 2 years ago a tourist slipped and fell to his death from here.



Me on the trail in MD (on the flats)

Today is our Lantern Festival, which also means the end of our Lunar New Year, people eat TangYuan to denote union, harmony and happiness for their family... I'm so quiet by myself, my cat had a lazy sleep, too late till the Sun rise up high.

Someone wanted to introduced me a boyfriend,but it ended of his smoking habit before we met. Someone wanted a new friendship with me, but it also ended in a short time... cos it is rather hard to define a friendship and a love, especially under a new situation between both of us... So I thought I have no luck in a relationship.

I wanted to remove my old blogs many times, now it's time for me to do it, in the day of my father's death. It's my old life ,old memories. I will keep them in my heart... This is a new year at least, something still need to look forward no matter it happened or not. Thanks for the people who concerned with me in my difficult times and commented on my blogs .

Have a nice weekend!

How is a person supposed to toughen the fk up when they are broken?