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My surname is registered as a domain name for awhile. So, what kind of web site do I build using it.

Recently, I had a conflict with a co worker who has become a friend. And someone gave me an advice that united my heart and my mind.. He said: Never pick a fight and make an enemy out of anyone. No matter how you dislike a person, deal with them with diplomacy and kindness. For you never know what they might bring to you.

That moment, I gave it deep thought. I have 3 options:
1. I will confront the issue with anger. With it I keep my pride and express to everyone that I am right. And that noone can step on me because I know how to fight back.

2. I will face the issue with apathy. Some people might think I'm wrong on the matter, some people might tale my side. But who cares? I will just act as if I don't care and it doesn't matter.

3. I will talk to the person involved sincerely using diplomacy. Even when she wronged me, I'll give kindness. This will kill my pride but it will keep the peace and won't create unnecessary drama and awkwardness at work. And if by it she still rejects my attempt to peace keeping, at least I will be at peace.

So, I chose option 3, anyway, the only thing I lost was my pride, temporarily. In the end, I kept my friendship and peace. That guy was right. A little diplomacy and kindness go a long way. And letting go of pride once in a while, gives me peace that I need way more than whatever prize pride will ever bring me.

Well am not fully back because I still need to get a new modem since that was lost in the fire.


I have now found a nice little place its not perfect as its not my personally own place but for now its mine until I stop paying my rent and its what I call home for now..


I have not been here much for the past few months but greetings to all new commers and the ones that were here before.

Wishing for you all a peaceful holiday season.

I m thankful for my struggles.
Because without it I wouldn't have stumble across my strength.


Alex Elle

Without courage.
Wisdom bears no fruit..


Hope all of the Cs blog community and other members are doing well.

Lately I've been feeling uninspired and when im depressed I drink until I fall asleep I use to rap and write down my thoughts with poetry but now Im not in that mode of writing at all my dad s knee sugery didnt go to well but he s managing most times I feel alone and sometimes i Hate faking that Im happy when im not...most importantly im tired of people in my family draining me for my money just because they know i have it it's so annoying its like they create every bit of excuse sometimes i want to say nobody told you to have that many damn kids but then again I would just be a b*tch for saying that especially since im a single mother myself with one kid...can someone please take the time and listen or spare some advice

I bet we all get 'Likes' but when one gets a bunch of likes over a period of time and still remain blocked by the persons sending the likes you ask yourself, duhhh????

When I was new to this hospital I’ve got a sign to a preceptor Nurse meeting she is a senior nurse who is supposed to teach me the policies and the operating procedures in our hospital especially in our department where I was assigned an emergency department. I noticed that most of our coworkers didn’t like her I thought it was just because she’s Frank and straightforward and a little mean when she talks but personally I don’t mind people like this so I kind of sucked it up and it’s OK with me so we became friends.
She was a little difficult because there were times when she would just ignore you and then when you directly talk to her ask her what’s going on if she’s mad or some thing she would deny everything and just carry on like nothing is happening. But of course that’s some thing that I don’t like because Frank as I am and straightforward as I am if there’s some thing that I don’t like about our interaction i would say it.

Now fast forward when I got Covid. When I Got discharged from the hospital people were talking to me asking me how I was if I’m feeling better what problems do I still have because of Covid and what sort of things they can do to help me cope and recover even better. Aside from that though there were some concerned people who mentioned to me about the things that she has said against me behind my back. They said that she’d been telling people that I was being so careless going on dates while there’s a pandemic. That I am actually the one who gave them the virus and put them at risk. To be honest I felt really sorry that if I was the one who gave them the virus that I didn’t want to do that although I was being very careful with my own health and other peoples health like washing my hands all the time wearing my mask changing my mask if I needed to just to make sure that I don’t spread the virus that things still happen. Good thing though for them for her and her child they were a symptomatic they never had anything like cough or fever her child got runny nose and so did she and then they have a test and they were positive and they got isolated at home while I was admitted to the hospital for eight days and stayed on home quarantine for few more days until I got better to go back to work. But I wasn’t sure where I got the virus all I know is I got the vaccine and after two weeks I got the chills and the fever that doesn’t go down no matter how much medication they take so I don’t know who to blame I don’t really want to blame anybody anymore or even during that time because blaming would never help anybody anyway so I focused on meditating and praying and going inside myself thinking and trying to heal myself.

And then because of the things that I learned that she said about me while I was in the hospital I went on silent mode. I stopped going to their house. I just stopped the communication and the bonding.

Then yesterday I was having fun with other nurses because they had idle Time and so we made a TikTok video where we danced. I posted it on Facebook and there were a lot of reactions and comments to it. The next day I came to work and I was told that I have to hide it or take the video down. They said that somebody complained about it in the meeting. I didn’t have to ask to know that it was her who did it I know because that’s her nature to go behind a someone’s back, friend or not. I know it was her because she’s done it before. It didn’t reach the higher management and quite frankly I didn’t think it was wrong because like everybody in our hospital has been doing that and I don’t know why it was just me who was singled out.

Anyway it doesn’t matter that you did that anymore. I just removed all my Facebook friends that work in the same hospital. Maybe life is better this way it’s going to be more peaceful without the eyes and ears and mouth of other people dipping in your life. I hope she finds happiness in her life so she stops being bitter and just be happy.

This is what happens when you take social distancing way too far.
In compliance, somebody wasn't thinking this matter all the way through.
They sure-did put their mark this bench to comply with social distancing.
It's TOTALLY USELESS now.

It's in front of a grocery store and a few steps away from where they spray carts with chemical sanitizer. I'm thinking maybe they could have peeled back a portion of the screening so the bench could be used by one person and spray it a few times a day.

From time-to-time people ignore the orange mesh and use the bench sitting one at each end.

no one ever get a perfect life.

If you get everything in life, what will you wish for?
Some unfulfilled wishes, gives the joy of life.