Most Commented Self-Improvement Blogs (526)

When any emotion inside us becomes intense due to some reason and becomes out of control, then our ability to understand right or wrong gets affected. At that time only things that are favorable to that emotion, seems right.

Well, no emotions (feelings) are bad itself. Every emotion (feeling) has its own importance in life. As long as they are in control, they are good and useful; when they are out of control, they are bad and harmful.

Its nice to help people around you and smile also not to put yourself first all the time always be considerate to your peers

I did it. I distanced myself from the constant drama. The personal attacks, designed to cause trouble. It was the best thing I ever did. It cost me some friendships, I knew it would, but for the sake of my own health, I did it afterwards much lamenting , but being in their company was like walking on egg shells. I just can't do it anymore . I limit my time in their company, and avoid conversation. I share nothing with them, it took me years to finally give up, I tried and tried, not any more. Best thing I did. Amazing how the stress level dropped, and I feel no loss for that particular person.

Last night I discovered an email I wrote last September, to Mike 'Duke" Venturino, a gun writer and columnist of American Handgunner magazine, concerning an electronic article of his about the possibility of two different types of US military .38 Special ammunition existing, back in the days when weapons of that caliber were often used by some US military forces was published by that magazine in their January/February issue. My communication can be found in the 'Speak Out' section on pages 20 & 21. Regrettably, some photos I had sent him to support my conclusions were not included in the published version. Those who follow such things can view the missing photos and a blog text supporting my conclusions at

Stop comparing where you’re at with where everyone else is. It doesn’t move you farther ahead, improve your situation, or help you find peace. It just feeds your shame, fuels your
feelings of inadequacy, and ultimately, it keeps
you stuck. The reality is that there is no one
correct path in life. Everyone has their own unique
journey.

A path that’s right for someone else won’t necessarily be a path that’s right for you. And that’s okay. Your journey isn’t right or wrong, or good or bad. It’s just different. Your life isn’t meant to look like anyone else’s because you aren’t like anyone else. You’re a person all your own with a unique set of goals, obstacles, dreams, and needs. So stop comparing, and start living.

You may not have ended up where you intended to go. But trust, for once, that you have ended up where you needed to be. Trust that you are in the right place at the right time. Trust that your life is enough. Trust that you are enough... #Jt

"Dont chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing and work hard. The right people - the ones that really belong in your life - will come to you and stay"
Will Smith

With all thats happening, the quote above has really helped me "do my own thing".

Happy Weekend to everyone and Prayers for all my Ni-Van friends facing Cyclone PAM.

Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can
disturb your peace of mind. To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you
meet. To make all your friends feel that there is
something in them.

To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true. To think only the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best. To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own. To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.

To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile. To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others. To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

Not in loud words but great deeds. To live in faith that the whole world is on your side so long as you are true to the best that is in you.

Darn it!

I was thinking of something , wanted to write it here... I can't remember what it was about, I'm not thinking straight... Been working too hard these days.

If I remember what it was, I'll post it later

I'm iff to sleep...'night all! Oopsy

It,s so nice to help someone in need.
I know i,ve bin banging on about posative and negative but I,m trying to priech posative thinking to the negative people here.

I used to criticise everything in the past and felt really bad afterwards.Turned to alchohol in my negativity for many years it takes you nowhere.

I was out the other night and one of my talented musitions friends was doing a gig and he was struggling on stage he,s a solo act singer guitare

He beconded me by a hand movment to come up on the stage and whispered" dave sing a few songs I,m hung over and I feel bad .

So I sang 3 songs and "whisperd Kia say your having a short break which he did"

He got some food down him and plenty of water and came back and we did a couple of songs as a duet.

Later when heed finished he thanked me for helping him when he was in trouble "any I can do for you" he said.
I said" kia it was a pleasure helping you when YOU WERE IN NEED".

Yes I want to be ...if I am already then I want to be more selfish ......
I don't want to care about others because it hurts always ....

With life I am feeling I am learning new tricks to make people fool and how to use them ....

Nice person is always feel used and what he get ...... nothing ...but expectations of people ....that he will do more nice things .....