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Date 8/21/22
A client( TESDA teacher & administrator, male) of mine pm me at my fb messenger. For a consultation with regards to his present situation. He feels he is cursed. Though he his earning a lot from his occupation. He is puzzled money in his wallet is emptied quickly before payday. He is always responsible when it came to his finances. I asked him. When did this strange occurrence starts to happen. If he have additional expenses aside from regular budget of household needs & bills. He said no. Just the same. He bought an money amulet for wealth. Money is draining fast . This is the reason why he contacted me at Fb messenger.This is a thai money amulet. Base on my energy reading. It is an infested object. The amulet's material aside from bronze includes human & animal corpse remains. Unclean spirits from the amulet is clinging in his auric shell. In the form of black energy balls. Making him susceptible to short memory loss from possession. He also mentioned about lighting 3 incense sticks & 2 white candles. Inviting the guardian spirit of the amulet to help him with his finances to be wealthy. Along with resin chinese tael. My skin suddenly feels itchy. This always happens to me when there is a presence of unclean spirits.This is really bad. Number 3 is an odd number. Odd numbers in buddhism represents a deity. The color white is for funeral. There are human & animal corpse remains in the amulet. I have strong gut feel. Death will make him rich. He will only get condolence money. The earth bound spirits can not recognize Philippines currency only Thai baht. I asked him. If he still have his sterling silver blessed St. Benedict's medal. Yes he still have it. I told him to wear the blessed medal & for protection & bad spirit removal. Throw away the thai money amulet & resin chinese tael in a river ( running water). ASAP. Attend mass , holy eucharist & ask the priest to bless him with holy water. Last rinse bath of salt water for auric cleansing always. To be prosperous and no money problems. I gave him simple instructions.
1. Always wash hands & pray( Netilat). Before eating. Our hands are holy.
2. Always pray LORD'S PRAYER.
3.St. Benedict's Medal is all he need to be wealthy in spirit & material means. Always pray & wear the blessed medal. Present update 9p.m. 8/22/22. No more anxiety attack. He is now feeling ok.CASE CLOSED.

.. Women judge so quickly, and their judgement rarely goes wrong.

If you have crush on someone, your brain will find difficulty to tell a lie to that person.

Studies have revealed that a man and woman can never be just friends.

The closer you are in a relationship, the more you can read the other’s mind.

A study has found that friends-with-benefits relationships are just as sexually satisfying as marital relationships.

Never judge someone without knowing the whole story. You may think you understand, but you don't.

85% of people have experienced a dream so real that they were not sure if it happened in real life or not.

Subconsciously, it takes at least 6-8 months for the brain to process complete forgiveness for someone who hurt you emotionally.

Smiling is the ultimate antidepressant.

Zebras can't sleep alone.

It is believed that when you die in a dream, you wake up because your brain cannot process the idea of death and what comes after.

Psychologically, we tend to ignore those who adore us and pay more attention to those who ignore us.

Swans only have one partner for their whole life. Once their partner dies, they pass away from a broken heart.

You can do 100 good things but people will remember one mistake.

Psychopaths say “um” more frequently in order to appear like a normal person.

your deed can feed your need but can't your greed.

It is very important to determine the boundary of your needs. Otherwise, you will not even know when your need will turn into greed. And greed will take away your peace and happiness and turn you in the wrong direction.

38 year old actor Rich Rotella was always concerned about his height. As an actor, he felt it was an impediment to his career. Rich stood 5 foot 5 inches as a teenager and never grew taller.
Looking for a solution, he researched leg-lengthening surgery, an expensive process.
For those of you who might puke over the details, they basically were able to make his femur bones 3 inches longer. He was unable to work for months and required lots and lots of physical therapy.

The cost: $100,000 and none of it was covered by insurance.

I'm thinking, if it boosted his career and he started getting acting parts right after, that could be a tax 'write-off' the same way actors/actresses improve their appearance to further their careers.
As a way to pay for the surgical procedure, Rich is working on a documentary and plans to release it in 2024.

Going from 5'-5" to 5'-8" looks like he reached the height of his career!


Yahoo link from Business Insider:

Because of the reactive nature of our unconscious mind, there is always turmoil inside us. Our whole attitude is influenced by our inner reaction. The habit of reacting is what makes our personality good or bad. This habit of reacting is out of our control. We react very little outside, but in the unconcious mind, the action-reaction goes on for 24 hours from birth to death. Even while sleeping, unconcious mind does not sleep. There are only two reactions in our unconscious mind, attraction and repulsion. The drama of life is going on on both these reactions.
If unconcious mind start observing instead of reacting, then the whole problem will be solved.
The whole struggle of spirituality is on this matter how unconcious mind started observing instead of reacting. This stage is called "inner silence", where the mind does not react.
The whole essence of spirituality is "inner silence".

I dawned on me today while I was heading home from work. I now know why I am this irritable mess. I know why I snapped and raged in my last blog.. I know what I must say, but I don't think I have the strength to acknowledge it. I am scared. That I would be considered a failure. That I am considered weak. But deep down inside, I KNOW I am not weak. I KNOW I am not a failure.. I guess I just have to say it:

I am a coca cola addict. I don't mean it in a funny way like "hurr I am such an addict to coca cola lol.".. I really mean it. I am an addict. How do I know I am an addict?

Well, these past few days, I have been consuming a LOAD of coca cola. Up to six 0.5 liter bottles a day. That is 3 liters of the stuff. Once I finish a bottle, I want another one straight away. That, in my book, is an addiction. I crave the taste of a cola. If I don't drink one each day, I feel terrible. It's because I need the sugar and the caffeine.

Tomorrow, I am gonna drink nothing but water, to see if it helps. I would like to start doing it now, but I don't have any near me.

So there it is. I am an addict. Some of you might go "Well at least it's not alcohol or drugs", which is true.

I saw a blog a few weeks ago that had a YouTube video featuring a public speaker talk about goals and procrastination. Using some visuals, he was the captain of a sailing ship and described due dates for projects. When he had ample time, his 'instant gratification monkey' would convince him to play and surf the internet.
As the project due date grew closer the monkey would continue to assure him he could procrastinate longer (having fun) until he passed the date where he could complete the task. At that point a monster appeared scaring the monkey away as well as putting fear into the man who would stay up all night to finish what he could have easily done had he not listened to the monkey.

I have a monkey too...

Unlike the monster, I have a logical voice of reminder and I'll refer to her as my mother.
I'll tell mother I'm working on a project for a meeting in the morning and go off to play a few rounds of Freecell. Maybe an hour later, mother will come into my office with a bowl of watermelon chunks and ask how I'm doing with my project. My typical reply would be "I was playing with the monkey, but I'll start in a few minutes" A few minutes later, she returns to get the empty bowl and asks me to show her what work I need to do. By then the monkey has gone and my mind begins to focus on my project.

I have a few bills to pay tonight and log on to my remote office computer to finish some prices for a customer meeting tomorrow. Hopefully the monkey won't bother me as I don't have time to shop for guitars and new cars!

I been noticing on fb and even here, it seems like the depression levels are up because of the virus thing. Not being able to live normally don't help.

Here is a little advice from someone who knows depression inside out. Don't focus on when this is going to be over, instead focus on the day you are on. Ask yourself "what can I do today so when the day is over, I am happier than when the day started". We don't know when this will be over and focusing energy on that is just wasteful and will ruin your day even more. Take it one day at a time. Occupy each day with something, try not to look too much on the end date, focus on the day at hand instead.

How much of your body is yours?

Your body is like a rented house, don't know when you will be evicted from this house.

Many organs of your body are automated. There are happening many activities in your body, they all are automated, you have no control over them. Even your thoughts are not in your control. When any feeling (anger, hatred, jealousy, greed, fear, ego, lust etc.) dominates you, your thoughts and all your actions become in tune with that feeling.
We spend our whole life learning to operate our body properly but still we are not able to learn. Till now we have not been able to control any of anger, hatred, jealousy, greed, fear, ego, lust etc.

When nothing in your body is in your control then how can this body be yours, when this body is not yours then how can this life be yours.

On Friday, I had a meeting with a financial planner. We went over a few things as to my finances and what I wanted to achieve in my (not yet created) portfolio.
Without wanting to divulge too much personal information in this (or any) blog, I could have payments go to paying off a mortgage, money for vacations, or continue to have the base grow and not touch any of the money.
Actually, refinancing is a major consideration right now and why I didn't act sooner is basically lack of response on my part.
None of us own a crystal ball and his starting investment price is much steeper that I would consider, I did get the seeds for more research.


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