Most Commented Self-Improvement Blogs (526)

Be the best that you can be unless your best at being an a**hole, in that case, be at your worst.

One must remember that most people on our planet today have very little freedom – Every society in our world is very different and each attempts to find meaning and happiness in a completely unique way. .. ..."Happiness is not something ready made..... It comes from your own actions." -- Dalai Lama. .. .. Happiness is one of the many emotions humans experience. It may perhaps be the most important feeling a person can have and it is the one feeling everyone strives to achieve, yet strangely, for the most part, people seem to only get a glimpse of it. Pleasurable satisfaction, a state of well-being and contentment are the more outstanding elements of happiness. .. ... true happiness is found in the emotional connections established between people. .. ,... the length of one’s life, the presence of love, and the amount one’s progress or success throughout their lifetime. ... ... “Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace and gratitude.” -- Denis Waitley. .. seeking only pleasure cause many problems on both self and others. Therefore, I think that striving for authentic happiness is the best way to solve problems that humans cause by seeking pleasure and make the better world where many people can become happy .... ,,.... ,,,.... the concept of happiness is complex and hard to measure, many people believe that happiness is mysterious, elusive, and totally out of their control. This is not true. Actually, happiness is a choice. Each person can decide whether to be happy or not. ,,... ..."Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be." -- Abraham Lincoln....

Ok I have been on here for a while now. I know I'm not going to meet someone right away. But I have hit a wall.
I see that people have read my profile - BUT that is it - I get nothing. So Please Someone - Anyone check out my Profile and tell me truthfully ( I can take it ) what is wrong with me???

Everything seems fine, got the room rearranged, giving up smoking, got a handle on my weed smoking somewhat, got my medical stuff straightened out. Been relatively happy for a while.

Is this real though or is this just a prelude to something. My luck usually don't be that great and I can't help thinking that something bad is just around the corner. I guess I am expecting something and can't help but to think that this is just a elaborate setup.

Maybe I'm just being paranoid.

'The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. The fears are paper tigers. You can do anything you decide to do. You can act to change and control your life; and the procedure, the process is its own reward.'
Amelia Earhart

'Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.' Samuel Beckett

The decision not to act is also a decision. To act too soon can be disastrous!

The thing about life is that whatever you conceal is what owns you. It becomes the only thing about who you are, because it is the only thing that you will not let out into the world.


When you say your life is great when it’s not great, when you’re hurting, when you’re on the downswing, you subtly give yourself permission to lie about who you are, to allow what other people think of your life to mean more to you than what you think about your life.


There’s only one reason people lie about the state of their life: for the benefit of others...
#Jt

You can speak about other poeple, only if you know who you are. :) This is one of most important things in someone's life (who am I?)

Smile and laughter is best medicine to relief your stess forget your troubles and just smile

if you think you have nothing in your life to be happy, see those who need crutches or a wheelchair to walk a step, still you have two legs, two hands, two eyes.
You have enough in your life to be happy, you just have to accept what you have and don't expect what you don't have, you just do what you can.
What you got very easily, many do not get even after hard work.

It is very easy to be happy, you just need to change your way of thinking.

The importance of silence:
When the discussion between couples starts turning into an argument then one should immediately become silent. The silence of one person can save the relationship between them. When you become silent, after some time the other will also become silent.

Sometimes silence speaks better than words.
Silence says that it cares for the relationship and wants to save it from breaking.

There must be such mutual understanding in couples.




Share some more mutual understandings from your experiences.