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Ah and what shall we say about Self - Sabotage
How do we define self sabotaging behavior as there are many definitions and many ways
we often sabotage our efforts to form healthy relationships with people.
We often say and do things that we know will bring harm upon us an unconscious level that we
don't recognize until its too late.
The patterns are subtle but quite damaging. A few examples is one may be chatting with a potential
friend or lover online they get up to a point of quality communication you tell your love interest many
adoring things that make them melt in your hands then because of something you don't know about
why your love interest stopped corresponding and you don't know what you said or you don't know
their reasons why they chose not to chat or you offer them a break to think about things and then become angry why they have not responded. This is a sign of what I call the "Controlling Saboteur" who whines for attention and then when he/she does not get the quality or quantity of attention they cut the communication off.
They tell their love interest that they may not be interested and make all kinds of assumptions not knowing the truth of why their love interest is not communicating. They seek exclusive attention and become a bit obsessive.
They recognize or they may tell their love interest they have a life outside of the online love arena but resent
that they do hence, they don't focus on their own life but the life of their love interest.
Another saboteur is what I call the "On top of the World" type. He or she has everything going for them a good job, friends, family, home, car the works but throws it all away getting in trouble such as going on a killing spree
or drinks themselves to death watching their lives slowly fall apart as they lose their job family home etc.
Then there is the "Loner by Choice saboteur" who has no faith or hope in finding anyone to love them so they resign to accepting their hermitage life and nobody is worthy to ever enter in their life. Outwardly they tell everyone they are just peachy and don't want anyone. They have their TV, their movies, their dog, and their junk food and their two cents of thought to post on a blog yet deep inside there is a silent scream within, that nobody hears from the loner that they really want someone but, fear they will be misunderstood hence, they choose to be in their "loner" comfort zone and they don't have to answer to anyone but themselves.
The problem with self sabotage is many who do so, feel so horrible about themselves their self esteem is non existent that they may have to look it up in the dictionary to understand what that means.
Many may sabotage themselves to fail because that is all they know and have fears of success.
The problem of fears of success is the fear of responsibility that comes with that success and the work to maintain that success. A scary thought indeed. When you are already down nobody expects much from you.
In conclusion I feel in many areas of my life I have self sabotage down to a science though its nothing to boast about or be proud about but, who among us is without sin? Who among us will not admit they sabotage their efforts of happiness at any level because they can justify themselves of their plight.
To the world they will paint a pic they are on top of their game behind the computer screen they may reveal a much different person.
we often sabotage our efforts to form healthy relationships with people.
We often say and do things that we know will bring harm upon us an unconscious level that we
don't recognize until its too late.
The patterns are subtle but quite damaging. A few examples is one may be chatting with a potential
friend or lover online they get up to a point of quality communication you tell your love interest many
adoring things that make them melt in your hands then because of something you don't know about
why your love interest stopped corresponding and you don't know what you said or you don't know
their reasons why they chose not to chat or you offer them a break to think about things and then become angry why they have not responded. This is a sign of what I call the "Controlling Saboteur" who whines for attention and then when he/she does not get the quality or quantity of attention they cut the communication off.
They tell their love interest that they may not be interested and make all kinds of assumptions not knowing the truth of why their love interest is not communicating. They seek exclusive attention and become a bit obsessive.
They recognize or they may tell their love interest they have a life outside of the online love arena but resent
that they do hence, they don't focus on their own life but the life of their love interest.
Another saboteur is what I call the "On top of the World" type. He or she has everything going for them a good job, friends, family, home, car the works but throws it all away getting in trouble such as going on a killing spree
or drinks themselves to death watching their lives slowly fall apart as they lose their job family home etc.
Then there is the "Loner by Choice saboteur" who has no faith or hope in finding anyone to love them so they resign to accepting their hermitage life and nobody is worthy to ever enter in their life. Outwardly they tell everyone they are just peachy and don't want anyone. They have their TV, their movies, their dog, and their junk food and their two cents of thought to post on a blog yet deep inside there is a silent scream within, that nobody hears from the loner that they really want someone but, fear they will be misunderstood hence, they choose to be in their "loner" comfort zone and they don't have to answer to anyone but themselves.
The problem with self sabotage is many who do so, feel so horrible about themselves their self esteem is non existent that they may have to look it up in the dictionary to understand what that means.
Many may sabotage themselves to fail because that is all they know and have fears of success.
The problem of fears of success is the fear of responsibility that comes with that success and the work to maintain that success. A scary thought indeed. When you are already down nobody expects much from you.
In conclusion I feel in many areas of my life I have self sabotage down to a science though its nothing to boast about or be proud about but, who among us is without sin? Who among us will not admit they sabotage their efforts of happiness at any level because they can justify themselves of their plight.
To the world they will paint a pic they are on top of their game behind the computer screen they may reveal a much different person.
How To Improve Your Self Esteem Part3 Not Matter Your Gender! ( Balicia's Tips )
Remember To Improve Our Self Esteem!, We Have To Improve Our Self Image!
Smell Good Is Important! Special On The Dance Floor!
By Taking Often Showers ,Using Long Lasting Deodorant Not Just Underarms But Between Your Toes Too! After Every Shower!
Use Tea Tree Product In Extreme Cases.
Have A Special Shoes, Just To Go Out It Will Smell Fresh Every Time!
You Should Wear Clean Clothes After Every Shower!
Wash Your Clothes , With A Nice Detergent , and Softener!
Invest Your Money In Long Lasting Fragrances: Like Perfume Or Eau The Toilette, Channel Number5 Perfume, Channel Blue Perfume,Dior Sauvage Perfume, Giorgio Prejuro, Prada Hombre,Versace Dilan Blue.
Do Ask For Lay-bys At Queen Street Campbelltown NSW Chemist.
Go To Try Those Perfume and Eau The Toilette At Davies Jones In Campbelltown NSW Or Find A Place Near You!
Take PrideOf Your Self! It Will Make You Feel Confident And Happy!
By Balicia
Reply Here Or Send Me A Message
Smell Good Is Important! Special On The Dance Floor!
By Taking Often Showers ,Using Long Lasting Deodorant Not Just Underarms But Between Your Toes Too! After Every Shower!
Use Tea Tree Product In Extreme Cases.
Have A Special Shoes, Just To Go Out It Will Smell Fresh Every Time!
You Should Wear Clean Clothes After Every Shower!
Wash Your Clothes , With A Nice Detergent , and Softener!
Invest Your Money In Long Lasting Fragrances: Like Perfume Or Eau The Toilette, Channel Number5 Perfume, Channel Blue Perfume,Dior Sauvage Perfume, Giorgio Prejuro, Prada Hombre,Versace Dilan Blue.
Do Ask For Lay-bys At Queen Street Campbelltown NSW Chemist.
Go To Try Those Perfume and Eau The Toilette At Davies Jones In Campbelltown NSW Or Find A Place Near You!
Take PrideOf Your Self! It Will Make You Feel Confident And Happy!
By Balicia
Reply Here Or Send Me A Message
It Looks Like "It's" Happening!!!
I moaned and whined about my last job but in reality I meant it more as a chapter in my life that didn't work out and I moved on.
I filed for unemployment and it appears that I have won my case. However, the best bet is to look around, not only because your required to, but because I am a firm believer in keeping busy. I refuse to sit at home living a sedentary life hanging out in my front porch watching the neighbors drink and smoke their money away.
I was checking the books out in the library when I looked up and saw this page, or you could call it a bulletin too, with a bunch of little snippets with a phone number. People usually use this style of ad for renting rooms or something like that. I read the bulletin and it was an offer for people that wanted to work with Seniors and young people with, I think, learning problems. The ad offered a small stipend, paid lunches and mileage.The stipend is not taxed and does not count against any other monies such as SSI. I thought it was a "scam" maybe but then I saw that it was affiliated with the University of Northern Arizona. I took the bait.
I called the number and a Rep came by with paper work galore. I filled all the forms out and within a few days the lady, one named Dorothy, came by with a form for me to get a physical exam. I think I have been accepted because Dorothy has given me some advice and said I would be on a training program. I think the visits with Dorothy counted alot because it looks positive.
There are Seniors that need a visit, a way to get to the store, someone to drive them around in their car for doctor visits and other appointments. Part of the duties also require that you read to these people. Feed them their meals and just meet with young people.
I am looking forward to this. And i hope that I am accepted!!
I filed for unemployment and it appears that I have won my case. However, the best bet is to look around, not only because your required to, but because I am a firm believer in keeping busy. I refuse to sit at home living a sedentary life hanging out in my front porch watching the neighbors drink and smoke their money away.
I was checking the books out in the library when I looked up and saw this page, or you could call it a bulletin too, with a bunch of little snippets with a phone number. People usually use this style of ad for renting rooms or something like that. I read the bulletin and it was an offer for people that wanted to work with Seniors and young people with, I think, learning problems. The ad offered a small stipend, paid lunches and mileage.The stipend is not taxed and does not count against any other monies such as SSI. I thought it was a "scam" maybe but then I saw that it was affiliated with the University of Northern Arizona. I took the bait.
I called the number and a Rep came by with paper work galore. I filled all the forms out and within a few days the lady, one named Dorothy, came by with a form for me to get a physical exam. I think I have been accepted because Dorothy has given me some advice and said I would be on a training program. I think the visits with Dorothy counted alot because it looks positive.
There are Seniors that need a visit, a way to get to the store, someone to drive them around in their car for doctor visits and other appointments. Part of the duties also require that you read to these people. Feed them their meals and just meet with young people.
I am looking forward to this. And i hope that I am accepted!!
WHAT IS SELF ESTEEM? MY OWN DEFi NiTION!.
SELF ESTEM IS SELF VALUE ! SELF WORTH! SELF RESPECT ! SELF COMFIDENCE! SELF OF BELONWGING ! SELF BELIEVE! SELF EXISTANCE ! SELF CONTROL ! SELF LOVE! SELF
TA LENTS ! SELF PROWD! SELF EQUAL! MEANING THAT WE ARE EQUAL NOT MATTER RICE SKIN COLOR GENDER RELIGION CULTURE NATIONALITY LENGUAGE INTELLIGENCE DESABILITY WEALTH BODY IMAGE! BODY SHAPE BODY HIGH WE ALL HA VE ONE THING IN COMMON! WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS! THERE FORE WE DISERVE LOVE AND RESPECT.
HOW TO BUST YOUR SELF ESTEEM NOT MATTER YOUR GENDER!
BY LOOKING YOUR SELf IN THE MIRROR YOU CAN FIND OUT WHAT IS YOU BEST PART OF YOUR BODY! SO MAKE IT STAND OUT FOR EXAMPLE EYES DRESS IN COLOR TOPS THAT WILLMAKE YOUR EYES STAND OUT TOGETHER WITH MAKE UP LIKE EYE SHADOW MASCARA EYE LINER.
ALWAYS USE WATERPROVE MAKEUP!
TO BUST YOUR SELF ESTEEM YOU NEED TO BUST YOUR SELF IMAGE!
USE LARGE MIRRORS TO SEE YOUR WHOLE BODY
DO NOT LEAVE YOUR PLACE WITH OUT LOOKING YOUR SELF IN THE MIRROR AND MAKING SURE THAT YOU LOOK YOUR BEST! FIND OUT WHAT COLORS SUIT YOU THE BEST! YOU NOT NEED MUCH MONEY TO LOOK YOUR BEST! YOU COULD GO TO SECOND HAND SHOPS ! YOU ALWAYS WILL FIND SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL TO BY THERE AND FOR A LITTLE BIT OF MONEY.
TO CONTINUE IN PART2 OF HOW TO BUST YOUR SELF ESTEEM?
BY BALICIA
TO RPLY
TA LENTS ! SELF PROWD! SELF EQUAL! MEANING THAT WE ARE EQUAL NOT MATTER RICE SKIN COLOR GENDER RELIGION CULTURE NATIONALITY LENGUAGE INTELLIGENCE DESABILITY WEALTH BODY IMAGE! BODY SHAPE BODY HIGH WE ALL HA VE ONE THING IN COMMON! WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS! THERE FORE WE DISERVE LOVE AND RESPECT.
HOW TO BUST YOUR SELF ESTEEM NOT MATTER YOUR GENDER!
BY LOOKING YOUR SELf IN THE MIRROR YOU CAN FIND OUT WHAT IS YOU BEST PART OF YOUR BODY! SO MAKE IT STAND OUT FOR EXAMPLE EYES DRESS IN COLOR TOPS THAT WILLMAKE YOUR EYES STAND OUT TOGETHER WITH MAKE UP LIKE EYE SHADOW MASCARA EYE LINER.
ALWAYS USE WATERPROVE MAKEUP!
TO BUST YOUR SELF ESTEEM YOU NEED TO BUST YOUR SELF IMAGE!
USE LARGE MIRRORS TO SEE YOUR WHOLE BODY
DO NOT LEAVE YOUR PLACE WITH OUT LOOKING YOUR SELF IN THE MIRROR AND MAKING SURE THAT YOU LOOK YOUR BEST! FIND OUT WHAT COLORS SUIT YOU THE BEST! YOU NOT NEED MUCH MONEY TO LOOK YOUR BEST! YOU COULD GO TO SECOND HAND SHOPS ! YOU ALWAYS WILL FIND SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL TO BY THERE AND FOR A LITTLE BIT OF MONEY.
TO CONTINUE IN PART2 OF HOW TO BUST YOUR SELF ESTEEM?
BY BALICIA
TO RPLY
Skinny dipping
Hi guys long time no speak, hope your all well, some may remember me as Wolfie, I had to get rid of Wolfie ( my jeep) last year, I now have a Nissan juke, who is red, and is called duchess. Anyways, I'm back for the Craic, and wanted to let you know.... I'm a record breaker whoop whoop... well we were a team, of exactly 2505 ladies who stripped off and ran into the Irish sea on June ninth in Wicklow... we had a ball, well, we had no balls actually lol..
So, any ladies up for it..? .....next year We are thinking about going international, perhaps a different country every year,
long time no speak, hope your all well, some may remember me as Wolfie, I had to get rid of Wolfie ( my jeep) last year, I now have a Nissan juke, who is red, and is called duchess. Anyways, I'm back for the Craic, and wanted to let you know.... I'm a record breaker whoop whoop... well we were a team, of exactly 2505 ladies who stripped off and ran into the Irish sea on June ninth in Wicklow... we had a ball, well, we had no balls actually lol..So, any ladies up for it..? .....next year We are thinking about going international, perhaps a different country every year,
STOP SPREDING HATE TO DIVIDE AS( By (falicias own experiences)
How You Feel If You Are At a Hospital, With Your Sick Child!
And Suddenly He Turn Blue!
A Nurse Near By Became Aware of.It!
And She Inmmediately!
Start to Do Mouth To Mouth Resuscitation On Your Child!
And She Saves Your Sons Life!
And It Happen, That ,She is Muslim!
"Do You Still Will Hate Muslims"?
That Did Happen To Me!
And Its Could Happen To You!
"Stop Divisions"!
We All Need Each Other!
We All Need To Get Along!
By falicia
What is Your Oppinion?
And Suddenly He Turn Blue!
A Nurse Near By Became Aware of.It!
And She Inmmediately!
Start to Do Mouth To Mouth Resuscitation On Your Child!
And She Saves Your Sons Life!
And It Happen, That ,She is Muslim!
"Do You Still Will Hate Muslims"?
That Did Happen To Me!
And Its Could Happen To You!
"Stop Divisions"!
We All Need Each Other!
We All Need To Get Along!
By falicia
What is Your Oppinion?
Forward
The last time i was here in this blog more than 2 yrs i think and a lot of things happened in my life....but what i learned was happiness doesnt come from other people but within ourselves,been thru a lot of struggles pain,name it i had it but thanks god iam still standing,more stronger,and complete.
Love doesnt come easy and we dont need to search,we just have to wait and let god do the rest coz he knows what our hearts desire
Love doesnt come easy and we dont need to search,we just have to wait and let god do the rest coz he knows what our hearts desire
maybe writing about it will help...
so let me get straight to the point. this is my 2nd account and i must admit that it’s not as fun as my 1st experience here. so why the need to make a new account? well i met someone from my previous account whom i thought was the one which is why i deleted it. turned out he wasn’t it and he is now happily married to someone else. i’m writing this coz i am still honestly hurt with what happened. it hurts to think how easy it was for him to replace me let alone marrying her. it hurts to think that he is now happy while i am still left alone still wondering what have gone wrong. i may sound so sad but nope. there are just days that i can’t help but question what is wrong with me. i’m just needing this to vent out a bit. cheers to all.
Turning Negative to Positive
I woke up around midnight and couldn't fall back asleep. Got up a couple times, played a computer game, didn't get sleepy, tried to watch a documentary on China history, didn't get sleepy so I let my mind wander.
Bear in mind for those that don't know me, I semi-retired two months ago and moved from one city to another. I now live ten minutes (probably less) from my aging parents. After working my whole life, going to school, raising kids I now find a lot of extra time on my hands. What to do?
I know I'm getting back into volunteering as I did that in the city I just moved from, the main focus was feeding the hungry but donating my time is on hold for now until I know what I want to do or am needed.
When I was younger I was gung ho to garden and loved what I grew, somehow I faded away from that but the juices to start gardening again have been flowing recently. My first attempt at tomatoe & eggplant in a "grow pot" was a failure. I'm joining a community garden which I think my last blog was about. I saw their compost piles and got even more inspired. The month of July and August are brutally hot here, to hot for most things except onions and okra but it dawned on me while I couldn't sleep and went into busy brain thinking mode that I could start seedlings in the house. I jumped up to go watch you tube on how to do things.
So far I built an egg carton greenhouse to start some bok choy seeds given to me and some cherry tomatoes. Then after several more videos I'm all into making some bean sprouts all of which I dearly love. Now I'm just waiting for it to get light enough outside so I can go get my soil to prepare, hence why I get to write a blog while I wait for the light.
If I were working, not being able to sleep would be very negative, but now that time doesn't matter I can turn it into a positive!
Of course I will probably fall asleep before I get to eat breakfast, so what, who cares!
Bear in mind for those that don't know me, I semi-retired two months ago and moved from one city to another. I now live ten minutes (probably less) from my aging parents. After working my whole life, going to school, raising kids I now find a lot of extra time on my hands. What to do?
I know I'm getting back into volunteering as I did that in the city I just moved from, the main focus was feeding the hungry but donating my time is on hold for now until I know what I want to do or am needed.
When I was younger I was gung ho to garden and loved what I grew, somehow I faded away from that but the juices to start gardening again have been flowing recently. My first attempt at tomatoe & eggplant in a "grow pot" was a failure. I'm joining a community garden which I think my last blog was about. I saw their compost piles and got even more inspired. The month of July and August are brutally hot here, to hot for most things except onions and okra but it dawned on me while I couldn't sleep and went into busy brain thinking mode that I could start seedlings in the house. I jumped up to go watch you tube on how to do things.
So far I built an egg carton greenhouse to start some bok choy seeds given to me and some cherry tomatoes. Then after several more videos I'm all into making some bean sprouts all of which I dearly love. Now I'm just waiting for it to get light enough outside so I can go get my soil to prepare, hence why I get to write a blog while I wait for the light.
If I were working, not being able to sleep would be very negative, but now that time doesn't matter I can turn it into a positive!
Of course I will probably fall asleep before I get to eat breakfast, so what, who cares!
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