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RE: "spiders" its funny

Murderer. I bet the spider police force has you on their most wanted list.

RE: FLYINGJOHN2!!!!STOP VIEWING ME EVERY FEW MINUTES,I

Does it really matter if he "views" you? Anyway, the block should stop that? Don't get upset over small things like this.

RE: Why is it that women are online, but turn off ther

How dare they tease you like that!

RE: And why is it, that the top rated "girls" are neve

It's someones right to have a preference regarding children. I don't think people should be admonished regarding that.

RE: Misbehaving children

We were never hit, and most of us in the family are decent, well behaved people, lol. I hear you, though. Children nowadays are not properly disciplined...it's just the manner I disagree with.

RE: my saddest heart broken time

A broken heart can be one of the most excruciatingly painful things to suffer. That is why we do need to guard our heart...something most people fail to do. There should be a "how to" guide.

RE: Oswald Chambers the Genius

Telling a person it is always their fault when they don't understand the Lord can be distancing in itself. True, He is God and does not have to explain (it would probably be over our head anyway), but if you look at the Psalms and other Scriptures you will see the writers many times crying out to God and asking "why". I think in those times God wants to put His arms around us and for us to trust Him until we feel safe again.

You may not have any questions for God, but I do! In John 16:23, when Jesus did say, "In that day you will no longer ask me anything." BUT He also went on to say, "I tell you the truth, my Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. Until now you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete." So you have to take the whole thing in context and not just one line out of the text.

Relationships unite two hearts, and although our goal is oneness with God (union with His Will), God knows we have questions and doesn't mind if we ask. There are times He does not answer and these can be the most baffling of times. That is why our love needs to be strong, and we we need to understand the height and depth of the love He has for us, even in our darkest circumstances.

RE: google adsense account

People can get a Google Adsense account for free. They don't need to pay you any money.

RE: I Don't Understand

I am wondering, what is your definition of a "good woman"?

Because there are many, many good women (women who want to love and be loved, are honorable, kind, etc).

It is really not fair to say the women on CS are not good women. How many have you really gotten to know?

Keep the faith and good luck! :)

RE: ITS TIME FOR ELIJAH TO GO

Nana, you are not alone in feeling this way. Perhaps that is one reason we are told that His thoughts are not our thoughts, and His ways are not our ways. Just keep trusting Him in the hard times as well as the good, and He will be your greatest treasure.

RE: Allah or the Lord Jesus?

By the way, the muslims I have met were beautiful people and I agree with you. I looked online for more information on this matter and do see where you are coming from as it is explained the texts in the Quaran are possibly misunderstood. Perhaps this is true of many holy texts.

Peace! :)

RE: Allah or the Lord Jesus?

Well, your not knowing me gives me assurance that your doubting of my knowledgeability regarding Scripture is nonsense. I have read both the Bible and many other religious studies over more than three decades.

I even knew you would respond this way. I'll just leave it alone because evidently you have strong feelings about this and it would turn into an argument that is not desired.

God peace~!

RE: Allah or the Lord Jesus?

Kudos!!! The Holy Spirit spoke through you well.

RE: idealism

It's never good "advertising" to show the dark side. Just ask the cigarette industry!

RE: (((Really Being Jesus to Others)))

I mostly enjoy your blogs but sometimes in the creative flow :) things can easily run on and are not as clear as a sword should be. ;) I'm sure it's just writing your thoughts as they come (gentle hug) but writing free flow without editing will not get the message across as fully that the Holy Spirit is nudging within you. Spend a few minutes to read over your posts to make any corrections for clarity and your impact will double.

Just my .02!

RE: Quilt of Holes

That is beautiful. Did you write that? I couldn't stop reading until the end.

Thank you for giving me something to think about.

RE: My Apology

We forgive the kitty but not you. How dare you use that sweet baby to cover for you!!! (Just kidding, lol~~~!)

RE: ANNOYING NEIGHBORS

I would keep the Do Not Disturb sign up and only answer at a certain time (let them know when you are available so you don't completely shun them). And when you do talk to them, set boundaries as the other lady posted here. Let them know how you feel, that you want to help them, but you can only do certain things.

Unfortunately, some people will run all over you unless you yourself stop the car.

RE: people hurting people

I totally agree with you. Just know there are very nice people out there too. I kinda feel sorry for the mean ones. What must it be like to be that cold?

Forget them.

RE: Am i really that bad?

A lot of women on singles sites still wait for the man to make the first move. Why not say hi to some ladies?

I hope you find your love and all the best to you!

RE: How do i know guy really interested in me!

Sweet girl, when someone loves you, you will know it. They will make sure that you know it - it will be in the way they hug you/hold you, look at you, talk to you....it will also be in their actions as well as their words...if you have to ask, you probably aren't loved as you need to be yet.

"Love without a ring" sounds like intimacy without marriage...if that is not what you want, don't do it...hold on to your dreams and what you want, because you can very easily get VERY hurt. Love is like that. Wonderfully precious, yet terribly painful when it goes wrong.

Dont let a man use you, (love himself more than you). You can tell this if he puts his needs over yours or does not respect your needs (not faithful/loyal, etc.).

I don't understand why someone is incompatible just because they are younger - it is the person that counts, not the number unless it is significant (say more than 10 years either way). Use your mind and your heart to guide you in love, and learn its lessons so that love doesn't break a heart that should be cherished!

RE: A Politically Correct XMas :)

So sorry Santa baby. Maybe now you can move to a warmer climate and soak in some sun.

RE: You know, what I find strange ?

To the doll call:

You read his profile and you agree with him? That's funny. You state on your profile that you are a strong Christian and he is agnostic. Should make for fun discussions if nothing else.

I agree with this blog post, though. I have thought the same thing...most blogs on this site get very few comments. It's amazing that people keep blogging at this rate! :)

RE: God is on Your Side

Thank you! Inspired words indeed.

RE: ~ Prayer~

Beautiful prayer and blog. Thank you!!!

RE: Kindness...

That is very beautiful. Thanks for posting.

RE: WHY ONE HEART

There is a secret about having one heart...because that is what God wants us to have...one heart united with His...this is our purpose, our ultimate goal and reality.. and the one relationship that will bring us our greatest joy.

RE: Too Much Too Soon

Most women know that men are not comfortable saying I love you too soon. She really should not have said it either, you were both just starting to get to know each other. It is sad she was hurt but clearly things wouldn't have worked out anyway as she was too emotional and the road would be very rocky until this changed.

If you didn't see it coming you weren't to blame. Ignoring someone is pretty harsh though - you might have had your reasons, but finding she was being "ignored" might have really set her off (to say the hurtful things). If this ever happens again, be gentle and end it or say you need to take it slow, but don't "ignore" and then try to explain because the person will feel disrespected and hurt.

RE: im going to be single forever!!!

The first thing that comes to mind is that you are not ready for that one, long term relationship in your life. And you are only 19.

You are letting how you feel determine fact for you (you will never find anyone because look what happened in the past). One thing you can count on is that you cannot predict the future and that this is a wide, wonderful world full of millions of people. A lot of experience is waiting ahead of you in your life's road.

It is too soon at 19 to declare you will never be loved by someone you love. What I found to be true is that you will love/be loved by several people in your life. Life's events are not in your control but your attitude (of positivity and hope) as well as openness to love is necessary to uplift you out of your sadness right now and open up your heart to a new direction. Perhaps you might want to move to a different area, go back to school, or prepare for a new career while you love your wonderful little baby. That is one precious gift you already have..there are some of us here that will never have that unless we adopt.

Cheer up - things will get better!!!

RE: IM NOT GOOD ENOUGH COMPLEX

Wonderful post. Thank you. I hope it ministers to those who need it.