calmheartseeks Blog Comments (1,531)

RE: To those who have offered there kind advise

That' great to hear!!! Keep on keeping on! You are worth it!

RE: No men from my home town

gosh that might scare him, lol. Seriously...try it (saying hello). Many relationships are started that way. Nothing will be lost...you were just being friendly. It's better than just passing by with a smile, each kicking each other in the head for not having courage! :)

RE: IS MY PROFILE STILL ACTIVE?????

That's what I thought Pixels...people may be unsure of her status.

RE: lol... Just hilarious.... :@)

Blazing Saddles Food Fight and Harvey Korman:
"TAXI...Drive me off this picture"

RE: Does anyone know someone else who has gone through

I'd need to talk to her, but she had (2) radiation treatments of some kind...she says the pain is much better now and she doesn't need to have the surgery. Radiation sounds scary but she's a very cautious lady so I am sure it was something she felt safe with. Let me know if you want me to get more details.

RE: I hate men!

Also, this is something both men and women may do...suddenly end a relationship. Men complain all the time that women are playing games...it seem it's hard for some to end a relationship gracefully.

RE: Do you believe in zodiac sign?

I love that bunny picture, HB! So sweet and innocent.

RE: Western men behind Asian women

Moon, sometmes I don't know what you mean by your comments?

RE: Western men behind Asian women

Many Western men who look abroad want women with the old, traditional values...with the man older and as the head of the home, with the woman by his side. Nothing wrong with this, but they often see Western women as independent, feminist, and materialistic.

Some just like Asian beauty and culture.

It' a man thing.

RE: No men from my home town

Regarding Walmart guy; Don't just wink. This may be too ambiguous, and he may be shy. Just say hello next time and start the convo. :)

RE: No men from my home town

Wow, you went through 42 pages? That took perseverance! I know the times I did a "search" there were just TOO many results to wade through and I'd get tired, lol. I wonder if you could do an advanced search with your town only? That'd be best.

RE: I'm Thai woman looking for real love and marriage

To the poster above me; Hello, little rabbit!!! I love you honey. Will you be my valentine? You little cuddle cutie...you are the bunniest of them all.

RE: the land down under.

Yaaah! You knew this was coming...

RE: Any girl or woman seeking for tomboy

People aren't going to leave their name and email on a public board.

Also, your name is first? What is your last, lol. J/K...

I suggest you contact people you like if they aren't contacting you...just a note to say hi or something else short and friendly as only a small portion of CS reads and participates on the blogs.

RE: young girls want to date old men

I would like to say that Mr. Phoenix Rising (David) has reached out to women of all ages on this site, not just young women. Perhaps he is just open to love and friendship wherever it can be found.

I wish him the best.

RE: Question

Well, not enough information here :), but my first guess would be that they don't want to be friends...guys run a mile from the "F" word...they may take your suggestion as an implication you don't want anything more than friendship.

I understand you don't mean that, but it's a thought.

Second, if you are enjoying email communication, just let it flow naturally. Don't ask if you can be friends, just become friends.

People are strange creatures and get nervous easily.

All the best!!!

RE: Vanity Fair and City II (36)

You asked how high a short person can reach and how far a short person can go with her dreams and determinations.

JUST AS FAR. JUST AS FAR. JUST AS FAR as a tall person.

While height may be a physical requirement in some occupations (such as a model), and is a definite plus in the working world (especially for men), height has nothing to do with achieving your dreams and aspirations. IT ALL COMES FROM WITHIN.

You may look young (still at the tender cusp of 21), but this is something you will be happy about later. The trouble is in your case it is interfering with others perception of you as a colleague. This can be impacted through changes in hair, makeup, clothing and ATTITUDE: the attitude that shows you are a confident professional who knows she can do the job. Ask any short celebrity or other accomplished individuals who find themselves vertically challenged. Do some research (which you love to do) on attitude and success.

I won't argue that tall people have advantages (especially when trying to reach a shelf), but short people have advantages too!!!

I would just forget the whole height issue and concentrate on the things you CAN change, making the best of your many gifts, and the unique qualities that make you an individual.

RE: young girls want to date old men

I agree the post about being old was beyond rude but realistically my dad died at around age 70. My mom is still going at in her late eighties but none of us know how long we have here. If you lived 49 more years that would take you over the age of 100 (known as a centenarian) and statistically most of us don't reach that mark. Allegedly only one in two hundred men reach 100, and only one in fifty women (which seems to give ladies the edge). The life expectancy of the average person (current world age) is said to be 67. With scientific and medical breakthroughs though you never know. I hope your sweetie brings you true happiness because you seem like a good man.

Wikipedia has a really interesting article on life expectancy for different groups for those who want a prognosis

RE: The Significance of Ladybugs.....

I can see why you thought the ladybug was a mystical angel, but do put in the saltshaker that these little bugs are known for their tenacity. They are also known to "play dead" when they are in danger.

A few more facts about the ladies:

• Ladybugs were named in England more than 500 years ago, when they were called beetles of Our Lady or Lady beetles. They may have been named after Mary, the mother of Jesus, who was called “Our Lady.” Or they may have been named in honor of an ancient, pagan goddess, who was also called “Lady.”

• In many countries, people think ladybugs are good luck. In Iran, ladybugs are called “good news” and in Switzerland “good God’s little fatty.”

• There are both girl and boy "ladybugs".


BTW, I was horrified at your vivid retelling of the accident and it confirmed my belief that one shouldn't ride at high speeds, especially on a motorcycle.

RE: negative comments stay away

I could be way off in left field but I think this lady is hurting, and that's why she doesn't want "judgements" (I think this is what she means by negative comments).

I'd hate for you to leave CS Rose because I believe there is great opportunity for meeting people here, at least as friends. Don't get upset at the multitude. When people post a blog they are opening themselves to any feedback they will get, and it won't always be positive. People don't want their opinions edited or watered down for consumption...kind of blogging communism. So we take the good with the bad, and usually there's a lot more good than bad unless you hit a nerve with someone or have the misfortune to get embroiled in an online feud.

RE: negative comments stay away

geesh, that WAS negative,,,you have no idea what anyone's life is to judge...maybe she had some big bad breaks...life doesn;t always go as planned.

RE: here lately

oh John...some families are just like that..it's not you...

RE: Men's Complaint

I completely agree they should not have left - I just wondered if they knew what to expect. Of course you can have dinner with someone you have no chemistry with and there is no excuse at all to leave except bad manners. I did not mean to give that impression.

Perhaps they felt it was an awkward situation, but you are very right that such behavior is hurtful and wrong. I guess the only good thing is you found out they weren't the kind of people you'd want to know.

RE: Men's Complaint

The two who walked out...did they see your full picture online? If they did, they would have known you were not skinny and who they were meeting.

Both men and women want chemistry in a romantic relationship. I don't think this makes them shallow...you can't force chemistry. People have their preferences, and that is life. I know you said that you understood this but I would just continue to be honest before the first meeting. I am sure there are men out there who would be glad to meet you. Not everyone has preferences for a skinny gal.

RE: knowing waht is right or wrong,

Thanks, Drea! I always enjoy reading your posts. You and Venus keep me entertained and I love your courage in posting just what you think!!! :)

RE: knowing waht is right or wrong,

Other people can't give us peace or contentment. It would be nice! :)

Just wondering, what did you expect to receive from posting this blog if not encouragement? I would really like to know.

RE: knowing waht is right or wrong,

I'm sorry, it was Voltaire's quote, not Mr. Paine's.

RE: Older woman dating younger man. . .

John, I know of a relationship that lasted a lifetime and the woman was seven years older than the man. You go ahead and love that special woman of yours. :) Eight years is no big deal if the time and fit is right for two people.

RE: What do you think

Just wanted to add when glancing at your profile...your son is so cute. You are one lucky lady!!!

RE: What do you think

I say go for it! We are usually sorry for the opportunities missed and that we cannot bring back again.