jbibiza Forum Posts (4,914)

RE: what do you hang on your walls

My ex´s...

RE: Movin On, Movin On, Movin on!!!

You showed much more courage than I do.

RE: Movin On, Movin On, Movin on!!!

Deepest respect!

RE: Movin On, Movin On, Movin on!!!

Deepest respect!

RE: Anyone interested in travelling to Peru?

That would be awesome! Unfortunately Hawaii in Feb is going to break the bank...

RE: Say Something Good!!!!

Agreed... that site also has documentaries... One of my favorites... "What in the bleep do we really know" is brilliant! and BBC´s Blue Planet is amazing, but only if you can get a good copy... the cinematography is incredible

RE: Say Something Good!!!!

or there is watch-movies.net I watched two quite good films in the last couple of days...Slumdog Millionaire and Gran Torino

RE: Name a Christmas present You would Give to the One Above.

If you think CS can be addictive...

A fabulous VIP night in Pacha!

RE: Name a Christmas present You would Give to the One Above.

A big kiss and a cuddle!

RE: Just a quick one

I learned a long time ago that when someone doesn´t show up or come home when they said they would... to go ahead and get on with my life. I´ll call a friend and head out for dinner or maybe a drink... when they come home to an empty house it´s a bit of a shock, when you come home and give them a kiss and say "did you have a good night" they´re gobsmacked!

When you sit home getting angry, they get home only to have you shout at them or mope or whine and they immediatley think they should have just stayed at the bar...when they come home to an empty house followed by a kiss and a cheery attitude they´re much more inclined to come home in the future.

RE: THE GIRL U R DATING SLEEPS WITH YOU ON THE FIRST DATE..

The only time I do the sleep on a first date situation is when we are enjoying each other so much that the idea of separating to go home to our respective beds just seems like a waste of time when all we´re going to do is wish we were still together... and yes, I remember their names, their faces, their voices... to this day.

RE: Do i look alright as a red head?

Definitely the red! You´re a pretty girl, and the red makes you stunning!

RE: Men

Hi Claire.... Well on that guess I´m safe... it´s far to cold to be in my summer attire... lounging around in sweats I am, while the sun may be out, it´s a bit chilly and the surf has gotten quite rough... I think we may have a storm on the way.

RE: Men

Do you have a secret web cam in my house...? That´s the exact position I¨m in just now....

RE: Men

ooops that should be the MORE ego shown....

RE: Men

I think in most cases the "ego" shown, the less confidence in the man....

No... I actually have some very prevalent "male" characteristics when it comes to relationships.... I think I understand men fairly well... when it comes to generalizations I think you have to go on an individual by individual basis.

RE: THE GIRL U R DATING SLEEPS WITH YOU ON THE FIRST DATE..

When two people connect you can share more with each other in the course of a night then many who date for weeks... it all depends on how open and honest people are with each other.

When you have that kind of connection... you don´t let something like the end of the night stop what´s happening between you...that magic of just getting lost in each other... there´s no feeling like it...

RE: CS chat room...

Wow!!! There´s some spunk in the chat room! Well done coming over showing up the little prat for what he is!

RE: should india pakistan war take place

I´m curious to know why some of the posts are assuming that the OP is in favour of the war, his only comment was to say that it was a serious issue and ask our opinion on whether or not there should be a war.

RE: CS chat room...

RE: CS chat room...

...but, but... I thought we were running off together....

RE: CS chat room...

Because of people like you who are rude, demanding and shout...

RE: Advice On Is It A Turn - Off

I´m a bit old fashioned in that respect... I can be friendly and chat a bit more frequently with someone that I like, maybe send them a flower saying I liked something they posted... but I pretty much leave it up to them to take it any further.

Healthy non materialistic attitued or fear of commitment?

Exactly! Hence the reason for this thread... what is the motivation behind those choices... I don´t think it´s always what we think it is... I think there is a lot of subconscious things that go on in our choices that we may not realize.

RE: Who here on CS turns you

hmmmmmm, I don´t know... I´ve always been kind of partial to the sword...

Healthy non materialistic attitued or fear of commitment?

Having grown up in a very traditional home... and having been an extremely responsible parent that did get caught up in having it all... I seem to have a difficult time realizing that freedom doesn´t necessarily mean not being able to have commitment in your life.

If the simple act of having a dog has me imagining a more settled and traditional lifestyle... imagine what the idea of committing myself in a relationship would do...

After so many years of commitment and responsibility in being a parent and work... I truly love not having obligations of my time...but I´m starting to realize that I´m giving up a lot to have that... and maybe I can have commitment without necessarily going back to a life that is so full of obligations there is no time left for me. Crap, I sound selfish.

RE: Who here on CS turns you

I think that would have more to do with the nature of the conversation rather then with the person... although what they say and how they say it would have an effect...

Healthy non materialistic attitued or fear of commitment?

Well with you still being in school, that makes things quite a bit different...it´s not so much a choice as the stage of life you are in.

I move apartments every 6 months and often jobs as well... for me it´s a choice, not a necessity... I´ve taken pride in living a life free of consumerism and materialism. Now the simple act of having a dog for a couple of weeks and looking at the reasons I haven´t gotten one is making me question that lifestyle choice... and the reasons behind it... and to see if others have gone through similar feelings and choices.

Some are blaming jobs... but a job is also a choice...

RE: Who here on CS turns you

I never get turned on by looks... not to say that I don´t find some men attractive. Getting turned on by someone is all about chemistry... and that only happens in RL, at least for me.

Healthy non materialistic attitued or fear of commitment?

I guess I still equate being responsible with living a more traditional lifestyle...