Thats not a word I really use myself. I've got heaps of mates that feel they do quite well with the ladies, which numbers wise is true, but there's no quality or depth. To each their own, but no being totally out of shape does nothing for most people, apart from the lower end of the spectrum.
Yeah I'll get real here and say, we always learn but sometimes dont want to admit we did. Each partner teaches us something about ourselves and others, and so when we're 86 years old and dont know what day it is, we're the perfect versions of ourselves and ready for a partner.
Sure I miss all of my ex's, I hope they're happy and doing well in life. Would I go back? nah I dont think so, do I want to reconnect? not in an intimate way. Do I stay in touch with them? Well, I dont think its helpful for them to move forward my being in the background, but some like to stay in touch every so often and thats nice.
Its a sad story, but relationships break down for all sorts of reasons and its really only the business of those directly involved. Nothing happens in a vacuum, and although its painful to see a loved one going through it all, imagine if you made the consequences much worse for everybody by involving yourself in an unwise action.
I dont think the contest has much to do with music, maybe the strategic and geographic voting has reduced the need for talent or ability. Technically, Australia is not in Europe either, so no surprises Jessica Mauboy came 20th out of 24, when clearly she performed much better than most that beat her.
I dont think its possible to differentiate between serious daters and time wasters, majority of people are in a kind of denial. I'll admit to being a time waster most of the time, but if something tasty came along...happy times!
to quote One... With so many choices & the fact that we are still here, what does that say about us?
There are maybe half a dozen Australian women on here posting, I'd be too young for 4 of them, the others would be either too far away or not a match for me. Seriously, do you buy the first car you see a picture of on the internet? I wouldnt, I'd be checking out several different cars, and test driving a few. Sure, the car dealer would much prefer me to buy whatever he says is the right car for me, and if he has a jealous tantrum the last thing I'd do is reward him with my business.
To quote Rachie- So if you are talking to someone you like. Would that question not be on your mind? dunno
I've had men ask me that question or say you seem to be very friendly with..
Works both ways dependent on the interest each person has in another.
Would it be on my mind? well I guess it would a bit, but not enough to bother me much. I would imagine somebody I liked enough to message with, would have other friends and be engaged with the world outside our friendship.
Personally I dont see jealousy as interest or care/affection, I see it as corrosive immaturity.
Who says online dating is not already successful for those able to negotiate it? Pretty much as soon as a woman asks me if I'm chatting with others etc, I know its going nowhere. I think its too easy to blame the opposite gender and the website, while ignoring the common denominator in the equation.
In my opinion it depends what folks are hoarding. You might have a house full of antique motorbikes, or full of empty milk bottles, newspapers etc. But thats a subjective judgement really.
I reckon they collect a certain amount of things, feeling reassured by its presence/stability, and then realise they're overwhelmed by all the junk. But by then they may feel threatened by radical change.
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RE: Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
I feel that Greek olives are slightly superior to Spanish olives, so I'm sorry to break the bad news to you.