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Always run from emails that begin with dearest, or beloved.

Avoid any profile that has the word god in capitals.

Avoid profiles that claim distance doesn't matter, age doesn't matter.

Run from anyone using the phrase GOD fearing or God fearing in profiles or email.

Do not video chat in the nude.

Understand any photo you supply may someday be posted as someone else's profile photo.

Do not supply your very personal email address. Create a bogus gmail, or hotmail account and use that email address for your love letters to strangers.

Do not supply your true date of birth or home address unless you wish someone to impersonate you to a credit card company.

WhatsAp and Yahoo Messenger are better for first time video chats than a connection to your Facebook account..

If you give strangers your cell phone number you should expect lots of salesmen to soon start calling selling everything from condoms to old truck warranties.

Four out of every five folk you meet online will turn out to be total fakes.

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Yes, there are a lot of scams being played on this site, now it's time to ask for a ID card, or Drivers License matching their picture on the site! Here are a bunch of female/ male's who know that are using other people's pictures,. (numbers removed), and they all claim there phones are bad? And, they can't call you it's because they are roaming their calls from other places in the World,....

It seems it is a crazy world. Why would a Nation Incouarge a small Nuke War. and say that it would help Global Warming? Are they looking for lost Suit cases?

My question is HE real? Maybe Man radar needs to get fixed it would go off by now...say men showed up in mailbox...sorry staff just I struggled so long finding that one and I kind gave up already. I don't think he out there in boat I see shadows and and...probably all fish I see don't exist out there underneath my boat...

Strangely being put on friend zone is off putting for men if you put woman in friend zone she not returning for second nibble...she leaving...

I don't have friend zone I have applicant all, or not, hmm there also chance ppl could selected...but they have to face judgemental eye. I know that sounds bad but My family is so judgemental...they want perfect uncle to be, and brother law to be and son in law to be so understand dude out there I feel for you but I will not ever put you in friend zone. I wanted to but it does not work.

Being in friend zone just leads to people asking wasn't that guy/gal better...then...yeah not good concept. You can have friends but only if was on social media site that works and you keep track make certain your not their girlfriend hey that works. But overall...it might be better if was live date site and you check out if he or she wasn't the one, or their wasn't any chemistry what so ever.

To me friend zone should be called childhood and compared to this guy or gal zone you could do lot better zone it kind nails it like ugly tomato.

Why wear any underwear....maybe if you wearing thin or sheer I can understand or something to give dominatrix night head start but seriously woman ideal way get party started would lubricant, types of condoms with ribbing something that excite her and him so when go bear they feel ah yes.

Not everyone goes hotel how many times do we know those VIP rooms are cleaned, do you take black light with you everywhere you go inspect it see if clean ultra clean... or do you have your own cleaning supplies.

Lingerie I was thinking would been sheer or lace like...but I don't think they come with edible kind anymore?
Set or not set is question, most women I seen prefer set, I don't know I think for one who not traditional bride I prefer something comfy that means no bra, I am not confining my boobs to that torture of bra unless it comfortable.

Panties...I was thinking of thong but I realize it have to lace up to your a** right what was other one G string or panty less type I don't think they sell those in bridal stores.

Stockings would have to all way to waist..declare I all in.

Not sure about wedding dress.

Oh I am full positive energy just running out time...biological clock is rapidly clicking telling me like timer I will so DONE when I reach 40! almost super insane... trying this method...find my other me to complete the crazy circle of life how that hard...hmm its so hard I've been trying all means of dating services and all them failed...

So I am still here...

Then that just means date younger dudes doesn't it statistically meaning in general right??
A guy should read this then:https://natural-fertility-prescription.com/aging-men-and-sperm-health-can-older-men-be-fathers/

I do care because its required to me to date someone with my age range restriction I set for myself. I guess I expand it. Really 27 olds that really out there from that data alone... because its on research from that site that women who date or get impregnated by men below age of 30 have higher chance getting pregnant without risks. That just mean woman have to use sperm bank in long run.

Bill Clinton, Barrack Obama, JFK(possibly because he made promise but evidently his promise was overturned or undone by his VP or next person coming. after his death which I find chilling.) George Bush he tried to make everyone happy I mean everyone just didn't understand that Terminology what is true happiness when comes to American people was he ever Republican, because to me he always be Rhino...stuck in neutral never returning to Right and always taking side deals...when offered.

hmm I like say what if your not only one doing rejecting, My family and my parents are on that panel too so I have state I say applicants must apply forward but they must get rejected by my father and brother what do I say delete or rejected sorry, nothing personnel.

The guy have meet up their standards of beneficial partner. I don't dish out abuse it what will happen when he meets the perfectionist I am not that person that person is hard to live in her shadow...but trying to ninja about without her knowing what I am up to is like oops... Which why I stick to Spiritualist and meditation when I am around such heavy cardinal and rightly so. Someone who adhere to someone of that nature needs another person on panel to tell me if that person is legit or might not help me get me out away first vacation. Not in foreign land I was thinking somewhere in state I haven't been too...I never crossed country before.

Drove a car would be another thing but I don't think that possible.

Perfectionist already knows I am on dating sites and failed miserably on two others because those sites...made me think back one particular site that sucked this one I told her its free...and I getting through process it might actually work. I just hope it does.

Very nice article.

As a retired teacher of 31 years in the class room I feel I can comment. #1. I had never heard of helicopter parenting until I read this article. #2. I would say the helicopter ran out of gas years ago and the total lack of respect from most children is disgusting. Why ? Because too many parents give their children too much in material things , but in addition parents allow children too much lee way in behavior. An example : most every time I go the a grocery store when school is not in secession , children run up and down the aisles , pushing customers carts around and the parents do nothing about it. Which says , "parents do not take control of their children ". #3. Parents have taken discipline out of the class room at school , they - parents - do not have discipline at home and they don't want any delivered at school. Having a child sit out in the hall a few minutes is a joke and the children know that. #4. I think every teacher should have a paddle hanging behind their desk in every class room in the lower grades , and be allowed to use it if necessary.
I do not approve of hurting a child , but a gentle tap or two does wonders for control , and other students
learn from it also. studecar

Another point you could add is that scammers tend to copy and paste romance letters from online, because they obviously do not feel it is worth the time to write their own words.. I just exposed one from this site 3 days ago doing just that. (Some of the phrases included "I love the way you walk", which this person could not possibly know, as we are both online).

Get their hang out handle and send them VIDS LMAO

agreed

Yea, rejection will stop a friendship in it's tracks. LOL

Ouch! Rejection! Yea truth is the truth. No matter how you say it , it still comes to rejection. Some handle it well mmm some don't. But best is just,,, truth.

Yes scammers are scammers. Men and Women both do it.

Ha ha ha Can you say " Set up ". Ha ha ha . Oh well, I myself would tell you the truth, or suggest something else, cause if you are that insecure or you are testing me. I probably would move on.

While I agree. I know that rejection is something almost everyone will feel at 1 time or another. But wow, I can say that even the rejections I have gotten and still get, don't faze me 1 bit, as I know there is always another one right down the road. Being rejected is nothing to fear. Fear mmmm I fear nothing and especially not a pretty woman or even rejection by one . The fun part is once you get rejected and turn and walk away with a prettier one mmmmm Who feels worse???? Not me. LOL
Glad you found the one. Stay safe!