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These scumbags are everywhere . I give them hell .
by DoctorDredCaliforniaMar 9, 2023
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Red flag means scammers .
by DoctorDredCaliforniaMar 8, 2023
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Much of what was said, above, is subjective, as the article states.
Simple logic--that has been know for centuries, since Plato, Aristotle--is the key. I look, especially, for contradictions. If a profile states it is female, but has what I term "gender confusion" in their descriptions, then you can see that there is a high likelihood that something is amiss.
Here is an actual example from a profile that sent me a "like," earlier today:
"More About Me
I am a happy woman who want....
More About my Match
I am man who love and take care of a woman...."
Obviously, there's a problem here.
Also this morning, one of the regular bloggers posted an alligator story. However, when I checked the actual Orlando Newspaper article that he quoted as a source, the Newspaper clearly stated that the fence was aluminum, whereas the blogger stated it was wrought iron.
Such details are not just flukes. You can find them continuously. The Internet abounds and excels in disinformation.
In order to deceive people, one must change the details, and present them as truth. Liars, can only wait to be caught.
So, always ensure that anybody you talk to is self-consistent. I will already tell you, that 99.9% of the profiles on this site, are not self-consistent. Most of them have places like: Los Angeles, DC; New York, CA; etc... That is the place to start. If their profile isn't accurate, then most likely, other things won't be accurate either. (It is proper to obfuscate your location, especially in this day and age. But one should at least be on the correct continent. For example, mine says, Pwetty Blue Planet, WA. I am, in fact, in WA, but I only give out the city to people who are nice and contact me directly. Don't confuse safety, with dishonesty.) Other examples are eye color, hair color, height, weight, etc.
If the person can't spell very well, but they have PhD listed or in the description / occupation, then you might want to double-check those details. I do. But, I don't have issues with most of it. Many people can't write and will copy things from the Internet into their profile (a mild form of deception). But, scammers do exactly the same thing! So, always, always check the profile details. I for one don't want to misrepresent myself as a woman! You can rest assured, that any mistakes in gender, are pretty large mistakes, even when taking into account language differences. I write all of my own words and sentences, and never copy, unless citing something in quotes, as above. But, then again, I'm an Amateur Author.
Hope this helps. My opinions are my own.
Shalom,
Iyyov
by IyyovWashingtonMar 7, 2023
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When Should You Meet Someone From an Online Dating Site?
If they are not scammers.
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Talk, Listen, Digest & Feedback. TLDF: The basic keys.
Talk: The person talks.
Listen: You listen.
Digest: You understand the message.
Feedback: Your positive reaction to the message.
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Good article. Good communication is a must in every relationship. Once that relationship is establish respect, boundaries, privacy, and trust, have to develop.
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One or both partners may spend too much time talking and not enough time listening. It is important to express your feelings verbally, but it is equally important to listen.
I thank the staff for posting this article.
It is the root cause of many failed relationships, including infidelity. Not listening to one's partner and understanding the message can lead to many problems in a relationship. It is very important also to find the time to listen to the other partner's concern and understand it. Don't say, "I don't have the time now.' Create the time for him or her.
And when you talk, talk and don't babble, give the other partner a chance to offer a feedback. And wait for the other partner to finish. Not only is it respectful, it gives you a chance to understand the message being conveyed.
Talk, Listen, Digest & Feedback. TLDF: The basic keys.
Talk: The person talks.
Listen: You listen.
Digest: You understand the message.
Feedback: Your positive reaction to the message.
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Doesn't this idea also apply to women who make themselves appear to be fancier than they really are?
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how i wish this quality man existing today,i never seen in my 45days of my life and never been experienced it, i will cherish , love , care and respect him to the rest of my life.
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by BeccasvPhilippinesJan 31, 2023
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I'd welcome a sharing friendship with a couple of people or more. I'm a very respectful person who is a versatile and very open minded. I have a lot of experience in pleasure in giving and receiving. I can be assertive or be dominant. I have toys and I have a piercing in my tongue. I respect boundaries and can be as intimate and dirty as you like.
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Not a Father figure but just mature for petty fights like how my age behave.
by Sarai93South AfricaJan 11, 2023
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Xanax.
I have Panic attacks, Agoraphobia, and impulse control issues from a 1987 factory related head injury.
Most anxiety is just personal fears and can easily be managed.
Only a handful of people actually need meds.
by GullyFoyleNew YorkJan 8, 2023
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10 yrs,one month,90,000 dollors later,,no intementcy now,but,im again savinr 450 dollors a month after bills,,makes me feel better,,im a decent catch,and my low mileage corvette doesnt complain,,,i have heaven to look forward to,,,,johny,B
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For me, anxiety and insomnia have been a very big problem for a long time, and I don't know how to deal with it. Are there any medications that can help me?
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This article needs to define 'love addiction' at the outset, and then proceed.
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Good information. Men hate to be singled out..but this may work!
by CoulditbeUGeorgiaDec 12, 2022
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I 100% agree. You begin to ask yourself what's in it for you! Yes..it makes him less attractive to you. It becomes a job not a relationship!
by CoulditbeUGeorgiaDec 12, 2022
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Well, it sounds very good to say that 'Money can't buy love' but in reality money is needed to maintain love. If you are sick, you need money for treatment, you need money to travel somewhere, you will need money for everything. You can't ignore money.
suppose you are a very good, decent, honest, helpful, kind-hearted person but you don't have enough money then people will respect you, love you but no one will marry you. Because even though money is not needed in love-life, but money is needed in married-life. Love and marriage are two different things. Love is an emotion(feeling) and marriage is a responsibility(commitment).
It is easy to love but difficult to maintain love for lifelong. A balance has to be maintained between feelings and money.
By the way, only things should be bought with money, feelings should not be bought with money. Because love acquired in the wrong way does not last. So use money in the right way and get love with your virtues.
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There are a lot of people who approach attractive woman, don't know what will be your number among them?
If we look from the point of view of the woman, it is very difficult for an attractive woman to choose one among thousands of proposals. Because it is impossible to get all the qualities she wants in one person. That's why she gets tired of selections and chooses a rich person.
The proposal of a financially strong and stable person is more likely to be chosen. Next she chooses Brilliant-Mind. Brilliant-mind with simplicity attracts her more. Your social status is also judged by her.
If you are rich or brilliant-minded or have a good social status then you can try, otherwise try somewhere else.
If you have all these three then your chances of getting selected are very high. Go ahead.
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Switzerland has always been the head of the IRS !! Why because that's where the Rothchilds family is from!! Who is the Rothchilds family? They were "Note I say we're" the collectors of of Tribute yes most don't understand, let's look at the saying, eather the universe is full of alien intelligent life, Or, There is no other alien intelligent life in are universe, Equally both statements are scary, Well let me explain, If there's no other intelligent life? And, Why would that be?? Or if the universe is teaming with life ,
what is standing behind us that we can't see? That are governments are not telling us?? You know like a protector or " are keepers" !! That's so powerfull that no other alien life would try to invaid earth and try take care natural resources!!
Hate to tell you but , The latter is what we have!! We have had keepers and the Rothchilds have been collecting a tribute!! And giving it in the form of money that buys gold to are keepers !! Are keepers are so powerful no other alein life dare come near are planet!
Okay how would I know such a thing and what's happening? Well let me tell you the shield of secrecy has been slowly cracking since 2016! Why because that was the start of the end to the Fake Jewish Satanic pedofiles fall from power on earth, Proof Now Look at all the $bills in your wallet in fact go to the bank tomarrow and ask for $100 In charge $50 in $1 bills and the other $50 in combination of $5 $10 $20 what your going to find is this mostly 2013 and a few 2017 why because the federal reserve charter has expired as of 2013 but they asked for additional 5 years google and read the train ride to Jekyll island 1912 well when you find time if you like read .my 3rd antichrist is dead blog
by letsplay1923ArizonaNov 25, 2022
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There is a Process (one might call it that) created/discovered by a Hawaiian Kahuna in the 1930's. She was called in to help with various family arguments and such and her advice was "the Ho oponopono". Her view was that we are all ONE as part of the humancondition and that by seeing a hurtful situation, we need to put in our "2 cents" even though we may NOT be directly involved with the situation.
Here's a story of a Psychiatrist who worked at a Hospital for the Criminally Insane on the Big Island. It was SO BAD there that staff had to walk down the halls with their back to the wall. He supposedly never met a single patient but did this 'process' for all of them every day. Miraculously, the Hospital was closed three years later as all patients had become 'rehabilitatied enough to at least get moved to a Half-way House. You can find his story online. Just type "Ho oponopono". The process is simple: You simply recite the following" "'Person's name', I love you, I am sorry, please forgive me. Thank you.'" Now you must realize that you are NOT at fault in most cases. The 'please forgive me' part must be seen as you being a member of the human race so that what hurts on, hurts all. Unless this involved someone you have personally interacted with in a harmful way, you must not 'take it on'.
I have used this on drivers who have been tailgating me. 90% of the time, they immediately back off.
Just a suggestion............:)
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Get laid thrice a week. Once at !east during day time, when the sun is still showing... U will be moti enough...
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Please, I need to know if there is any way to read this writing in Spanish, my native language? I ask this because despite not fully understanding it due to my limited knowledge of the English language, I consider it very important and edifying.
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another interesting topic..i'm reading comments here ... everybody knows the answer..money money money..no need brain storm..
by gkcbrkTurkeyOct 2, 2022
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"Why women should be THOTS and golddiggers for older men when the women hit The Wall of Reality".
"Financial stability"??
Did CS just become the new Craigslist personals??
That's nice; let's see one entitled "Why older guys should chase under-30 women for their bodies next."
by funtocomeIllinoisSep 16, 2022
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Article: 8 First Date Red Flags
1. All the headings say "HE", when there are women that do the exact same things.
2. It's all HIS fault YOU'RE not happy.
by funtocomeIllinoisAug 30, 2022
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Don't you think that the desire to fit in also responds to self-undervaluation? Do you think that a person who was sure of herself, of what she is capable of doing without the need to belong to any group, etc., would feel that need to fit in so that she could feel identified with others?
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THANKS STAFF!!!!!
KEEP THEM COMING!!!
We need more Mental Health Awareness.....
I could use some help please...
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Hello everyone,
The article was truly impressive and I was very happy to read it.
Any relationship between two persons, man and woman can create upheavals, whether they are young or old. Usually, fights happen between two young individuals, because of EGO and an attitude of..(I am right always) prevailing between the two. relationship between two older couple is more sturdy and strong. i feel, two young individuals are immature and not ready for a relationship; there will always be a slip between cup of a drink between and the lip.
Maturity has a unique formula for a sustained relationship that can last till the death. so for me old is gold. secondly, you will see few cases of divorces happening between old couples.
So, go for old couples. Of course, a man will always like a younger woman for intimacy and keep alive the interest of a relationship.
Manohar Bhatia
always_besides.
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