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who would like to be friends with me dont mind me being an african

That fits the profile of every one you meet here. What key words..honestly alot of people have the simular life styles.

Thanks for your super write up. I hope it will help lots of people out there.i really appreciate as it helps me too. Am always shy to approach a gorgeous beautiful woman .

I don't agree with the part about the best relationships only happening with like age couples. My maternal grandparents had a 20 year age difference. They were happily married for 45 years and had 6 children.
My paternal grandparents had a 16 year age difference and were married for almost 40 years, until death separated them. My parents had a 23 year age difference and had the kind of marriage most women would love to have. My sister is 21 years younger than her husband, but they are very happy and have three great kids.
I have several friends that have considerable age differences with their spouses that are happy as well. In fact, it's my observation, that marriages with a greater age difference between the husband and the wife tend to last longer than those where people are closer in age.

One would like to think that an online dating site would want to encourage people to meet and date others. After all, the more success stories a site has, the more popular it becomes. If the site is ad supported then, obviously the more users a site has, the more money it makes.
Since I've been on here, it seems that every place I look or click is some article, blog, or some post that is actually discouraging.

Call me an optimist, but I still believe that there are legitimate, honest men out there who want to meet real women. I also believe that there are people out there who still believe in love and romance. I'm one of them.
Granted, a large percentage of those people on this site are probably just looking for one night stands or casual relationships and generally write this whole site of as an entertaining joke. But, there are a few who are looking for a long term committed relationship. Yes, the marriage word. I'm one of those people.
Those of us who are legitimate, honest people looking for love on here
deserve a little bit more respect. Quit talking down to us. We are not idiots. We are intelligent adults capable of making our own decisions about people.
Love can and does happen. Who's to say it can't happen on here?

never give money never take money
way to many scammers online

Little to go on here. Someone who lies a lot is very undesirable anyway. A real psychopth is someone to run like hell from, or eliminate, Not just avoid.

i liked this article very much.
Everythink is right, abolutely right.

Absolutely correct, coz that's my rules too

Wow 5 out of 8. He's history

if two people are arguing over which colour is black one of them is wrong, fact.

it's a commonly used trick to get peoples attn. the article is not that bad.

what to do if they're your boss?

Any one leaving for ZwitzerlanD,? Did you bring me a chocolate,? no I'm afraid not Mr. Bond....I just need you to type in Vesper and the $50,000,000 million dollars will be in her hands by Monday

I agree with the above advices. But what about an honest man, who writes a nice, and perhaps loving, letter to an intellectual, intelligent, amazing and beautiful girl; especially, if he is well experienced in life, and keeps in the back of his mind, that the attractive force between male and female can create love between a man and a woman, which can last forever and he believes that this attractive power should always be protected? I wonder!

My ex wife tried to change me into what she thought i should be,And i grew more&more distant from her,Till i left, i felt that being me was not good enough for her

These things work......

Some of those things are caused by being shy. i do sometimes those things, But that dont mean im being dishonest, just shy

This was worth the reading

The best liers have no conscience about lying so none of those signs will manifest

This is a great article. Very well thought out. Of course, if the woman is feeling the same about you, she should be devoting equal attention to you as well. When both partners do their part, the relationship gets stronger.

I find this article offensive starting with the title! When did a relationship become a warzone with chosen sides and winners or losers? Why does it have to be women versus men? Instead of trying to be the winner of an argument, how about working constructively to get to the bottom of the issues? A relationship is give and take. It requires compromise. If you want your way all the time, then your relationship will turn into a battleground.

Thanks this post provides right direction for better future move and it's true we learn a lot from our hard and harsh experience of life. Thanks again for sharing this article. Regards for author.

Phew, this is spot on. It should be required reading!

It's a great article. To what happened to me on line, these four rules were true !

The guy who I kept communication was very convincing, loving, etc. Our conversations were at Skype. He told me was a widower, had a 15 year-old kid, and wanted to remarry. He even said wanted to come to meet me and we would start preparing our wedding. At the end, in less than a month, asked me for US $1000, which I couldn't afford. Don't share your personal information, please think with your head, not with your heart.

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I glad i did good. Great article