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RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?
only in few words. The scammers are very polite and complinetary, because they want to cover whatever they have in the back of their mind. Although they are intelligent with good experience, it is very easy to uncover them, by "accepting" what they say and asking them questions like, if you were a district attorney, i.e. to make them to believe you that you are willing to do what they really want you to do. Then you learn everything from them. Have you ever thought that lady professor couldever be a scammer? was found by me that a gorgeous and very polite lady professor was a scammer? Incredible but true. I dialled the phone number of the University, that I found on the Internet. Then, I called the local police.
RE: How Age Gaps Can Affect a Relationship
The President of Finland is Married with a 29 years younger Lady and the majority of Finnish people love them as a couple and where ever they are together, it is easy to see, that there is True Love between them, but before they married, that Lady was working in a leader position in the same Party as the President, so in my opinion it is not the age that is the most important, if it is working or not and in this case it is clearly two factors, that make their relationship and marriage successfull and stable and that is True Love and interests in the same things.
I have had by my self big gap in relationship,but there was no problem in any situation, about age differense, the only thing that made the real problem, was that we did not have interests in the same things.
I have had by my self big gap in relationship,but there was no problem in any situation, about age differense, the only thing that made the real problem, was that we did not have interests in the same things.
RE: Pakistan Terrorism and Education
Very first there is no use of saying how it happened and who did it. Best thing is how we can stop it. Personally i feel that if civil society can take few steps then it can be eradicated permanently. Like
1. First be courageous to say loudly when there is something wrong happening around you.
2. Try your level best to enroll all girls in school in govt and make it free up to university level with cash bonus to all of them. schools not in religious schools.
3. strengthen your village level administrative system.
4. Make them responsible who are dealing with poverty eradication schemes and always raise question if there is wrong there.
5. Make system fast and partial and always keep media free.
Within one decade you will see the change
1. First be courageous to say loudly when there is something wrong happening around you.
2. Try your level best to enroll all girls in school in govt and make it free up to university level with cash bonus to all of them. schools not in religious schools.
3. strengthen your village level administrative system.
4. Make them responsible who are dealing with poverty eradication schemes and always raise question if there is wrong there.
5. Make system fast and partial and always keep media free.
Within one decade you will see the change
RE: How Age Gaps Can Affect a Relationship
Here when it comes to start a family this thing should be discussed first i mean in beginning phase.As far as closeness with friends these thing can be settle down with time.There both should have patience while taking on this front.Do not chase insecurity,it can kill any kind of relationship.Any kind of relationship can and is work which have faith and affection and here again age gap relationship is no exception.
RE: Thinking about getting a tattoo?
Get a tattoo, not a chance.
Not only in my eyes do tattoos look grubby and dirty but it can not be a mere coincidence that they are more prevalent in certain sections of the community. Am I saying that everyone with a tattoo is a criminal, a pirate, or lives the gutter, no of course not. What I am saying is that every time I see someone with a tattoo I question their intelligence.
When I was 14 I had posters on my bedroom wall of David Bowie, Roy Wood, and Alice Cooper. When I was in my 20's I decorated my lounge with glossy photos in frames of Fred Astaire, Cyd Charisse, Ginger Rogers, Frank Sinatra, and Dean Martin. Over the following years various artworks have held pride of place on the interior walls of my house, and right now I have Desert Orchid, The Queen, and a couple of large mirrors.
Who in their right mind would want to look at the same decoration, however good, day, after day, after day.
Like clothes, decorations needs changing, on a regular basis.
I fully realise that I have just insulted an increasingly large section of the population, but in my defence, when I see someone with a tattoo the furthest thing from my mind is that they actually have the ability to read.
Maybe someone can narrate my comments to them.
Not only in my eyes do tattoos look grubby and dirty but it can not be a mere coincidence that they are more prevalent in certain sections of the community. Am I saying that everyone with a tattoo is a criminal, a pirate, or lives the gutter, no of course not. What I am saying is that every time I see someone with a tattoo I question their intelligence.
When I was 14 I had posters on my bedroom wall of David Bowie, Roy Wood, and Alice Cooper. When I was in my 20's I decorated my lounge with glossy photos in frames of Fred Astaire, Cyd Charisse, Ginger Rogers, Frank Sinatra, and Dean Martin. Over the following years various artworks have held pride of place on the interior walls of my house, and right now I have Desert Orchid, The Queen, and a couple of large mirrors.
Who in their right mind would want to look at the same decoration, however good, day, after day, after day.
Like clothes, decorations needs changing, on a regular basis.
I fully realise that I have just insulted an increasingly large section of the population, but in my defence, when I see someone with a tattoo the furthest thing from my mind is that they actually have the ability to read.
Maybe someone can narrate my comments to them.
RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?
Just looking through some of the pictures on web search -> "romance scammer pictures", I saw some of those pics on here in new members and photo gallery.
RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?
I am kind of familiar with scammers, as 15 have tried to get money from me in 1 way or another. I like to believe many people are honest and give most people a chance, until that 1 email that actually asks for the money.
The least amount asked for has $200, back in 2006(I think). The highest amount was $9000. Many claim to live in America on their profile, then after a few emails you learn they are not really here. I have had mostly diff types of attempts on me, though some did try the same thing that another already tried.
The quick ones will ask for money, telling you something happened right away. One was visiting a country selling her goods there and got kidnapped, and told to get so much for her release. The slow ones will create a long lasting type of relationship and then ask for help in getting over to America.
One asked me to help send money to her friend, but he lived in a country that doesn't have wire transfers, so she wanted to send the money to my back account. Another didn't speak English and needed to use a translator which costs so much per email. After 5 months she disappeared.
The biggest one (I kind of remember) was a dating site, that cost a huge amount $150 for a month or two. They matched you up with someone that was compatible (so they thought). That person took a week to reply to anything they sent her. She never posted a picture with the site, so when we exchanged pics after 2 weeks, I got nothing. After about 4 to 5 weeks they sent a list of "must have/cant stand". When I filled it out for the exchange, she quit, and I lost anytime I had. Scam by the web site.
After the first few, I asked on the forums, and someone sent a link filled with thousands of pictures of "Known" scammers. I matched each picture I had on that site, and saw them all on there. This is just 1 of many such sites
As I was on about 2-3 diff dating sites back early 2000's I told all of those sites about the scamming, and started joining more sites and letting them know also. Eventually some of them started letting their customers know too, though some did not.
The least amount asked for has $200, back in 2006(I think). The highest amount was $9000. Many claim to live in America on their profile, then after a few emails you learn they are not really here. I have had mostly diff types of attempts on me, though some did try the same thing that another already tried.
The quick ones will ask for money, telling you something happened right away. One was visiting a country selling her goods there and got kidnapped, and told to get so much for her release. The slow ones will create a long lasting type of relationship and then ask for help in getting over to America.
One asked me to help send money to her friend, but he lived in a country that doesn't have wire transfers, so she wanted to send the money to my back account. Another didn't speak English and needed to use a translator which costs so much per email. After 5 months she disappeared.
The biggest one (I kind of remember) was a dating site, that cost a huge amount $150 for a month or two. They matched you up with someone that was compatible (so they thought). That person took a week to reply to anything they sent her. She never posted a picture with the site, so when we exchanged pics after 2 weeks, I got nothing. After about 4 to 5 weeks they sent a list of "must have/cant stand". When I filled it out for the exchange, she quit, and I lost anytime I had. Scam by the web site.
After the first few, I asked on the forums, and someone sent a link filled with thousands of pictures of "Known" scammers. I matched each picture I had on that site, and saw them all on there. This is just 1 of many such sites
As I was on about 2-3 diff dating sites back early 2000's I told all of those sites about the scamming, and started joining more sites and letting them know also. Eventually some of them started letting their customers know too, though some did not.
RE: Why Dating Is Good for Your Soul
I wonder why people cannot find a date ...there are a few real woman on this site who are actually looking for a real guy..
Ive been here for almost 2 months and I already got in touch with a guy who wants a real relationship.
there must be a lonely woman whos willing to spice up her life with someone like you..
keep trying
Ive been here for almost 2 months and I already got in touch with a guy who wants a real relationship.
there must be a lonely woman whos willing to spice up her life with someone like you..
keep trying
RE: Understanding What Men Want in a Relationship
This article go in most issues strait to the point and could be good for every woman to read.
Still,I am a very different man and I don't respect that "Me Time" for my self, as not for my Love one either, I am the one for mutual time and as much as possible together.
Also,when I have an own Partner, I don't in the fact see anymore any other woman on this Earth, I am not interesting about other legs or making fantasze either....but in contrast my Partner has to show her Body so much as possible to me from begining,because I build in her Body as the only one and the most good looking of anything....aur mind and memory are very similar to computers, so if we use self controll and focus only on one thing, then it build it self up as that in our unconscious.
Hot celebritys is just hot celebritys, because the collective unconscious has been feeded with these tends for years and years.
Still,I am a very different man and I don't respect that "Me Time" for my self, as not for my Love one either, I am the one for mutual time and as much as possible together.
Also,when I have an own Partner, I don't in the fact see anymore any other woman on this Earth, I am not interesting about other legs or making fantasze either....but in contrast my Partner has to show her Body so much as possible to me from begining,because I build in her Body as the only one and the most good looking of anything....aur mind and memory are very similar to computers, so if we use self controll and focus only on one thing, then it build it self up as that in our unconscious.
Hot celebritys is just hot celebritys, because the collective unconscious has been feeded with these tends for years and years.
RE: Understanding What Men Want in a Relationship
very good advice,wish more women would read this,an wish I could e-mail its entirety to some mixes up women I have met here on c s!!JD Dwyer
RE: 4 Ways To Find Mr. Right
This article is exactly to the point, because men are what they are and they don't change, but in all my experiences with women, there is always first looking like there is many things similar to what I am, but later on they start to show difference and in the end there are a lot of difference.
I understand it now,that they are later coming back to their original, because in the same time they started to change by them self, in the same time they started to demand changes in me and in our relationship.
This has in every case of my earlier relationship, been the reason to a break up.
I think that when women are more cabable for changes, they think that they can also change men to what they want, what is in fact almost impossible...in the same time,when men are more stable in what they are, then they think, that women have to be the same, making a big mistake and geting a huge disappointment, when change operation start.
When somebody ask me, why my earlier relationship broke down, my answer are almost always, that my partner changed to almost opposite, from what she was in beginning,but in fact it looks more, that she just got back to original.
This changing operation is of course bad for both involved and this article give really a good advise,how to go ahead and avoid that problem.
In fact, it is no matter what we are doing in our life, to act as our real self, give potential to succeed much better.
I understand it now,that they are later coming back to their original, because in the same time they started to change by them self, in the same time they started to demand changes in me and in our relationship.
This has in every case of my earlier relationship, been the reason to a break up.
I think that when women are more cabable for changes, they think that they can also change men to what they want, what is in fact almost impossible...in the same time,when men are more stable in what they are, then they think, that women have to be the same, making a big mistake and geting a huge disappointment, when change operation start.
When somebody ask me, why my earlier relationship broke down, my answer are almost always, that my partner changed to almost opposite, from what she was in beginning,but in fact it looks more, that she just got back to original.
This changing operation is of course bad for both involved and this article give really a good advise,how to go ahead and avoid that problem.
In fact, it is no matter what we are doing in our life, to act as our real self, give potential to succeed much better.
RE: 4 Signs You’re Dating A Father Figure
I am very surprised, that this article talk only about Father figure, when the Mother figure looks to be as often affecting relationships.
I had a 13 years relationship with an 16 years younger Indonesian Lady and she had in the end even change the account in the Bank only into her name, she took also care of all payments and organised our home just in her way.
I am a very strong person, have been in the Army in a powerfull position and an succesfull businessman, but still my Son said strait to her in our last year together, that she had manipulated his Father, to what she did not answer, but made a big smile.
After her, I married a 34 year younger Lady, but we was only living 5 month together, because she shange exactly everything in our home and our life into how she had lived before alone and as the top of everything, she try to controll, that I had my nails enough clean, even I know,that I am more clean than avarage People. When I confront her about that, she answered, that her Sister is always controlling every morning, that her Sons have clean finger nails, before they go to school.
After 2 month I got an ulcer, the preassure was to big, from her side, so I'm completely of the opinion, that this article are very onesided and it is not the men or the age difference, that is the only reason, I tink the biggest reason is Love and perhaps even onesided Love, where the one that is not Loving so much, use the situation and try to make everything, how they want it and try to force the soft hearted into to their power and that is exactly how I felt by my self in these two relationship,by my self.
In the first relationship, I did not even realise it, before I saw the big smile in that Ladies face, but in the second relationship I was already prepared and I protected my self very quickly.
In fact I believe, that we men face much more often Mother figures, than what women face Father figures, but we men just don't talk about it.
I had a 13 years relationship with an 16 years younger Indonesian Lady and she had in the end even change the account in the Bank only into her name, she took also care of all payments and organised our home just in her way.
I am a very strong person, have been in the Army in a powerfull position and an succesfull businessman, but still my Son said strait to her in our last year together, that she had manipulated his Father, to what she did not answer, but made a big smile.
After her, I married a 34 year younger Lady, but we was only living 5 month together, because she shange exactly everything in our home and our life into how she had lived before alone and as the top of everything, she try to controll, that I had my nails enough clean, even I know,that I am more clean than avarage People. When I confront her about that, she answered, that her Sister is always controlling every morning, that her Sons have clean finger nails, before they go to school.
After 2 month I got an ulcer, the preassure was to big, from her side, so I'm completely of the opinion, that this article are very onesided and it is not the men or the age difference, that is the only reason, I tink the biggest reason is Love and perhaps even onesided Love, where the one that is not Loving so much, use the situation and try to make everything, how they want it and try to force the soft hearted into to their power and that is exactly how I felt by my self in these two relationship,by my self.
In the first relationship, I did not even realise it, before I saw the big smile in that Ladies face, but in the second relationship I was already prepared and I protected my self very quickly.
In fact I believe, that we men face much more often Mother figures, than what women face Father figures, but we men just don't talk about it.
RE: 4 Signs You’re Dating A Father Figure
I had a 20 younger in my life and we had a very respectful Relationship never based on any type of "figure" I was not a father and not my daughter ,just a companion in equal and I learn a lot from her!
RE: Thinking about getting a tattoo?
We scared to comment. Everyone above who disagreed is profile deleted. May be a coincidence, maybe not. Either way it chills the tendency to respond. I can only fall back on my Bible's Second Commandment and later prohibitions against association with those who violate any of the Commandments.
RE: Dating tips for Women: 3 Ways You’ll Know It's Time to Go
If all he says is a whole bunch of 'hmmmms' and 'oks' ... and prefers to be with his friends or work ... THAT'S IT!!!
END IT!!! GET RID OF HIM!!!
The Universe has something better to offer! Your world does not begin and end with him!
Move on! Dance in the rain and bask in the sun! Enjoy life!
END IT!!! GET RID OF HIM!!!
The Universe has something better to offer! Your world does not begin and end with him!
Move on! Dance in the rain and bask in the sun! Enjoy life!
RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?
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RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?
I have learned to spot a scammer pretty easily. It's not the fact that they tell you how beautiful you are and that you are the one for them. It's that they say it in the first email. They also do have poor grammar. The worst one is using a small i when it should be capitalized. Everyone hits the keys wrong at times but if the majority of the i's are small then I don't even mess with them. Last year I had a real smooth talker who chatted on a site for a couple of months with me and was supposedly in the Army in Iraq and after I felt really comfortable with him. He said he would be coming back for a few weeks and would love to meet me in person and I agreed. Next thing you know he says his money in America is tied up and he can't get to it till he gets here. So if I would just Western Union him $1,000 then when he gets here he will pay me back with interest. I said not possible so he gets another guy to pose as his Army buddy and he messages me and says he will give him $500 if I could just send him the other $500 cause his buddy really liked me a lot and was so happy he might meet me. I cut him off clean. I got hurt a little over that one so I am very careful. I don't like the ones that are to far off and then tell me they will relocate for the right woman either.
RE: How Age Gaps Can Affect a Relationship
What I found was that dating an older partner is ok depending on the situation..If the man is too old like the woman is 30 and hes 55 or 60 I seen situations where the older man was scorned from previous relationships and other things and never dealt with his emotions and issues therefore they look for a younger lady to take that shit out on. So young ladies and young gentlemen watch out for the scorned old ones they look and act like this little blue face
RE: How Age Gaps Can Affect a Relationship
my last was 20 and I was her first..we had a 8 months very fusional Relationship without any gap problems based on a common respect.. and things have ended "naturally" ..no drama.no jealousy or possession ..she has now someone else in life (younger !)logical! and life goes on...
RE: Is Guilt Keeping you a Prisoner?
I am so glad I took the time to read your beautifully and superbly articulated article regarding the issue of "irrational" guilt. I no sooner began reading when I realized you were speaking lovingly and compassionately to me directly. Thank you and may God bless you!
RE: Maybe He Is Into You – Here’s How To Tell
Good advice, though when I like someone they will generally not know it. Shyness and plenty of very bad experiences keeps me from telling them I like them. Instead of telling a woman I like her, I might compliment her on her earrings or necklace, or I might say, "It's cool that you know how to do______," or "I like that you're into_____."
RE: Learn to Be Kind to Yourself, or- Treat Yourself as Well as You Treat Your Dog)
I have no dogs or any other pets...
RE: 3 Things That Are Keeping You Single
Good advice, I like this, My mistake was in always trying to be too nice of a guy. Most women say they want the nice guy but always seem to choose the bad guy. ouch
RE: Perfect Profiles: Avoid These 7 Online Dating Mistakes to Find a Real Relationship
To the women, remember the two reasons rule about me. All men have two reasons for everything they say or do. Reason # 1 = Sounds really good. Reason # 2 = The truth. Don't settle for something that sounds good. Try to make sure you get the truth by asking more.
RE: Ending A Relationship With Class
ending a relation is not so hard you just close the door and good luck !
RE: Useful helpers and tips for the PC
I just noticed this
Windows XP is no longer receiving official security support from Microsoft since early April, but it seems that there are developers who are interested in releasing an unofficial security package for those who’re still using the software.
This new unofficial service pack includes all previously released updates for Windows XP 32-bit, as well as POSReady 2009 updates launched by Microsoft after the April 2014 retirement date, according to Softpedia.
Windows XP is no longer receiving official security support from Microsoft since early April, but it seems that there are developers who are interested in releasing an unofficial security package for those who’re still using the software.
This new unofficial service pack includes all previously released updates for Windows XP 32-bit, as well as POSReady 2009 updates launched by Microsoft after the April 2014 retirement date, according to Softpedia.
RE: Why Dating Is Good for Your Soul
All of those factors are true, only one thing missing...an actual date.
Good article. I agree with you. Now just tell me how to find one.
Thanks.
Good article. I agree with you. Now just tell me how to find one.
Thanks.
RE: The Upside of Living Alone
This is priceless, and has given me a few pointers I need since apparently I cannot find anyone to "be with". Might I suggest a French Malbec wine, I am thinking label "Black Sheep" 2012 with those Cheerios and a nice French Vanilla yogurt instead of just milk! 
RE: Ants of Saudi Arabia
I remeber ants in Saudi, they cam and poisoned them for me. You are amazing my friend, thank you for this article!
"One day 4 or 5 of black ants will be milling around in your kitchen, apparently trying to blend in with the white floor tiles". Your humor is just the way I like it! 
"One day 4 or 5 of black ants will be milling around in your kitchen, apparently trying to blend in with the white floor tiles".
Your humor is just the way I like it! RE: We Are All Born with Psychic Ability !
'Psych-ism' is a broad topic and you've touched on many of it's phenomenological aspects that I'm completely in agreement with. I've never considered myself a psychic but seem to have experiences in different forms on a regular basis. This may sound crazy but my daughter and I have started practicing telepathy and have a growing photo collection of what we like to call faeries (don't really know what they are). Our mind reading is fairly low-level, we 'throw' and 'catch' single letters or numbers and we are only accurate for the first few tries before we seem to lose the connection. I should probably post one of the 'faerie' pics at some point. All too well, do I notice the general resistance to the subject, being a physics major. Science in general not only disregards the phenomena but in many instances attempts to argue against even the possibility of it's existence. A foolish exercise in ignorance, I say, that restricts the scientific model to a more lateral mode of progress that denies the higher truth from meaningful and rigorous exploration thus suppressing the next paradigm of scientific awareness. Proof can only exist when someone is willing to make the observations.