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I wholeheartedly agree....not just about most Americans, but about most people worldwide. There are times when there is such an attraction that two people just cannot wait; I say that with tongue in cheek, because they can wait, they just don't want to. However, the danger lies in that it just becomes about the physical and let's face it; than can fade away without the cerebral stimulation. A relationship worth having, is worth working for.

Everyones attractive :)

to me Overweight Woman is OK
to me the woman should have wide hips,curves ,long hair ,and killer smile,
or she is just a man

About skype is not true. You may not have limited internet. the best is what apps you can talk to anyone. I used to have a picture and then talk and meet is the best way. Of course in a public place

I agree with certain points. But I also believe its a matter of preference hence guys like myself are here.

Skype may be good for checking out appearance...

Very informative article.

Realy Very nice post...

I want someone who is Loving & caring, supportive and be responsible...

Interesting views, but not really applicable when using the internet, so how to tell when someone is lying in a faceless environment?

For all you overweight gals please check out my story,

Hello am new on this site and it's really impressive that we can send messages but unluckily for me I can not see who viewed my profile, and more so I have a question symbol on ( who viewed me) I don't know why.
But site is great, so any one with that also ???

I'm a guy and i have a girl doing this to me. its horrible i mean we have such a great connection and always have fun together but she doesn't answer my text and then makes excuses. thanks for this advice ^^ I have learned from this article thank you..

In my humble opinion, there's merit in your writings, but sadly, you only skirt around the most crucial personal delopmental trait. The reaon so many are stuck on the pain mandela can best be described as various stages of denial, which are often vastly stronger than the striving toward near thorough self awareness. Yes, those apples rarely do find their way far ffrom the tree. And, sort of hard to get on one's own. Gladly, there are a number of cost effective places to find it. I always felt I was way over paid for these service. But then.....

I totally disagree,
Maybe there are men who are like that but not all,
For example, I get more excited about the girls who start a romantic relationship and pay attention to me from early stage. I know that they know what they want and they are not playing games

Beautiful! Guess which books I'm going to read next! Thank you.

Wow! Needs a good translation to English- but Wow! Very good.

Lol i haven't celebrated a single Valentine's Day in my life. I've been single since day 1. So honestly must not be missing anything important i suppose if i haven't gotten one notch in my belt yet. xD

I have a few questions here: maybe a woman could enlighten me? Firstly; - why is "the temptation to date a married man (perhaps) more than a woman can stand"? (I quote directly from the above article). That is to say, why can't she find her own man?

Secondly, if this temptation is so great, is she a home wrecker?, or a gold digger - or both? Is it in the feminine psychology to compete for a man, because she knows (or thinks) that he is getting some from his wife - and this makes him desirable?

Perhaps it is a combination of all (or some) of the above reasons? Ladies, please enlighten me (even if you are not this way inclined). Or is it perhaps, because the man is a good provider (to his wife/family etc, the other lady (mistress) gets jealous, and wants some of that "action" for herself? As I said - please enlighten me on this topic.

Have a party, Find the little black book and and start making calls.....lol. All aside you need to take some time for yourself. ponder on why the relationship went bad. Grieve, Breathe and give a big sigh of relief. Knowing you got dumped means there was the red flags showing that something wasn't right. After pondering on what happened and who was to blame... You work on your stuff and know that it was their loss.

Well, I m not attracted to overweight women. And I sincerly don,t agree with some of the points made in this article. For exemple the article say that being overweight show people that you are taking care of you health. Well in fact no it show the opposite, because being fat only show that you can't manage your own body properly. In the sens that some people are attracted to fat people well I have nothing against that, but to make the other, who are not into fat people, feel guilty about their preference is wrong. Being fat is not healthy as such as being underweight.

Decent article, but this can also apply to fake women. I have been scammed by many women on sites like this. their profile says they are in the same area as me, but when they say they are out of the country, that is a huge red flag. Scammers always get around the blocking. Unfortunately, this article has probably been made by a woman and puts down all men. There are good men, like me looking for a relationship who are very much real.

Saddened to see the Staff writers here are so biassed against men

Those signs apply equally to women who play stupid games and the article writer INTENDED to be offensive or else they'd have left out the words 'BY A MAN' and would have used gender neutral language throughout the article.

I'd imagine it also offensive to lesbians who get played by other women ... why didn't you warn / include them in your (pseudo) concern for safety ?

<<< that me laughing AT you, not with you Feminasties !

You are very beautiful and charming lady

I being strong no matter what you being a able to survive .

What bubble has consumed THAT man!.

We as women have moved so much further into what we feel is great for us!
YOU don't like it, Sweet! You'll never know the Lana or Mrs Smith
I could address each complaint you entered, yet it is so old school.

there you are...


I'm over the snoring big guy.

I spread the word to have come back at me.
Never once shall you fail, yet stumble you will.
There is a gift, you may fail to see

An open heart awaits, a gathering,'It WILL save you'


He is good.

Best Dude!

just like you