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I am from India looking for a good friend from abroad which ready to help me in speaking English fluently.I know English ,but I can't speak it fastly.I am trying to improve and I badly need to speak it fast.Interested ones...can help me,who don't expect benefits from it. thank you

Great article. Thanks for the info.

So you are saying it's a woman's fault when men resort to "cheating, friends, pubs, booz(sic) etc"? Try taking responsibility for your misdeeds instead of blaming everything on women.

Is it so hard to meet someone or did I put a bad photo in can someone give me a hint pls

what happens when all of these qualities randomly dissapear in time? (some of which are relatively normal due to time) however in particular last 6 months and several attempts to talk ,communicate etc these feelings of noticing lack of interest,desire,affection and getting shot down each time . Leading to warnings (in form of nice,loving conversation)that ok, hitting the point of considering these times i try to speak, get avoided, im coming to you with flat out warnings that i know in time these things will mess with any persons head as well as in further time cause me to be pushed so far away from you, i myself will start to become cold and lose feelings of "in love" to complete resentment. I even took a different approach with this man than any in the past, he was worth the work, effort,change,sacrifice, and growth on my behalf to be the best woman i could be for him. That growth was very very challenging. While the complete transformation was never once acknowledged to begin with (which hurt) it didnt do me any good other than now feeling like im more lonely than i knew was possible and being on the verge of this precious love and foundation WE built going down the tubes...This is only a blurb of stuff so with not knowing the story, my question originally was this....what happens when all of the above numbered qualities disapear?

*was raised to cherish "real love" and do anything and everything in your power to work until you either get it right or decide to mutually part....for all intensive purposes...real love doesnt part ways.ever.*

Yes its very true
but
you have not spoken a single word for the
YOGIS...! heeeheee

i think i have had a couple of scammers, being a total sceptic i asked too many questions n they didnt bother to reply, a couple of others had no profile pic and their english was very bad for where/who they were mean't to be & they kept asking for my email or phone number, i just told them i was going to report them & they went away. I must say I wouldn't be brave enough to bait a scammer or to have fake profiles just to catch the either, but i do think we should have ppl on here who are like under cover cops to uncover these ruthless ppl, waste their time or even catch them out, maybe you should conact sites like this & become an undercover scammer cop & keep our sites parasite clean...fair play to you

Excellent article !Nice said-" By being honest, you're not only giving the other person due respect, but also respecting yourself." It is to show someone you are a mature minded individual, emotionally and mentally.

Lovely story!

I too am a widow and I also get messages from the younger "kids" and I kind of giggle because I know they are probably looking for a lonely, wealthy widow. Little do they know I am far from both. Hang in there, I agree with the previous comment from the lady.

So are you telling us that your profile is a fake and that you are just here to bait scammers and not at all interested in meeting someone? I wonder how that will sit with the site management?

No one else can be you, so be yourself. I don't like if people look down their noses at me because I love wearing sweats to college, those kinds of people can kiss my A*@

I am not here to impress or change who I am for someone else.
If you don't like what you see, then hey STOP LOOKING!!!!

But it is kinda funny, that the people who can't stop looking are the ones who claims not to like you for who you are and maybe they are jealous because you are you and they are not themselves.

I is who I are and I like it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you are very right. A men should do all of those things but some men don't!!!!!

Lovely story, a deed well done.. thanks for sharing..

Awwww Muy bien, You did exactly the right thing, and certainly what I would have done, I am forever stopping to help people, particually anyone/thing being bullied as Samson was! And very amusingly written, As a horse lover myself I Wish I had been there, (I could have driven the van behind you lmao) What a hero Mi beuno Hombre x

Hang in there lady! After reading your article, I'm here to encourage you about the men out there. I've had the same thing happen to me: guys younger than my son "hitting" on me, telling me that age is just a number. Then again, I've had guys old enough to be my dad (and just as appealing) message me. Guys are guys. They think they're God's gift to women. Just slough it off and keep on searching. Sooner or later there will be an age appropriate guy with at least half a brain who shares similar interests with you. Until then, the delete button comes in very handy. Good luck!

Your advice works well for people who live near each other, but for people like me trying to find their soulmate on a different continent, should we reach the point of purchasing a plane ticket to meet the one we think is our soulmate, we're pretty much in a position where we think we've found him, so there is no 30-minute first date for us; hopefully our "first date" will last a lifetime...

Everything you say is correct. It's just that it would be more convincing if the article itself were free of typos...

If he's having a great time and I'm having a great time, then I see no reason to cut it off after approx 30 mins. If a date did that to me (and I'd like to hear the excuse for bailing if he's having a good time), then I can guarantee that there'd be no second date. Just m.o.

I could write a lot more on the issue of overanalyzing things or guidance for the socially inept, but I'd rather hear from people who have tried this advice and came out successfully at the end.

I have to say that you maybe right on this topic. Sometimes the photos are wat too good to be true. And they mess up on the things they say and take a huge amount of time to respond. So becareful people..

Nice reading, any hints for the ladies

Thank y0u.. U have just opened up my eyes.. :)

Wonderful story I could see myself in that shetland pony

A very pleasant surprise - the subject and the story also!
Thank you!
Maria

a lovley story with a happy ending, you are a very consiectious person. 3 cheers for you