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I love America and our Culture. I would like to see America’s culture remain unchanged. I do not want to see Marxism in my country.

The Idea of America Lives in Americans not in illegal immigrants who have no knowledge of our history or laws. They broke our laws just being here.

What gender are you...every survey asks that question. They offer choices usually. The main ones list male or female. Then it gets weirder. Male, female or other gender. Some offer male, female, non binary, or other. I have ran into a couple that break it down into trani, bi, or un-determined.
A Brit said if you have dangly bits, you are a boy. If you dont, you are a girl. Makes sense.
I know one thing...there should be no kids in a locker room of girls running around with dangly bits! Or non in a boys locker room.
I go by XY and XX. Just because you put a fleece on a wolf, doesnt make it a lamb in the flock.
I have no issue with how someone dresses or lives their life. Just PLEASE, stop shoving it in my face and DEMANDING my approval.
When I grew up there were terms for not male nor female. They were it's. Or hermaphrodites. Couldnt we just use those?

Despite the fact that when young, we think ourselves immortal...there comes an age when we realize we need to start folding them. Those next cards are twos, not aces.
I have come to that point in life. Reality is the light at the end of that tunnel is getting closer and with it the need to tie up loose ends. Planning for the future may mean a decade. Or a year. Those things we planned on one day are never going to happen.
Kids look ahead to decades and know they may have them to be, to do, to see and to have. I hear the saying, when I retire I will.
Will what? Pay your saving to medical bills? Get around with a walker? Feel like crap most of the time. Say to heck with it, not important anymore? Maybe the playtime kids of todays generations have the right idea.
My late husband was wild til he met me. Did that, done that. Time to change. He was lucky he did all he wanted for the most part before he met me. Because at the age of 39 he was diagnosed with chronic, progressive MS and by 41 was an invalid. His retirement was TV Land and the sofa. We talked about stuff and I said if something had meant that much, we would have done it. But, they were dreams in our coffee and we didn't bother.
I realize I can't protect my farm for eternity. Nor care for possessions that have been in my life. I read about the Swedish Death Cleaning. And it makes sense. So down sizing is not to rid myself of clutter. It is to see things that mean something to me, go where I know they will mean something to another.
It is hard to separate oneself from belongings that have filled my world, sometimes as long as I can remember. Things that have deep memories and were important in my life.
But, reality is when I die, will inheritors give a hoot? Or will it be hello auction, Goodwill and dumpster. Or scrapyard or flipper.
My husband was very close to his nephew. Gave him attention, played ball with him, rode him on the back of his cycle and tried to make up for a father who had better stuff to do than his kids. For thirty years his Harley Chopper has occupied a spot in my living room. If he couldnt ride, he could at least see it. But, it was part of us. Not just a classic worth money. So I did something I never thought I would do. I sold it to his nephew. Cheap. Came to find out he had wished it after husband died , but was too sweet to ask. Super pleased to get it and will pass it on to sisters son so it will stay in the family forever with its history.
Now 2 cars are gone with a third to go. His 70 Chevelle dream car. A hot rod in the vain of customizing in the era. We were working together to make it what he wanted...an SS in all but, name.
I know inheritor wished to own it and the bike. Could tell by his reaction when I told him sold them. But, not invested in either really except as cool. I never cared for Chevelles. The car was husbands. Guy stopped to look at the 63 for sale. We talked, I mentioned sold off a Camaro and two Chevelles. He asked, anymore Chevelles..his dream since a kid who got to ride in one.Hmmm..yes, not advertised. So got the keys and into the garage to show him. Someone who agreed it was worth what I did. Someone who appreciated what is is. And now it is HIS dream.
My dads tractor is up for sale also. Go where I SAY, to whom I decide!
Onward I go. Big or small. Will I EVER use it, wear it..can I live without it or miss it. If the answer is no, find it a home myself so I can sit with memories and photos and not worry my valued is someones elses trash.

I can’t wait for our information starved truth-seeking Americans to watch it!

I read an article by a Negro gentleman. He spoke about the situation of his race. And said it is not racism. It is the culture. He is so right. It is a culture and attitude that keeps any race, sect, nationality, gender or whatever in the place they exist in. It is a cop out to blame any of it on those aspects.
Whether black, white, brown..whatever country of origin, it could be over come. Many have. When saying its racism, look at those who listened to the whine, the man keeps me down...struggled and ignored it.and succeeded. They ignored being told you will never amount to anything because___________! Shanty Irish, Pollack, Jew, Kraut, etc...they fill positions of rank in offices, government, medical, law, business, schools. They are lawyers, Doctors, store owners, movie stars, politicians, astronauts.
Culture is the issue. When any group tolerates evil or crime or slovenliness or rudeness because..he is one of us. It could be us. When a woman divorces a man because he never is home, has affairs, sews his wild oats, treats her like dirt, beats her, wont support the family and refuses to be a helpmate. And then raise her kids the same. Daughter, you do the laundry cause brother has better things to do. He gets to stay out at night cause he is a boy. In other words, teaches him or allows him to become a man just like the man she kicked out.
When someone shop lifts and the culture excuses it. When crime occurs and the culture turns the other cheek because there has to be a reason. Yes. The reason is because the group will stick together no matter what just because it is the culture of the group. Us against the world.
So easy to cry racism rather than admit it is a culture that allows and perpetuates what is actually stopping them from succeeding. Go tell it to James Earl Jones or that congressman or woman. The lawyer, the C.E.O, or your minority Doctor from the Dominican Republic.

No one knows anyone 100% well, even between wives and husbands, parents and kids, let alone girl friends and boy friends. And that includes my Giant and I. Although we have spent time to get to know each other for almost three years now, we still don't know each other well 100%.

However in order to get to know each other better (much bigger than just 25% ), I will keep trying to ask him questions or to ask him to do something for me, or simply to just say something and then see how he would react.

So the other day, when he was having breakfast, I asked him about happiness.. his happiness.

Me : Hey Hans darling?
Him : Yes my Princess..

Me : What makes you happy?
Him : Eating Apple Fritters and talking to my girl!

We both smiled and then burst into laughter.

Hmm.. I guess I know him quite well when it comes to his happiness.. our happiness!
Yesss.. it's just a smile and a laughter away.

Has everyone gone insane. Lets put men in swimsuits and then put tuck it undies in Target in front of children. Lets push beer with a trani. Lets have men push tampons. How about a clown in skirt, red wig and uggs prancing around in nature telling people to buy north face! If I was a trans I would be super angry at being made a characture of!
There have always been queers around. They didn't shove it in our faces and just got on with their lives like we all did. What went on in the bedroom, stayed in it. We knew. They knew we knew. Who cares.
Now a minority wants to prance in parades, turn the rainbow into something one discourages a child from wearing so they dont take heat.
As far as pride clothes in stores...If I wanted to buy fetish clothes, stripper clothes or whatever..I would have had to go to a specific store that sold it and had to be over 18. Not pride. Lets shove it in peoples faces as soon as they walk in the stores. Underwear used to be in the back in it's own section. A man blushed if he went to shop for his gal.
Then we get the censorship of books written in history. Guess what. That was the way life was. Read it and make sure it doesnt happen again. Nope. We are going full Marxist now.
Where does it end. They scream racist but ask if you are black or white. Why not red or yellow? How come asking an Asian or American Indian their color is racist but not black or white?
What is the future? I can't sing Old MacDonald had a farm? And a cow? Can't call him old, that is offensive to older folks. Can't say farm cause there were bad things that were called farms. Can't say cow cause it might offend a heavy set woman?
Where does it end? A nation of milk toasts who faint at a discouraging word?

Can you think of any examples of media manipulation happening today? Feel free to post.

My mother, my aunt and me went for lunch at my sister and her fiancé's house. At first it was a regular lunch, but then my sister and her fiancé busted out their surprise:

They are expecting a child. My sister is due in April next year! They don't know the gender, but they think it's going to be a girl, because my family has a bit of a habit of making girls..

My brother has two girls, my cousin has two girls, my other cousin has one girl and my sister's fiancé's brother has two girls as well.. All the signs points to a girl - so I hope it'll be a boy.

I did not expect to be named uncle for the third time yesterday, but I'm excited!

Costs too much here imho.