I reckon that only when a person is 100% OK with being on their own that they really ought not get involved with another ... because doing so will probably only lessen the degree of OK ness that the other enjoys.
Say Person A is 100% OK and they meet person B who is only 60% OK ... it's more than likely that A's OKness will fall, by 40%, it's a matter of 'gravity' if you like, easier to be dragged down than to pull up another perhaps?
Say Person C meets Person D ... both are only 50% OK with themselves 50 - 50 = 0 OK-ness
Look around, y'all probably have seen relationships like that .... maybe even you were in one hoping to pul, or be pulled up by the other person ?
Can't say as I did much 'advise' my kids as they grew up ... more we'd have a conversation about whatever course of action they were contemplating and what the likely outcomes might be for each of the options and indeed if other options might exist to achieve same or better outcome.
They're adults now and we use the same process - as an example with new technology items ... I'll have a look about and do my own research form an opinion and ring one or t'other to ask "What do you know / have you heard about xyz any good..." If they were very firm that one brand or other had an horrendous rep I'd keep that in mind and avoid !
I suppose the exception would be technical matters where there's a process ... elder rang this week when a piece of machinery wouldn't start, but I dunno if that would count as 'advice' when really it's a step by step instruction to find a fault?
Another from Africa, I believe Kenya but I may be wrong on the specific.
If an individual suffers a mental breakdown / particularly a psychotic break then they tie his hands to the Best Runner in the village and the BR is charged with literally running the Patient into the ground, ie until they literally cannot take another step further after which they share some food and then walk back to the village.
There's a number of 'western theories' (such as the experience deters future breaks on the grounds that it was a 'hard' experience) but the locals don;t bother so much with explanations, it's been working for hundreds of years so they just do it!
Interesting though that when a person has PB they tend to want to run ... and in the west there;s a tendency by authorities to STOP them from running (inconvenient) and of course the 'identity and attire of those who stop becomes 'one more thing in the bundle of things they fear ... and want to run from !'
I can see this being a troublesome thread Lindy ...
How are you defining 'Better than America?'
I ask as using SWitzerland looks as if you might be focussing only on money ?
The USA lags behind many 'poorer' countries on many scales, infant mortality, access to healthcare, crime, deaths by medicine, crime levels, number of people incarcerated, number of people killed by police, core educational skills ...
Even looking at 'apparent wealth' ... well, the nation is 20 trillion in debt (which nobody is talking about as you continue to bomb your way round the globe) and there's more millionaires in Moscow than any US City ...
You may, but their trainers and leaders do not ... nor would any intelligent person expect an officer with a pistol to run into the path of a person with an automatic weapon.
And then there's you, now you're running away even from a fair and reasonable debate ...
That you don't give a quack about truth or justice is now very plain ...
I read further and further back and the post 53 where you blame Rob for 'starting it' only reinforces that you care greatly about spreading lies...
I'd think most ducks are a whole smarter and more decent than you ... and that comment that posts are based on hate ... I doubt it, but the USA has worked hard to earn the distrust of the RoTW and you seem hell bent on reinforcing the reasoning behind that.
Mr Peterson DID NOT CLAIM to have done a good job ... that Statement to say that he did came from a Deputies Union Official, and it would appear that 'good job' would be in EXACT ACCORD with Mr Peterson's training ... he reported the position of the gunman and became the 'perimeter' point at his own location ...
There's not a Law Enforcement Agency in the world that 'trains its people' to charge in single handed against automatic weapons.
Had Peterson done so he's have died and, you can bet your last dime that a lawsuit by his family against the sheriff's office would have relied for it's defense that he'd ignored all of his years of training and 'gone cowboy' on his own.
and here's Sam Zieff ... who seems remarkably unaffected by the shooting ... no signs of trauma as he enjoys his new found fame. Bit TOO polished ... crisis actor ?????
Whether the link works for you or me is barely relevant ... I got to the truth of the matter which is that you're seeking to misrepresent the situation by making it appear that Mr Peterson's comments were related to the current event... they are not.
That's reprehensible behaviour (in simpler words the conduct of a conman, cheat and deliberate deceiver)
I have the facts so far as are available and you can call me whatever you like - the opinion of a deliberate scumbag holds no sway.
You might also, for the sake of ease understanding, reply to the persons and posts you intend to address them to ... you replied to ME and accused me of making Mr Peterson a victim. Doing this involves a little more effort but it works for 'world peace' ... and YES again, anyone branded a coward before due process has occurred is a victim of that being done to them.
But of course your nation is not interested in world peace ... you want war at any price.
Karma buddy ... your nation is of your own making !
Bigger fool for you ... you believe the telegraph ????
This is one of the group of 5 newspapers who are telling the world that Jeremy Corbyn was a Russian spy ... and who continue to repeat the lie even thogh Mr Corbyn and the Government of the nation said to have employed him have denied the matter !
Keep on spreading lies ... do their job for them !
To illustrate the point, of unreliable and or fake news, further other sources indicate that Mr Peterson WAS a 'School Resources Officer' a position that in fact a sworn law enforcement and that Israel is in fact his boss and the person responsible for his suspension ... though if anything in the news can be relied upon Mr Peterson has resigned and his home is under police guard.
what are we to believe?
But that's the goal of the looney left liberal MSM ... to spread conflicting disinformation, to create confusion with the goal of dividing and conquering !
RE: Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
Women SAY that what they seek is Equality ... the Orwellian concept at the opening chapter of Animal Farm ... ie that "ALL ANIMALS ARE EQUAL"The TRUTH however is that what they REALLY EXPECT is that to which the Farm Degenerates after the pigs and horses have taken control ..
ie That All Animals are Equal ... BUT SOME ANIMALS ARE MORE EQUAL THAN OTHERS !!!!
So, as they consider themselves 'more equal' so has risen their sense of entitlement ...
And, if the guy objects then follows a tantrumic tirade about gallantry and etc etc etc
Bless em all ;-)
time ???