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I think that these surveys must be taken on a large scale...not just a hundred or a thousand but ten thousand or more, in different places. The above statistics help people, especially the Americans but a lot of other nationals date Americans on the net and they also must be taken into consideration for a correct result.
(as for me, i like older and bigger women...fat or no fat!! of course, i am divorced and alone since 1991 and started dating on line recently...a few months.)

"the average waist size of an american woman is now 16..."
please correct it...!

I Wuv You!

alexguitar
Centennial, Colorado USA
Please start all over again just like a common man!
and read, WhovianGeneva Geneva, Geneve Switzerland
again.
Simon Dannie

Thank You CS for this article! I thoroughly enjoyed reading it,having gone through this myself and have applied most of the things mentioned in the article for some years now,life is wonderful----single or double life should be happy and worth living.

Good read .. thanks

Tres Bien, Mademoiselle .. I called it my 7th sense .. a

how can one make love if one is not an poet or poetess?

I teach yoga to kids
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all

that is needed

to surrender

to giggles

or whatever

and to

dance , poetically and well

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hi aware3 i read the listing it was realy good .i know i have the ability but cant focus on it can you help me? thanks

The market for muic sales is for teenagers. That is why the Susan Boyle's of this world tend not to get record deals. The pop scene is about marketing not talent. How else would you explain Westlife or The Spice Girls.

it's obvious; because we are obsessed with looks; how come teeny bopper blonds who cant' sing like Britney Spear, Hilary Duff, and Miley Cyrus can make millions touring. Because of their looks and image and popularity.

Why is it that you pay a ton of money for tickets to listen to people lipsync because they are not talented enough to sing in person. Looks

Hello it's me hn2009:
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Happy New Year too,
hn2009

Poetry is wonderful:
when your heart speaks, poetry can help you convey your feelings without being intrusive. Just like these smileys are a perfect way to add to the sentiment of writing. What is writing any way but words...words are just alphabets and when we put it in a lyrical form it seems to open doors that was shut hoping to be opened. Flowers too are a way to communicate. So why not utilized them all? Why not indeed. Enjoy the worlds choices for living, and enjoy Christmas! Merry Christmas.
Merry Christmas,
hn2009

try telling this to the gutless men who dump u by text

Sure, but this could also mean that he wants to get down your pants, too. Ahhh, I'm such the pessimist when it comes to men, lol.

Fantastic ideas! Why not?!?!

Sounds great, and adds that little 'edge' of fun, and 'person-ability' to the mix.

God, we, well I can anyway, be sorely lacking in the novel romantic ideas department. All for a good suggestion, just lacking in the inspiration department as to how to shake it up.

Thanks for this.

I agree; half as long, used paragraphs

I agree; Jim

what about if a girl is interested in a guy she points her feet in his direction also if shes not interested she crosses her legss etc ??

this is too long to read and understand

There are 'Givers" & there are "Takers." Takers always seek out Givers. They say love is blind. I say true love sees Everything but accepts the bad w/ the good. If you try to stay objective & unemotional when you first meet someone, you will begin to recognize the signs of a Taker… & then RUN, Forrest, RUN!

Yes, we've all been on both sides of that street -- the 'Breaker' & the "Breakee.' But the Breakee shouldn't feel like a rejected, defective person, or that something is 'wrong' with them. One must just accept that not everyone you meet is going to fall in love with you, or that every relationship is going to last. The sooner relationships are seen from this perspective, the easier it is to move on after a break up.

It's easier if one realizes that is just the way it's going to be until you find the right one for you. Most times you look back and are GLAD you were dumped…

©2009 Rio Rox

Body Language for Signs HE OR SHE IS FALLING FOR YOU???
This is one of my Favorite subjects!

Oh my how true....loved the article....I've been thinking on the same lines over the past couple of days....to continue concentrating on my life first and not worry about finding the one....thank you...

It is not ok for some one to ever date a friends ex unless they dont want you as a friend any more cuz thats a good way to lose oa friend

amen to that; I would never data friends ex

how i wish our future husband will just fall out of the sky.... and i agree..it sucks no matter what age..

I found your article informative and very educational. However, it seems that you made an effort to say that the only "controlling" people in the world are men....and while men might be in the majority as to this trait, it's certainly not exclusive to the the male gender.

i am not a pessimist...i too hope that things will come to a better place where people can live with more dignity upon the this earth that we share..
but sometimes its hard to be..possitive when you are hit with a barrage of negative things.

but as they say 'hope springs eternal' maybe all these issues will be anuled by the next generation..the generation that does not have vivid memories of conflict in their minds..
let us hope

I just want to congratulate you on one of the most sensible articles I have ever come across regarding the subject matter....

Nowhere have I read before, such a concise and accurate viewpoint on actually looking from the INSIDE OUT and not from the OUTSIDE IN!!!!

ah helen

very heartfelt..i grant that ..and respect that.
but you take history at face value. which i dont approve of.
as it is chaos 'now', it was chaos 'then'.
the manifestations of state and nation that you decribe..i find it hard to see them as predestined or logical evolutions from a primitive state.

i agree with you final view on where we should go form here..it seems logical and just. but i dont think the prosess through which you came to that answer is quite right.

thereby the validity of the answer too is questioned.

i am undesided, and on this subject that effects a lot of people in their daily lives...i am only willing to express my doubhts.

a lot of people have dabbled in this feild (with good intentions) but with very bad results. IMO

but i value a voice in the dead silence.. :)

respect

A great article on the pitfalls of reality shows. I couldn't agree more - I'm often staggered by what unknowns will do & suffer through for fifteen minutes of fame, Big Brother contestants in particular. Some of the Australian housemates ended up with media work & others were so obnoxious that I think they've struggled just to be employed.

Most people who audition for these shows have such amazing self-confidence & yet perhaps, little self-insight. I guess they have a high opinion of themselves and just assume others will too. It's hard not to cringe when these people finally get negative feedback on how the public feel about them - & easy to wonder how you'd bounce back from it in their shoes.

Not a bad article but by no means fool-proof. If I took all this as gospel, every guy I work with would be falling for me lol. As the author points out though, patterns of behaviour are whats important with body language if you pay them any heed.

Well,this is something most dog lovers have known for along time.About time the scientific community is finally catching up!Wonder when they'll catch up with us cat lovers?

Gosh this makes finding someone very complicated ?