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After making love to a woman. I hold her so close and kiss her fore head. I tell her how wonderful she is and thank her for making me feel so special. I make sure that she feels cherished and thought highly of. That's my thing...

I enjoyed reading your experience with Tarot. I myself am a 4th. generation Psychic/Medium, originally from New Orleans. I also use Tarot from time to time when asked. I like to get what I refer to as a "soul print" first, by using the person's date of birth, which is helpful when doing a long distance reading, for numbers carry the unique vibrations of the individual, and is very helpful when channeling their energy. I am happy that you continue to embrace your ability.


I also wanted to comment here about this simple truth, which is ; we are all born with psychic ability. I get asked this question often enough, that I thought it was worth mentioning here. So many people put such mystique to the word psychic. It is just another one of our senses. That if not used, we can lose. Through the centuries it has went by many names. In the past many have died horrible deaths for using this sense, which of course was due to ignorance over what it actually was. Thankfully, that is not the case today. So it is no wonder, that people today are still confused ! Blessings Beaucoup, aware3

Fathers are special
Everyday is fathers day
The time they took you to get ice-cream
The time they took you to church
The responsabilities they carried out
God bless fathers always

well i think whoever did the asking out, should offer to pay, but if the other person has anything about them they would offer to go halves...but if its just a coffee or a few drinks who cares, but the chap from canda has a good point, women do bang on about equality and yet when it comes to dates/dating..all of a sudden..its the guys job to decide..where they go..what they do..and on the quiet expect the guy to offer to pay ha..

Good article.. but i wonder... how would HE act after living together? I guess it all would change.. either that or i still havent found my ONE ! guess i have to keep looking:)

NOt if you eat a whole block it isnt !

LOL; no offense but connecting singles shouldn't get into the political mode because the facts are very lacking.

Pierce wasnt' the first president impeached, it was Andrew Johnson.

Also Zachary Taylor only was in office only 16 months because he died from gastroenteritis. He supported and encouraged California and New Mexico to adopt an anti slavery constitution and helped them get state hood. He also helped to stop the spread of slavery in the west even though he was a southerner and had slaves. The south hated him for it.

I'm not a Republican but Nixon gets a huge bad mark against him when he did lots of good too. During a very trying and nasty time he made peace with China and Russia, was the first to make an arms agreement with Salt!, and also did many good things in regards to the financial structure of the u.s., mostly during his first term.

Pierce was not a good president but he had an incredibly tragic life with all 3 of his children dying very young; the oldest and last was his son which was killed in a train wreck right before he became president. He actually became an alcoholic due to his wife also blaming him for it, saying that due to him wanting to be president, it brought on a curse on his family that took his children. He never really recovered.

George W. Bush has to be one of the worst in history and it isn't close. Bringing our countries finances back 80 years, taking away several civil rights legislation, twice decreasing benefits to military personnel and taking us into a war through lies, shows how bad he was. Many think he's a criminal.

I am happiest in life just suiting myself, ive been an aloner nearly eight years and would find it extremely difficult to change.

Nice thoughts. I enjoy being Aloner but not in bed at night especially when I need a special massage.

Thats somewhat true I should say....thanks.....

There are some great books out there that are real eye openers for both extremes...selfish and generous. I was born with a double dose of "the doormat syndrome" growing up in the south as a girl in a dysfunctional atmosphere

One book that helped me understand the process and psychology of things is The Dance of Anger. While I was reading it, I could see a lot of myself and others around me in it. What really helped is it gave me the knowledge and the tools to change. It takes a long time to re-learn behaviors and correct sub-conscious thoughts and feelings. It can be very frustrating.

Boundaries are important and it is our own responsibility to teach others no matter who they are how to treat us, but first we must learn how to treat ourselves well. Like the song "R-E-S-P-E-C-T find out what it means to me."

If you are a man a gentleman ,you pay ,i like tradition and manner Roberts

LOVE IS EVERYWHERE , but one must be patient ,so i say to you let your heart tell you because when it happens your heart will be kick started. ROBERT..

true Love does exist. It's pure. Not selfish. It's kind not forceful... It's makes you feel complete. Deep down inside.. it's not boastful or proud. It's gentle, it's undescribible. Ya see. you can only fine true love in Christ he will never leave you. He and only he knows you more than your very self.
So yes, although we find ourselves on this endless journey of love in search of love and EXceptance...The truth is that love - True love can not be found if we search for it in a forceful way from another.. But by seeking Gods face and letting patience have her perfect work in you- through spirital surgery... God will release the one "HE" has created you to be with and not you...
So let's all get out of Gods way, try to lean on him for love and guidence and not between sweaty sheets that don't belong between your legs in the first place...i love you... do you? do you know who you truly are... and "WHO'S" you are???

Minabee

Its very much true. I just experienced one recently. A lady pretended to be never married, but she is divorced and has two kids. Still I wonder why she had to.

No doubt, this is a burning and global issue. Fear of losing the partner turns many to be freaks. Again it’s true that divorces, broken relations are on rise every where. That means there are reasons to fear. Probably, it is a by product of the Hi-tech and easy communication. There are too many options, so lots of confusions and finally many breakages alongside many successes. We got to live with it and learn to deal with it. And yes, freak is non-gender kind. Among my married male friends, I found both the parties, asking and answering, "where, why, when and how".

Prevention is better than cure. Spare your heart right from the beginning proportional to what have been spared to you. It is just like any other business, if you invest a lot, it means you are taking a big risk. Again, you got to take risk, no way. So take it, just remain little careful to know how much to take and when. Once you have incurred a loss, then also, think about a losing businessman/woman. Just like him/her, be calculative, slowly recover and then invest again. Another important thing is to keep faith upon yourself. In military also, it is taught that for survival for a pilot ejecting or crash landing in the enemy territory (means with all possible hostilities), the most important thing is the "will to survive".

Thanks.
Zobair

sometimes a pair of shoe looks good but doesn't fit well..

Yes

PEOPLE NEED 2 GET OVER IT. THIS IS THE 21st CENTURY.. I'LL LAUGH AT A ROCK IF IT'S FUNNY. DON'T CARE WHAT COLOR THE ROCK IS EITHER. WE ARE ALL JUST PEOPLE ON THE THIRD ROCK FROM THE SUN. I WOULD RATHER WATCH AND LISTEN TO A BAD COMIC ( MALE OR FEMALE ) THAN 2 WATCH THE HORRORS OF WAR ON CNN.............

yep on both sides every one needs just to go back to basics and stop being so selfish ..... and care more and be less self rightious ..

I agree sounds sick to me .

But because things are the way they are most men would not want a women who does not work and would not be content to just give her spending money. They would say hey, go get a job if you want to buy a new dress. I think men who would actually like a stay at home wife who gets spending money are more the exception than the rule these days. Of course on the other hand I've had boyfriends who thought that it was ok for them to not work and stay at home and sleep all day and do nothing but play video games while I worked full time and paid for everything AND cooked and cleaned... put an end to that one, that's for sure! And on that token, if I am not willing to do that for a guy should I really expect that he do it for me? Of course I'd actually cook and clean, unlike that lazy ex of mine

But there a much simpler answer....

1. Drink less Coffee

2. Drink less Tea

3. Drink less Cola

4. Drink less Energy Drinks

5. Take less wake-up pills such as Pro Plus & Pep

That was easy

" BEATCH "

.............Lady down below is is a direct quote from a 'Feminist'.......So this is 'Feminism' is it....Well you can shove your 'Feminism' right down to Hell as far as I concerned....This what I think of 'Social Engineering Feminism'...


"The nuclear family must be destroyed... Whatever its ultimate meaning, the break-up of families now is an objectively revolutionary process." -- Linda Gordon....A well known Feminist

.........Really nice isn't it.????...Miss Feminist

J.D

YOU KNOW IT WONT WORK WHEN SHE ASKS FOR MONEY FOR THE AIR TICKET


SEEMS TO BE A LOT OF LADIES ON HERE CHATTING WITH YOU THEN ASKING FOR MONEY FOR THE AIR TICKET TO COME AND VISIT YOU?
ANYONE ELSE HAD THIS?

HOW DO YOU MEET SOMEONE WHO LIVES IN ANOTHER COUNTRY?
NOT AN EASY SUBJECT AND WHATS THE ANSWER?

Appologies my lovely ladies,sometimes i let rip and haven't realy put enough thought into it. I wasn't saying we'll buy all your crap,but that you can still have it all. You'll have to buy it though

A good point of view from a man's proception. In spite of how you wrote this I must disagree. For starters I don't give the men credit for who I am.

I am deeper than the women you describe although it is true that many are just into themselves. For lack of a better word shallow seems appropriate.

In the case of the men who are shallow they are all looking for a Barbie doll who will commit all of herself to them. When you read between the lines it means that they are possessive and excruiatingly jealous. If we have children then we are cursed.

You last statement about how the women can come home all is forgiven. Why assume the women need forgiving? As for the shopping and the like, we don't need someone to finance that for us and at the end of the day it has been more fun than listening to a demanding, whiney guy. Trust me on this one.

Men get scammed because their alot more desperate than women! Women are much more likely to lead with their brains when evaluating risk and not with the contents of thier underwear. Plus,women are more intelligent than men,i'm sorry to say!!!!

Unfortunately the whole world is so plastic and pretentious, we're all to blame for it's decay. Old fashioned values, where did they go? Maybe i'm just getting to old and synical!!!

i want believe but i like ur question

Thats all bullcrap!! Another authority!!! The best way to make a long distance relationship work is to meet someone in your area!! Get this, LD Relationships don't work!

I would not call it a rant as such....more a questioning of what changed within the last 100 years.

A bit of a rant i suppose!

Unique commentary.

I quite agree with the information in the article. Being a single woman who is raising a young granddaughter it is hard to even read a profile where a guy does not say no way or something just as harsh about kids.

I am not going to hide the position I am in because I feel like things will start on a false note. Honesty is very important in a relationship, so why hide my granddaughter. When I am put to the side because I have her I feel as though I don't need them either. It will take longer to finally meet someone, but with everything out in the open I don't have to be concerned that I will be canned for not disclosing my circumstances.

Hi there, I really appreciate your article. We all dont want to be unhappy so if that person makes you cry and brings you pain there is someone out there wanting to make you laugh and smile. Move out quickly or you will get trapped.
Thanks again excellent article.

It took me 3 months to cry, 6 months to try to stop thinking about it for every 1 minutes,1 year to finally get on with life. The only obvious thing that helped me was talking to my friends, taking some time out, shared some tears and finally its stopped and I could get to meet other people but the memories linger on. But smile that at least you had a good time and life goes on.

Broken hearts happen with your first two major loves.From then on you're bitter and twisted and in no mood for the trappings of love.You can easily brush off any cheats and liars like dust on your furniture then. Synical approach is the answer! Go into new relationships with the belief that its bound not to work. Then when the inevitable comes,you just get back on with your life and enjoy youself. Take my word as veteran heartbroken guy. Or drink some superglue,thats bound to work!!!

So there is hope!