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Just and and most of all and

This is the season and time to make a change, so why not shrug off the negative part of our lives and be happy then? Bring out all the good spirits in all of us and make a good difference?

Anyone who wants to join me, please make your signature below..

I hope we can all agree and unite and make this blog land a place to come and have fun and experience joy, love and caring for one another?

I invite everyone, regardless of age, sex, race and religion.

I am so happy to be a part of this blog world and I hope all of us will commit to be happy this coming year. No more negative, no more fights, no more bad spirit. How about that?

Thank you all for making me a part of this place.

You are not your age, nor the size of clothes you wear,
You are not a weight, or the color of your hair.
You are not your name, or the dimples in your cheeks.
You are all the books you read, and all the words you speak.
You are your croaky morning voice, and the smiles you try to hide.
You’re the sweetness in your laughter, and every tear you’ve cried.
You’re the songs you sing so loudly when you know you’re all alone.
You’re the places that you’ve been to, and the one that you call home.
You’re the things that you believe in, and the people whom you love.
You’re the photos in your bedroom, and the future you dream of.
You’re made of so much beauty, but it seems that you forgot
When you decided that you were defined by all the things you’re not.

(Not, by Erin Hanson)

We were all born innocent, without any faults or values.

Our caregivers then teaches us as we grow up what we should and should not do. We meet people along the way who influences us to become the person we are when leaving school/university/college finally, and have to now stand on our own feet, with hopefully a full education behind us.

Along the way we have built up a value system, to start living by, and as we grow older the values change according to what we learn from life.

Some people never learn from mistakes and tend to repeat them time and again, so their value systems actually go backward as one value falls the others r next, and some could not care less in that position, as they have reached the down and out stage, and just need a helping, caring hand to get back up to speed.

Thus:- Values r picked up from being born till u expire.

How many values have u retained after leaving school, and then after the first divorce, and then the next (R u loosing values or adding to them) Hurt r then causing lots of harm to u emotionally and ur value system. After each harm in ur life u must use this time to first heal before going onto the next goal, but what invariably happen is that people marry again during the rebound stage as they cannot handle being alone. Will they ever grow up then, to their full extent, or r they bound to go backwards all the time for the rest of their lives, till when some caring person gives them advice, which invariably they will discard, and get angry about.

Values r so important in ur life. Learn from them. Build them up further and become the person u r meant to be !

I mean, how could you really?

The typical American has an 8 hour a day job and sleeps 8 hours a day. That is 16 hours, leaving 8 hours a day for you to be you.

Okay, to bath and eat in a day most likely takes an hour.

So now down to 7 hours in a day for you to be you.

Typically, there are home chores work to take care of, organizing, repairing, cleaning, taking the garbage out...even with a spouse at home...there is usually something or the other person to take care of. Let us guess another hour for the odds and ends things.

Now we are down to 6 hours in a day.

I am not sure how long the average American spends watching television...is it 2 hours a day or 4? Okay, I am going to consider it 3 hours...watching mindless crap and not allowing us to explore who we really are.

Now at this time we are down to 3 hours a day.

Do you chat with friends and family a bit during your day? Do you go to the bar and have a couple of beers? Do you have to run to the store for some groceries? What other loose ends need to be done? People are usually busy doing something it seems. Okay, let us consider this part of the day an hour.

Now, there are just 2 hours left in the day for you to be you.

How many people even contemplate a bit of who they are...and then put it into practice?
Many people allow their jobs to define who they are. But, are they really that person? Didn't a company just define who you are and not yourself?

What about children...do you have any...does that not take up any part of your time?

Who are you?

Sheep?

Nobody?

Do you know?

For there to be a new world order, there would have to have been an old world order.

What does that mean?

new and old.....

is pretty obvious what that means. Old, something that has been and might be coming to an end. New, is something that has yet to be and might be coming to a beginning.

world...

well, that could mean somebody's individual existence and everything that existence encompasses (that in my opinion would be the micro world) The macro world could encompass everything that exists that everyone experiences. For the time being, that could be the whole planet earth, but as we progress technologically, it could encompass more and more of the universe.

order...

when I think of order, I immediately think of its opposite, chaos. So order could mean that everything has its place.

With these three words broken down...if there is a "New World Order" coming, it would be nice to identify a possible "Old World Order."

I would argue that an "Old World Order" could have possibly been one that involved, religion. Religion allowed our planet to flourish to its population it has today. For Christians, we had the 10 Commandments to follow...to keep us in our place. Order was also maintained by family. Our devotion and love to one another kept everyone in their place. Order was in addition maintained by our work. Being at work 1/2 of our waking lives also kept us in place. In addition, the chasing of money also kept us on the straight and narrow.

These couple examples cover some of the major "old" world orders that have existed...and still do to some extent. But statistics would show they are on the decline....religious follwing...down, married couples..down, jobs are still around...but I will address this shortly along with money. (Jobs and money are connected obviously).

I am no expert here, but I am assuming that if there is going to be a "new order"...anytime you transition between something old and new, there is a short period (or long...depending on the complexity of the transition) of chaos between the two. Have you ever heard that saying, "It has to get worse before it gets better?" It is no different than somebody remodeling their house. Their house is in order before the remodel job, but is a mess in the middle of the job, and it is new order after the remodel job.

Now lets look at the state of the world as it stands right now today (2/24/2020). Take a step back from your day to day life and look at the state of our "world". I would say there is a lot of chaos in it right now. You have government feuding, genders feuding, rich vs. poor, religions losing their power over chaos...etc.

If this theory is correct, that would mean there is room being made for the "new order" to emerge. In other words, room for everything to have its place. When I refer to everything, I am primarily referring to...everyone having their place. If that is so, what is going to maintain this new order?

Ok this is a cautionary tale because I reckon pretty much all of us have either used lastminute.com or thought about it. Right? Great deals.

Well, I've been happy in the past, so I'm not knocking them (much) (okay I am) but had a Lastminute.com Experience this time which was an eye-opener. We were due to come back with TAP (Air Portugal, known lovingly to all as Take Another Plane) midday today - nice lazy morning, friend taking us to airport, only problem had been that we hadn't managed to do the boarding passes before the holiday. So what's the big deal? We'll have time at the airport to print them off, flight only leaves at 1.30.

However one of the staff at the hotel heard us talking about it and said hmmm, TAP, better safe than sorry, use the hotel pc / printer (by the way, highly highly recommended hotel, Pergola House, a converted Med villa, beautiful). So we ambled off to do that thing.



Odd. Our flight reference is now coming up for a flight before 07h00? I rang Lastminute.don't and they said oh, okay, we'll phone them but you probably should phone too. They gave us two phone numbers, both out of service. Hotel gave us another number and we hung on and hung on and hung on and gave up. Meanwhile I was reading the original booking and here's the warning. In teeny tiny letters it says flights may be subject to alterations of up to 24 hours

Long story short, up at 04h00 to catch flight. Happy 6 hour wait at Gatwick to catch connecting flight to Edinburgh. It could have been the other way round so be warned - if you use lastminute.don't, be careful. If you use TAP, confirm confirm confirm because at no time did they contact us or lastminute.don't to mention that if we pitched up for our flight at 1 we were going to be a little put out.

Oh and still waiting to hear back from lastminute.don't.

Just Live Your Life..

At school my teachers thought I would never amount to anything. I haven’t seen any of them since I left so they probably don’t know how accurate their predictions were. None of my achievements in life have been more than minor. This has, from time to time, caused me anxiety and dissatisfaction, but not anymore. I’ve found that since I’ve been living on my own I no longer care about achievement, or lack of it. A bit more money would be nice, but it wouldn’t take much more to spare me the usual end of the month juggling.

This made me wonder how many of the ambitions we have are for the sake of other people.

this world is so fill of fake a*ss people i am beginning to pinch myself to see if i bleed or if i am made of plastic ..

now i know why so many fake nasty a*ss men and women are on this site ,,
not saying real good ones are not among the multitude. why cant they allow the real men and women who have balls and brain to step up on the podium ?..

just saying

I have to point here that all people who comment blogs are native english speakers and use often slug as a code. This makes the reading of comments almost incomprehensible for non native english speakers and this is a pity. After all this is an international site and english can be an international language but not the english slug that is killing the real language. Also the use of all these emoticons turn meanings to the category of ridiculus. And the final question is : Is there anybody serious left here ?