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Why does people ..I say people coz it goes for both sexes

Have a real good woman talking to and find stupid excuse to stop talking with her because someone else arrive in the picture then when she dump him/ her they come crying on here? You reap what you sow.

Its a cycle both ends have to meet eventually.
So often this has happened and humans never learned.

I don’t know what friendship means to you. I also don’t care. If somebody is to be a friend with me, it’s my definition of friendship that matters.

Never had a male friend. All my friends to the date were women.

I had male relatives, school-comrades, dates, lovers, husbands, colleagues, neighbours, acquaintances. Never friends.

When a man on a dating site expresses a wish to be friend with me in the initial message, I regard him as a left-behind in more than one sense of the word.

I’ve read somewhere (could be the Guardian), that forming a friendship takes from 100 to 400 hours of quality time spent together. Let’s do some mathematics and let’s take the minimum as a start.

Hence, we start with 100 hours of quality time. A show at the Opera takes ca 2 hours and we can meet a couple of hours before for dinner: makes 4 hours at a time. 100 / 4 = 25. A year has 52 weeks. I have my friend, whom I meet at least once a month, and I paddle every week-end, if weather allows. Additional hinder: opera and restaurants are quite costly in Sweden. The conclusion I landed at is that it could happen 5 times a year, if I really make a lot of efforts and sacrifices (any reason I’d want to?). Nonetheless, under the most favourable circumstances, It’d take 5 years to fulfill this minimum of 100 quality hours spent together. Chances are, that we might realise after all that time (and money) wasted, that we are not friends. (Quite a discovery, isn’t it?)

There is also a slim chance, that we’d discover that we are friends. Well, good! But a friend isn’t a date. So, my friend, you will not mind when I prefer going to a date instead of meeting you. None of my friends ever minded, so why would you?

A friend means loyalty and obligation of support, that you free-willingly accept because you like the person. Would you, please, explain me why a random male passer-by expects me to grant him loyalty and support on the first notice?



PS this subject was trigged by a Q-Anonist suggesting that he is my friend. Duh!

I didn't really get any answers on a poll I asked about a few weeks ago. It was based on the topic of height within a relationship, if it mattered. It sounds funny yes, but in reality to me it's a problem at times. Being my height ( about 5'1) and overall size in comparison to someone I date is very noticeable and somewhat weird. But I can't help that of course. While dating or just hanging out, I just hate the obvious questions or physical actions that come from others, most of the time strangers. Idk, it's just embarrassing at times and overall hateful. If only people would get over it and mind there own business, or actually have manners and not ask stupid questions or not want to do stupid things to make me embarrassed. I don't know, I'm just somewhat ranting lol.

Hello there......
Is there no decency out there or self respect.
Am I just being old fashioned or not living with the new age.
I'm.on this site a year now and I have yet to go on a date.
For example:.... When I finally pick up the courage to give a man my private number thinking that he is the one I get heavy breathing over the phone.You can.use your own imagination what that's all about.
I'm tired now as I'm.almost 54 years old.
Where is romance gone to.....

Thank you for reading my blog

Barbara and furry friends

Is it a good idea to let them watch your stand up comedy? I am thinking it can be a good or not good thing.

I know there’s sometimes good reason to check out photos, or IP addresses, and scammers get exposed that way and it’s a GOOD thing.

Not quite so much fun when you aren’t a scammer, just someone on social media having a bit of fun, and some vicarious social life, and you find you’re being targeted.

I have been tracked down via my LinkedIn profile to my writing profile, and considering LI is for my very sober alternate life in Finance and Accounts and boring stuff like that, that was pretty unnerving.

I have been found via Google and outed in my writing name, on a social website where I use another name.

As a joke, but as it turns out not the best-timed one, I’ve been jokingly accused of hiding even on skype.

And in the last few days I have had a random black gent popping in and out of the photos on my profile – spotted by Lukeon, photographed there by him, and still, in at least one part of the world, sitting amongst my photos. Same dude apparently occasionally flickers into sight as my main photo.

Don’t know about the rest of you, but this whole electronic Big Brother shtick is getting uncomfortable.

You could argue I have too many personal and professional personas. It’s been said before. Three Facebook pages (two for my author names) is a case in point. Fair comment. I would just be really, really grateful if I could be allowed to keep all the busy little compartments of my life ticking quietly over without anyone jumping in and spoiling it all. I hurt no-one, I don’t trap or scam or defraud anyone (that includes Her Majesty’s Revenue Commission, taxes fully paid!), and I don’t pretend to be anyone I’m not.

I even changed my CS name recently for that very reason, because I was getting to know more people and becoming uncomfortable with what was beginning to feel like a deception.

Okay?

I can believe my best friend stop talking to me ,just because i said i need a white man for my husband in the future...she said i am being racial..i think i need a change from my race,have no luck with them..so whats wrong if i try something new...i love my color:but nothing is wrong if i date a white man...now i know the type of friends i should keep...LOVE YOU ALL..HAVE A GOOD NIGHT.

I hate being told I'm jealous. I know I'm possessive. And controlling. And like things to go my way. But jealous? Jealousy is about being unreasonable.

My mother used to tell me I was jealous, and it was a very ugly thing to be. I would look at the gift she had just given my little brother, and at my empty hands, and think hang on a minute.

At work once I worked equally on a project with a colleague, who got all the praise. I whinged to my manager, who said I was being jealous, and it was a very ugly thing to be. Hang on a minute.

I still think that if someone does something that damages my sense of worth it is reasonable to be surprised. Even annoyed. But I guess it is my unreasonable perception of 'damaging to my sense of worth' that defines jealous. It is a very ugly thing to be.

Must try harder.

Happy, happy birthday XuanMai!

May you have many, many more!

Time for everyone to celebrate XuanMai birthday!

am not bashing no one but hey whats up with men who play with a woman's emotion and leave

only to come running back when he has been played out and get old on the playground and cant find no other ?


why the desperate long face endless begging?


sorry but when it done-- its done for me