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It's over now!

wish every piece of me was frozen to be free of feelings.

Didn't anticipate his touching, his presence in my life might be such hurtful when it is over.

Now i m scared of everything, especially feelings and hopes.

Should all these tears be enough to exhaust this burning heart, pain would not have reached me this deep

Last evening I engaged in conversation with a woman from Europe I've never contacted previously. As a matter of fact, I rarely look at who is online. I just will comment on blogs when I come on CS. But last night a woman's face profile caught my eye. So, I read on and found the woman's profile interesting enough to facilitate an email chat.

I will describe the adventure to my days of being a recreational pilot, it has significance in the realm of take off and landings. Before take off a complete physical of the outer craft must be made. Looking for any stress fractures while checking the prop to the tail of the plane..including gas tank levels since gauges cannot always be trusted. After the outside part is accomplished there was an 18 point checklist in the cabin that needed to be made before taxiing to the runway.

So, I did my physical check on her, one profile picture of her face and that was it......semi

Hair....check
Eyes....check
Education...check
Location....check
Height....check
Profile....double check (loves to travel)
Age....check
Sign....check

So, ready for take off...

The windsock lied, (it shows wind direction), I went right into a headwind after my first email. She made a comment that I didn't read her profile carefully (I read it twice). After explaining my comment she understood where I was coming from. I needed to speed the engine to get it off the ground. Whew!!! made it. Started climbing to 3,500 feet, so far smooth no turbulence. Arrived at altitude, leveled off and started looking for other craft. One spotted above me, so I veered in the opposite direction. All is well, until she says here's my email I'm not here all the time (Red Flag). Her last comment was a kiss goodnight (Red Flag).Then coming in for the landing I hit a little high on the runway and blow a tire. The plane veers to the left out of control hits a ditch rolls over and explodes into a ball of flames......

After our chat I went back to look at her profile and it was most likely hidden (not deleted). (Red Flag) So, I googled her pic and found another CS profile with her pic and a different name, but all the details from age to sign to hair/eyes were all different. (Red Flag) So, I google her email address...nothing found....I then searched FB and once again nothing.

As some are aware here, I made a mistake a while back, so I am extra cautious going forward....We exchanged some 20 or so emails and I enjoyed the chat. Her english was perfect and you could tell she was an intelligent woman......does anyone tell the truth online??? or are we so busy trying to outwit the scammers????

Moral of the story: if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck.....it might not be a duck.......

Why are men such big babies?
This is just an observation...I get into a car accident on my way home from business school one day, broke my knee cap in half and go to back to school the very next day....have a job, walking for miles on a daily basis, covering very large properties, break my leg and return just two weeks into the healing process.....if something needs to get done, i just do it, unless its physically impossible. I have a male friend, just cut his hand yesterday, doing dishes and had gotten 7 stitches...he didn't go into work (complaining of all the overtime he's missing) and stayed home in bed ...his teenage daughter also stayed home to take care of him. I text him, yesterday afternoon to see how he was doing and he got upset because i woke him while he was resting his hand and he tells me, "now I have to get up and go pick up my pain meds"...really, you have a cut on your and and its all stitched up...yes, take care of yer booboo, keep it clean but really, suck it up, buttercup and go back to work
...and then...the man that I'm seeing...when he gets a cold, oh my goodness, he thinks he's dying...he doesnt return to work until every symptom disappears and wont come see me during that same time for the same reason...he says he doesnt want to get me sick.. Oh dear, do you even realize that youre the most contagious within a few days before you even show those common cold symptoms? Men.

Cuts and wounds will heal...everyone gets them.....colds come and go, fresh air will do ya some good. Get yer butt outta bed and keep yourself motivated. Trust me, you'll live.....the world is not coming to an end.

Just a little light humor with some added truths, no need to get yer tightie whities in a bunch

During our life journey some people enter our lives and make us feel special.
I was so lucky to have met someone that helped me through moments of my life.
He made my true colours show, making me feel beautiful and showing me all I was worth.
Kind, patient and loving we connected instantly.

We are energies, meshing and flowing, and changing continuously.
We are all in different places in our journeys.

Now he asks me to say "Goodbye" and I won't.
I want to say.
I will never forget you!





This blog is for those we never forget

Ah, um, ah, so, do you like bread?

Without prejudice and in all sincerity, there are men out there in their mid 70 who would run rings around a lot of 60 year old men.
They have a great work ethic, they are virile, full of knowledge and fun. You may say ,"yes but they are nearly 80 years old" so what, there are 80 year olds who are still able to father children. I am 75, just finished building my new home am in Lions, Men's Shed, Community garden and still work part time. There are many like me, but we don't get a look in because we are mid 70. Pity, many women missing out on sincere, loving, caring gentlemen, who are seeking permanent relationships with so much to offer.

I know relationships can be complicated. They can be complicated to the point where the individuals involved within them have their own unique set of rules they each have become to respect. With that said, I know the answer to certain questions may or may not be as simple as yes or no. There might actually be qualifiers/stipulations that come along with them. Really, it boils down to the individuals within the relationship on what they are willing to accept and not accept.

But....here is the question.

I have personally seen this and have heard it from many friends. I am not saying it is a common event, but I think it might be more common than one might think.

Is it right for a woman in a relationship to threaten her man with various forms of retribution if he decides to go out with his friends....or...even go visit his family. Now the family thing, I think might be a little more rare but the friends issue, I have heard on more than one occasion.

What I do hear a lot now days is....how men will proclaim, "I like my freedom."

Is this a man issue only or do women run into the same issues?
Do women feel the same about having their freedom?
Do you really lose your freedom when you meet the right person...meaning allowing you your boundaries and allowing your individuality?
Is it really fair for your spouse or significant other to throw threats out there...or is it time to move on?
Have we now become a new society when it comes to relationships?

Happy Saturday all.

Earlier today, whilst sweeping up some dried leaves in my driveway/garage, I recalled something that had been said to me more than 12 years ago by my ex-husband (aka ‘wus’-band), which was upsetting and negatively affected our marriage relationship. Today I mused that, had those same words been said with a loving/caring tone and intent, then I would not have felt belittled or dismissed (by him) at the time.

“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words cannot harm me”, is a LIE because whilst the hurts from ‘sticks & stones’ are usually superficial and short term, the pain that words sometimes cause goes deep…even to one’s very soul…and can last for decades. When I thought about them today, I felt the disappointment (again).

I’ve noticed that, for some people, it’s really easy to use words against others in order to hurt or offend, and I’m not even talking about the popularly known ‘obscene’ ones. I try not to (at least not out loud). Even when there isn’t an intent to do so, that can still happen, so it’s not only WHAT you say, but also HOW you say it that matters in ALL relationships.

So tell me, if your person/spouse/significant other says to you, “It doesn’t matter what we discuss, the final decision is always mine”, how would you feel and what would you think?

LESSON TO MY FELLOW WOMEN HERE!!!

When a guy asked to chat outside here be aware of him. (FAKE)

The next thing is to ask for your photos (PERVERT)

BUT if you ask for a video call he will make up an excuses just to avoid it ?? and you will never hear from him again
(SCAMMER)

Comment if you have experienced such

It has been what....3...4 years, maybe? And yes, I have returned. I have missed many of you here.

Please tell me...how have you been? Any crucial milestones? Exciting lifetime events?

I've actually missed the blogs, bloggers and blogettes lol

Some of you may remember me, some new faces too.....I'm looking forward to interacting with all of you once again :-)

~Red