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What would you do if you have been talking with someone....someone whom tells you that they love you and you love them. This same someone you have never met in real life (in person). Everything has been over the internet...for years, you have been communicating with them...they talk about how they need your financial help, and they love you and you love them...so, you send them money whenever they ask for it. You do it with a smile on your face.

What would you do if you were in that situation...only to find out...that this person you have been talking to, sharing your love with, them sharing their love with you....giving them money....giving them gifts...what would you do if you found out that you are 1 of 100's that this person has been accepting money, gifts, and love from.


This situation does exist in today's world.

Would you continue giving your hard earned money to them, given them gifts...and giving them your love?

Does a woman with a promiscuous nature get her way?

or

Does a man who does not want his woman to be promiscuous get his way?




Right now this question is still being pondered by society.

What do you think?


I mean....is it important that the man gets his way with the relationship? Why can't the woman get hers?

Happy, Happy Birthday to my friend Wallops! May you have many more and may God bless one of the nicest ladies on the blogs!!!!!!!!!

Engaging in an unselective s*xual act is not my kind of thing, does that make me less of a woman? I have friends who openly enjoys casual sex, they chat, meet up and end up having sex with the guy. Seems normal to them....not to me.

I see sex as something special between two people who genuinely care for each other . I can wait for that special person and that perfect time...does that mean I'm cold ?

I'm not judging people who engage in casual sex, flings or one nigh stands but to me, promiscuous people have issues and difficulties in forming an emotional bond that could lead to a good relationship.

Would you find these kind of people impressive and someone to be trusted in a relationship?

This is a blog to all the faceless profiles.

There seems to be an inconsistency in the reasoning as to why people join a DATING site then dont present the feature that is most likely to attract a date!

Yeah!, Yeah! .... Heard all the excuses.... “I feel vulnerable”, “I only attract scammers or people old enough to be my parent or young enough to be one of my children” etc, etc, etc...

What are you afraid of? Plenty of people seem to get along just fine with pictures posted ...so come out into the light, lets us all get a look at you, you never know, you may even get a date!

Certain women hold on to a romantic notion that “a Knight in Shining armour” or “a Prince” will appear to sweep her off her feet and live in happiness ever after. While this is the stuff that fairytales are made of, being on CS means facing up to harsh reality.

Reading the blogs and polls, it is easy to conclude that some on CS think that by providing a photograph and writing a profile will magically lead to finding the proverbial “one.” Some will simply flick through the photographs with the same logic behind the Tinder application – decisions to connect based only on the person's physical appearance. Others will glance over profiles and dismiss it out of hand, even if it does not contain content that would make contact otherwise unacceptable.

Profile screening often leads to a judgmental, “shopping” mentality. This is why some of the loveliest and genuinely sincere people are left on the shelves and gather dust. Certainly profiles are able to screen out obviously inappropriate or incompatible partners, but too often people make a decision based purely on pictures and the limited information provided. Studies have in fact led to the discovery that only once people have met in person, other characteristics become more important. One does not have a clue of how one will interact with another person until you actually meet, because interaction is a very complex process that no profile can reveal.

Perhaps it is time that some women on CS take a step back and re-evaluate their mindset – being so focused on chasing their Disney dream that they turn away so many great opportunities of meeting wonderful men. Chasing away potential partners just because they might not fit 100% into your self-created dream of perfection means that you are missing out on the experience of life.

So if you have reached that age when you are absolutely determined to find “The One,” and made it your life's mission to find “The One,” the reality is that trying to find someone that fits exactly into the jigsaw of your self-inflicted mindset is virtually impossible.

How often do you find one with an (seem to be) nice profile like this:

About me:

I love literature and plenty of conversation between us iam a noble man enjoy going to the movies and restaurants together explore new wisdom nice lifebeer

Literature : Yaaaay finally somebody who reads!
Conversation : Yes, yes, yes, I love interesting conversation!
Movies : Another Yaaaay as I love movies!
Restaurant : Oh bring it on, I loooove food!
Explore new wisdom: Oh that's so promising.


I'm looking for:

a truthful person to talk together and honor each other enjoy what it holds being this way together to seek and prosper mind body and soul live as happy member easy journey fantastic future nice life may our love not be a stranger come in and make my house of desire your home

Hmmmm... promising, promising, promising, but... hey where's the comma, full stop?


Then his first message came:

Hi
Be friends with me +61416603391 add me on viber
Love for you to be my girlfriend

Phone number at first message, that's a nay! I did not reply.

Second message:

hehehehe
Please cuddle you

WTF. Absolutely no reply!

Third message:

hi ok
how often would you experience a squirting orgasam do you need a decent size d*ck for that do you do your squirting orgasam by an*l s*x. Or straight sex well I suppose it depends on the size of the d*ck what do you reckon what is your favourite size d*ck mine is a very nice fat 8 inch make you squirt good tell me thankyou feel free your welcome


SICK!

Fourth message:

I have a fat nine inch measure it properly so yeah I can give a good squirting orgasam like to spend a weekend.with you in the future

Ok. You want my attention, here you go. Get ready to get loaded by viber message. Enjoy your fame!

Oh, he claimed himself as clownice, 38 yr-old man, sydney, New South Wales Australia.

Now that Beapatient spilled the beans, I may as well own up. All my life I had this silly believe that Beatrix was just a sister to me. That was until Sunday two weeks ago when she challenged me to kiss her and then to tell her afterwards that I don’t love her. That kiss changed everything and started a chain of events that cannot be undone. Nothing will ever be the same again.

I realize now that I have always loved her but I was too hard headed to admit to it. I shudder when I think how close I came to losing her for ever. I can only hope that in the years to come, I will be able to make up for all the years that she so unselfishly devoted to me. All the times she cared for me when I was ill, all the plates of food she cooked for me when I was not well, all the times she cleaned my house, and all the other little things she did for me.

We’ll be signing our contracts next week. My father is thrilled with joy. Beatrix did him the honor to ask him to give her away (to me) in the church as her own father is no longer with us. Initially she was going to ask her brother to do it, but he is my best friend and I had already asked him to be my best man. But my father is a good choice. He knows her as long (and as well) as anybody else and she has known him all her life.

My daughters are not too happy about it but they will have to get used to it. I’m getting older and I’m tired of being alone.

This also means good-bye. It was her only demand. I therefore thank you for all the good times here on the blogs and I wish you all of the best.

Naturally, there will be those who will applaud my departure; you know who you are. To you I can only say: “May the fleas of a thousand camels infest your armpits.”

Shortly after I joined CS, somebody ask me to be her online lover. The idea sounded great and not knowing what it entails, I agreed.

I thought on-line loving was an opportunity to get to know somebody with the idea to meet each other eventually, but I was wrong. Apparently it consisted of ten minutes of dirty talking while fantasizing about somebody you have never met. I could foresee that the exchange of funny photos would be the next thing.

I have heard of this sort of thing happening over a telephone line but it has never been my scene. Of course it could not last and it died a sudden death. I fail to see how people can get a kick out of this. My on-line lover disappeared without trace - undoubtedly to resurface under another name.

But the incident was not forgotten. I still wonder how often this happens. Is it a common practice behind the scenes or was this an isolated case? Have you had any such proposals? Am I just prudent or is this the in thing?

Have a whale of a day.

Are relationships as complicated as some people make them out to be?

Surely, once the initial adjustments have been made, the relationship should run smoothly, in synchronization with each other, almost automatic?