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Thought you should know.

Oh aye I like you, for looking good, or making me laugh, or groan at your comebacks, or think. But you? Nope.

Only mentioning it because you need to get over yourself. Someone had to say it.

Oh, and I am running for most popular person on CS. Don't forget to cast your vote.

You are? Well then, welcome to CS. I’ve been here for a while and I happen to hear from lots of beautiful young lassies like you who are new here. It is always so amazing to notice how new girls fumble for the right words; it must be nerves. You say you don’t spend a lot of time on this site. That is a real pity; there are so many things to do here. You will love it and spend all your free time here once you get the hang of it.

You like my profile? I like it too. And you think I look very ‘sofisticated’? Oh thank you, dear. I’m not photogenic and I look much better in real life. Yes, I’m also looking for a ‘cincere and honest persin’ with whom to spend the rest of my life. Hmm, I’m pleased to hear that you like older men and I'm sure that you can make me happy, but I already raised two daughters; I don’t have the energy for another one. Perhaps I can introduce you to my grandson? At 17, he is only a few years younger than you are, but does it matter? As you said yourself, age is just a number.

Oh dear! Can we skip the naughty talking on Skype? I’m very shy and I blush easily. Actually, I think we must skip those naughty pics as well. Why don’t you try another site? We don’t do those things here. At least, most of us don’t.

No dear, rather not wait for an email from me. I correspond with so many new girls, I cannot possibly handle another new girl, but I promise to save your Yahoo email address in case I have more time later. Sorry, I have blocked you from contacting me again. It is nothing personal. See it as a favor to prevent you from wasting your valuable time on an old coot like me.


One day is one day...

Its plain and simple.

Everyone has a choice. To complain or not. To respect or not. To be nice or not. To terrorize or to be peaceful.

This site is free. While being civil is encouraged, it is not always the case. People including me becomes too personal at times especially on religion and politics.

All I'm saying is, be happy we have a site to enjoy and if we get lucky, we find those that sweep us off our feet. I did. Twice. I couldn't be more thankful.

Are you still waiting for that elusive perfect partner? Well, I have news for you. He or she may never come. It is pretentious to believe that somewhere and somehow somebody out there was made just for you and all your whims and desires. And if there is somebody like that, the chances of the two of you meeting, are negligibly small.

By placing yourself on a pedestal, believing that you deserve only the best is folly and may leave you on your own forever plus another few days. Chances are that if you can locate that perfect partner, he or she may not see you as perfect at all.

Let’s face; it we are mass-produced; each one unique and yet all stereotyped. We are born the same. It is the events during our lives, and how we cope with it, that define us for what we are. The random factor is far too great to calculate the outcome. People change and adjust according to what life throws at them. What is perfect now may not be so in the future. The opposite is also true.

You have to make compromises. Compromising does not mean that you have to surrender. It merely entails a strategic reevaluation and restructuring of your goals. There is no need to lower your standards and there is nothing that a coat of paint cannot fix, providing that the superstructure is sound. And be prepared to receive a bit of painting as well. You’re not perfect either.

It is not all about finding the perfect partner; it is also about being the perfect partner. It takes two to tango and a chain is only as strong as the weakest link.


Have a marvelous weekend. It may just happen this weekend.

Being a man would you date a woman who is taller then you ? As a woman would you date a man who,is shorter then you ?

Well cant keep it quiet any longer...Im Getting married to jerky 76 aka fruitloop..aka parrot Lady.

Been chatting for nine months and tieing the Knot.

Jazz50 and itchy crutch i mean wicth will head up the bridesmaids....Iatoo and jarred are the two standup Comics for the evening. Kings is going to be the Pastor..he is perfect for the Job..golden gloss is making the cake as it will be all Nice and fluffy like her...any other guest suggestions

Well, as they say, all good things come to an end. And this was a good one. I felt kind of sad when I took her home earlier. She’s leaving today and we said our good-byes. When I met her I thought it would be one or two dates and then good bye. I never dreamed that it would develop into such a pleasant encounter. I will remember her for a long time.

Finding a suitable gift for her did not prove such a challenge at all. I must thank Stargazer for giving me the idea. Friday afternoon, after cutting the sketch that she admired so much into a rectangular shape, I left it on the dining room table where she could not miss it. She did not give me the opportunity to offer it to her. She asked for it; the only thing she ever asked from me.

We had it framed Saturday morning and collected it on Monday. I must admit that it looks better with the frame, but I still think the frame is worth more than the sketch. Mind you, it has moved up in value since it ruined a perfectly good panel saw while trimming the edges. It lost some detail at the bottom and the sides in order to get the edges straight. There was some sort of a ditch with some water on the foreground; part of it still visible at the bottom. The size of it is 618mm X 411mm.
The sketch has a rather obscure history. I did it out of boredom, on an irregular shaped piece of scrap asbestos left by the builders, while waiting for the fire to get ready. It took no longer than 30 minutes or so. I used a piece of charcoal from a previous fire to draw it. When the fire was ready, my uncompleted ‘masterpiece’ landed back on the heap of building scrap where it was in the sun, wind and rain for a few months. You can notice the discoloration on the left and top. It still needed plenty of work but it was never intended to survive.

When they eventually came to remove the rubble, my brother-in-law preserved my ‘masterpiece’ for greater honors by putting it in the garage where it stood collecting dust for another two years before a woman from Gauteng noticed it when I brought her home the first time. The rest of it is already told.

I hope it brings her the same sweet memories as her gift brings me when I listen to my music. My gift to her compares poorly with the Bluetooth speakers she bought me but this is what she wanted.


Well, cheer up. If everything go according plan, tomorrow will be Friday.

I’ll be honest with you, I never expected to marry again but he kept asking and the more I thought about it, the more I realized this is actually the ideal solution for me, so I said YES!!

Be happy for me, please - the friends who knew about us, or have started suspecting, think I am making a mistake but I am truly happy. Lipra is - well, he’s a lovely guy. Fantastic sense of humour. When he told me he had 3 wives already I was shocked. Bigamy!! He said no, Biff, 3 wives, that’s very big a' me! I had to laugh, and that’s it, really, any man who makes me laugh . . .

We all get along well, we all like time to ourselves, it will be perfect. Between us we own places in Spain, Ireland, France and Greece, and can switch around now and then for holidays. As the fourth and youngest wife (Lipra is only 48, but adores older women) I get first pick of dates and have decided we will be honeymooning for just over a week every month. I am the happiest woman in the world.



So that’s the official announcement. Very soon I will be becoming Mrs Lipra Loof IV and anyone who is truly happy for me is welcome to attend our wedding xxx



For those who disapprove - back off for now, okay?



**Edited comment. Lipra Loof is an anagram of April Fool and although the date is showing as March 31st, the blog was posted at 1 minute past midnight local time - on April 1st, April Fools Day. **

No-one is perfect, we ALL have our flaws. I take a long time to reach the point where I consider someone a friend through thick and thin, whatever they do, there for them when they need a friend, defend them when they behave badly, but here’s the double standard – the day they bite ME on the bum, suddenly that’s unforgivable!

How do you react when a friend lets you down in a way, major or minor, you’ve always defended when they did it to others? They haven't changed, after all. Still the flawed but likeable person they always were. You're just suddenly seeing it differently ...

Ever had that thing when you think someone is funny and intelligent, and then you meet the people they think are funny and intelligent and oops -

I'm still buddies with a bloke I dated for a short while and the other day we got together for drinks, he was really keen for me to meet the current lady because he knew we'd get on like a house on fire.

Well, I don't know why he ever dated me, is all I can say, because if ever someone was my polar opposite, she is

Ever had that? Unnerving, innit?