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S.I.G.N.

According to Kevin Samuels:

A low value woman is...

S = Shame (They will shame you).
I = Insult ( " " insult " ).
G = Guilt ( " " guilt " ).
N = Need to be right (they will always need to be right).


Which leads to these types of traits:

no accountability
no honesty
no apologies


What do you think men and women....do you agree with him? Is Kevin Samuels right about low value women?

Happy Friday all.

So many times I heard people saying that they will never love again as it only brings pain but are they not doing themselves short for nothing? There is no guarantee the next affair will be the same.

Surely there must be some good memories sprouting from a sunken love affair. I mean why have the affair in the first place if it brought no happiness? If it brought no happiness then you have only yourself to blame for placing an expectation on something that was not to be. A lover is supposed to make you happy.

Love is too beautiful to be wasted but it needs not to be blind. You have to love with your eyes open. When you see the signs, don’t believe that it will go away for it will only grow worse. Break it off sooner than later and make it a clean break. Rather take a small hurt now than a much bigger hurt later.

Most aborted love affairs end in (or because of) some unpleasantness. That is life. When I think of the relationships I have been involved in, I only remember the good times. The bad times erase themselves with time. Don’t dwell on the shipwrecks of the past. Take the knock, put it behind you and get on with your life. There is no need to deprive yourself of all the joys of a future love. There is another love yet to come.

Don’t miss your dreamboat when it arrives. And if you discover that it is not the dreamboat that you thought it was, there is nothing to prevent you from jumping ship at the next harbor.

It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved.


Have a wonderful day.!

Not even 3 pm here and I have been in tears on and off all day, I need a plumber to fix this leak in my tearducts.

They aren't even sad or self-pitying tears and there's no reason to cry! Big girls don't cry!

I hear a favourite Christmas carol and - wahhhh.

Long emails from friends who were once part of my daily life and now I hear once a year.

Nice letters from people I didn't expect to hear from

Lovely messages from people I did expect to hear from

A parcel today from someone I thought was cross with me



I should probably wallow in it for half an hour, cry the tank dry, is it the time of year?

Or suggestions for toughing my way through it, please. Because this is RIDICULOUS.

Signed
Watering Pot *sniff*

Yes, I am

Well, it’s a scary word. For so many reasons, most of us are afraid to commit in a relationship. It would take a load of craps, guts and courage to commit…only those who are courageously in love will give a relationship their best shot – commitment. Those who feel vulnerable, those who seek for something better, those who dwell in the past, those who have unrealistic expectations will always have difficulty in committing themselves in a relationship even if they found that “perfect partner”…the same people who will more likely end up as lonely bitter old men/women.

No-string attached relationships works for many. Most of us have temporarily fixes for our loneliness: jobs, ONS, LDR, alcohol drugs, “dating”, chatting, flirting, playing – they’re just that…temporary! There’ll come a time when one realizes that they have simply wasted those precious time and opportunity to be happier and the opportunity to live a more fulfilling life till the end.

How long have you been blogging here? How many have you met online and in real life but didn’t take that chance to start a good relationship ? ? I bet my bums it’s not because they’re not good enough for us…it’s because we have other options…better ones…or so we thought!

Most of us regular bloggers here are simply bullshitting…we’re not here to look for a love or for a life partner…we’re too “smart” for that. Sadly, CS became a hunting ground for scammers , wankers and players. Many here profess their expertise when it comes to life , love, sex and relationships… but how fulfilling is your love life ? How far would you go for love ? Would you commit ?...or cut and run before you could get hurt again?

Or Am I Being Weak Here?

I, for one need a man. I paid too high a price for my so-called freedom and independence which I start to detest when I’m lonely and in need of support and appreciation from a MAN. Freedom and independence sound great but what would you be willing to give up for it? When I was going through that painful divorce , the thought of being free and independent was such a comfort. I told myself it would be nice to be free again, live my life the way I want it, do what I want, cook what I want, come and go anytime and wherever I want…and I’m doing all of that now. The truth is, I’m not proud of it, I’m unhappy and I feel such a huge void inside me when I’m alone and no one to talk to and cuddle with.

I’m in a long distance relationship and I’ll be lying if I say that I’m happy and content with exchanging messages, photos, naughty sexy chats and exchanging comforting words over the phone with someone living in another country and just meet up for long weekend every few months. The truth is...It sucks!


I miss having a man beside me, to talk to… and argue with every few bad days of the month, the same man I will rely on when things fall apart, same man who will make me feel protected and tells me all will be OK, same man who will make me feel desirable, wanted and needed . I miss having someone who asks me how’s my day, when and where did I go, what will I cook for dinner and will ask me “what’s wrong ?” when he sees the troubled and unhappy expression in my eyes

I’m not looking for a super man. Just like me, he doesn’t have to be perfect, just MAN enough to understand the imperfect woman in me, the crazy silly person in me , love me for who I am and can meet me halfway He has to be someone I can share everything with and could bring out the best in me so I could accomplish my role as a woman Someone who can do a bit of fixing and carpentry jobs will be a bonus…and of course he’s got to be cuddly and a good kisser . Am I asking too much? I hate the thought that I could be living a single life for the rest of my life. . I would prefer to have a man beside me and grow old with him. Does that make me a weak woman?

Not all women are angels and not all men are devils. Or, if you want it the other way around, not all men are saints and not all women are demons. For every man walking around acting like a pig there is a b*tch lurking somewhere else. While they deserve to end up together, it seldom works out that way.

For every blog appearing about a man being tormented in his love, there are 10 blogs about women blaming a man – and mostly all men – for their woes. And such blogs are normally swarming with ladies to join the bandwagon ready to condemn men while the absence of men on such blogs sticks out like a sore thumb. What is this; the pot calling the kettle black?

Men love no less intense than women. Men are hurt as easily as women; we just don’t walk around with our hearts on our sleeves. We are too proud to let women know when they hurt us.

I had my share of problems with women as well. In fact every single major problem I had in my life was because of a woman but do I hate them for that? No. Do I blame them for all the trouble? Once again, no. I was stupid enough to allow it. It was my own fault. I did not see the signs because I did not look at them before it was too late.

The signs are always there. Connivers always leave telltales. You only need to look and you will spot them. Your heart is not a toy; why allow people to play with it?

Men, in general, cannot be blamed for the behaviour if some men; just like women, in general, cannot be held accountable for the actions of some women.

We are all in control of our own lives. Take hold of it and don’t allow false-hearted lovers to control it. If you allow it, is your own fault.


A great day to you all and be in control of your own life.

Many of us share similarities with famous people.
We have talents for lying, telling the truth,
music, drawing, math, poetry, singin dancin etc...
We also share some physical characteristics.
Do you look like Marylin Monroe, or
Abraham Lincoln?
They can be famous writers, politicians,
Musicians, race car drivers, movie stars, porn
stars or very prolific persons.
All of us have that special someone
inside us already; but tell me;
Who do you resemble?

Ok ill start. I look like a ghost ;0)
Thanks for the suggestion.
I think i look like a picture frame ;0)
Actually,
I look like a bunch of guys pics from here on CS ;0)

Seriously,
Ive been told i look like John Travolta.
Olivia told me that ;0)

I'm new here my name is daniel I came from another dating site that I can not mention!I'm here to expand my horizons I'm here to find the love of my life

Do you ever get times when you feel sentimental and reflect on past relationships?

Do the good times you had together run through your mind like a movie and bring a smile to your face?

Do you still feel that persons arms around you and the sweet taste of their kiss on your lips?

Do the moments of intimacy leave you aching for the warmth of their touch?

Do you sometimes wish you could turn back the clock and have all those wonderful moments again?

If you do... you are chasing shadows... life is cruel,

BUT...

It sure is nice to have memories.

What would you do if you really liked a person a lot maybe even loved him . The two of you weren't compatible in the bedroom would you get your feelings hurt if you couldn't turn each other on? Would you end the relationship after trying for a few weeks ?