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Men over 50 should be stable and employed and own their own home, be careful as some still live with their mommy’s make sure you find this out early to avoid disappointment.

Most men over 50 have lost their once handsome looks, think of it as character more than being ugly. A bit of a belly is a badge of honor and the result of good living.

Look for a man who has a sense of humor, its rare as they tend to moan a lot about nothing.

Like woman over 50 they are stuck in their ways and routines, trying to break them will result in failure, try to be sympathetic as men have a hard time adjusting to anything new.

Intercourse is important to men of this age, they think about it more than the younger men, not all will suffer from a form of floppiness and most will stand upright at the mere sight of any part of a woman.

He will change his underpants and put on deodorant and comb what’s left of his hair at least once a week when single but in a relationship he will do this daily.

I have discussed...this subject before...but it was a while ago

As some women have stated...it's not the 1950s anymore...women have their own income and property...so why do so many women...still want the man to pay for the meal

a novel idea...would be a woman offering to foot the whole bill for the meal..like so many men have done...throughout history..never complaining...just opening their wallets up...paying the bill and leaving a tip too

What i did with my exe...she paid and the nxt time i paid...fair is fair

Feel free to share your views...on this most interesting of subjects...that effects so many of us

There's something in the way, love is never enough.
Funny as it may be, most of the times, we aren’t even aware we need to move on from a relationship until it becomes evident. Some of us logically know we should move on – yet we linger on anyway.
Sometimes we think we will never find someone like the person we are with. Other is just the fear of the change and not knowing what will happen next.
Why do we stay with relationships when we know it will lead to no where?

I know we are on Connecting Singles. But I guess most of us have been in situations like this.
What reason made you realize it was the moment to move on?

We are a live-for-the-moment society, we take what we want, anything goes and everyone is up for grabs or they wouldn't be here on CS, yet for some reason we suddenly forget that when we are the wronged party and go on, and on, and on, and ON about it.

Not just scammers, either. Most of the male bloggers on CS, even the creeps, have women they keep as a get-out-of-jail-free card, suddenly remembering her when things are getting too hot. Sorry, darlin', but I did tell you I was serious about someone, remember? Some of the women, ditto.

So, you got taken. Maybe literally. Grow up, write it off to experience, live with the consequences. In your heart of hearts, be grateful you aren't stuck with the charmer.

There, that should have offended nearly everybody but you know what? It's true. Have a lovely evening.

Been dating this modelesque woman for a short while (certainly too good looking for the likes of me) and although she has a body like the statue of Venus with arms, things are not going according to plan and its time to move on to pastures new.

Have an idea to write this....
“Good morning, had a wonderful time chatting and laughing whilst in your company last evening, however, this morning my heart is crying.
As much as my body and soul long to be with you, to make a life of happiness together, my head tells me this cannot be and so the time for us to part has come.

I shall always treasure the moments we have shared, how your eyes glinted like stars in the brightness of your smile, the softness of your caress will always rest upon my arms and the feel of your warmth will always be within my heart.

My fervent hope is that the future will bring you the happiness you seek in the arms of another. Good bye my beautiful.... (Add name)”

What do you think?

For those of you not chucking your fingers down your throat in an effort to throw up, I hope you are reaching for the tissues to dab the tears welling in your eyes whilst curtailing your sniffles and trying to stabilize your quivering lip.

I'm not talking Robert Redford in a tux, offering a million bucks for a night, or Angelina Jolie saying she'd give you the same for a weekend away.

Say someone on CS that you'd chatted to via the blogs or forums but never particularly fancied, offered you 5000 to spend a week with them (dollars, euros, pounds, all much of a muchness at the moment, pick your favourite currency)

The offer is genuine.

Would you?












And no, no-one has offered me that and right now I am unemployed with my whole life on pause and me, personally? Yes I would. I need the cash. But I'm not a particularly normal person, and I'm just wondering how abnormal I am. Much more to the point, this directly relates to something I'm working on.

Love and relationship that started from or based on deception...

I'm just wondering why some people go for someone who's already in relationship with someone else...could be someone's BF/GF, Wife/Husband ? I'm sure many will succeed in breaking up a relationship and getting the person they want...but would it result to a happy ever after?

Would you consider dating someone who's hurt/hurting/willing to hurt someone just to be with you? There's a possibility that he/she will do the same to you , will you trust him/her ?

Marriage/relationship wreckers...does love really justify their madness?

Happy Monday everyone

Considering the number of members that choose not to post a photo on their profile page, I am wondering whether the inclusion of photos plays a role in the number of contacts (flowers/mail) received from potential suitors.

Likewise, does the type/quantity of photos enhance or deter a persons appeal?

I ask this question because today as I was browsing profiles, I came across a profile that included a photo of a woman lying face down on a sunbed.

Now, nothing unusual in that you may think, however, in the photo that showed the womens upper legs and bum, she was completely naked with legs slightly apart, thus leaving nothing to the imagination.

Of course, to a guy like me that made her extremely attractive!

In choosing people to contact, how important are photos to you?

He walks in and out of my life, this mystery man... what else shall I call him? Tall dark and handsome business man, with a deep Arabic accent...yes, he is from Egypt. So very smart and charming. Treats me like his queen when we're together.....be it alone or in public with friends. He never hides me, rather takes pride in being by my side. Says, "I don't want to leave you alone" ....He's always so full of surprises, thinking up new ways to make me smile. The passion is unforgettable, assertive, inevitable. He never fails to make me laugh with our little inside jokes. He has captured my heart in such a way, I never thought possible. ....I just want him by my side.

But when he's not with me, he remains distant. Days, sometimes weeks go by...no communication, no texts, no calls, nothing. He says it's his work that keeps him busy....and his dedicated workouts at the gym. I have never visited his home....is there someone else?

Other men, possibly wonderful people have taken interest in me, but I've pushed them away, isolated myself. Couldn't stray if I tried. Days go by, I'm left with nothing but a mere memory of our last encounter. Saddened because he has left me alone.... weeks go by...I hear his voice, the butterflies are in my stomach all over again....of course I'm just overjoyed because I can see his sweet face again...but every time he returns, I know, deep down, it's only for a little while....until he's gone again, without a trace. I want to tell him I love him, but for some mysterious reason....I don't think it will ever happen.

How did we miss this?

Have you kissed someone today?


This is a pretty iconic kiss.



Who would you like to kiss today? What celebrity / actor / actress / famous figure from the past would, if they crossed your path, be soundly smooched? Or even someone you know, of course. I suppose. That's a bit of a waste of a day when no holds are barred ...

Nope, JJ has got me nostalgic. Remember your first important kiss? what you were wearing, where it was?