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No matter what i write on this site, everything comes to nothing.
I have attracted scammers, whores and nut cases.
Are there any normal women who are serious and capable of having a normal relationship?
i suppose i'm asking a stupid question because all the normal women are taken which is why they are not sad enough to use a dating site.
And yes, i am sad enough to use a dating site.
If there is another sad female soul out there, in reach of me who isn't mad, suicidal sad or bad, into photography, husky dogs, volkswagons, surfing sun sea and sex. Romance and passion to walking dogs in the heat of the night to continental holidays in the future producing travel and cookery films, please let me know else that's it i give up and i will do it all on my own.

With a week away from Christmas ,
Most of us are Christmas shopping.
They say its more blessed to give than to receive.
But
what gift would you like to receive from that "special person " ?

I have my own views on this but would love to hear your thoughts ,

A virtual paradise where we all meet
To tempt to tease, be naughty and sweet
Our escape from reality
A place where we grow
To share our thoughts
And challenge what we know

Tens of thousand we search
For Love Ranges far and wide
Across the Wild and Crazy Blue seas
To find love on the other side

Mysterious Leo and sharp witted Cal
The howling of Wolves
We Snookered new pals
Through trust in the friendships
Of Ccincy and Mol
And sweet-hearted Abby
We do conquer all

But Serious and sensual we be too
From hearts that bleed
The fire which burns inside
Just a glimpse of our need

From the Ash of our past
To the Itch that we seek
Our words of cunning and wisdom
Help us escape the bleak

But let us not forget
We are indeed all Real
Let's hold each others Hands
And share what we truly feel

Dear bloggers Love will find us
Rob and Tim be strong
Maybe here maybe not
We shall journey to where we belong

Have faith dear bloggers
Forgive and it will be
Trust and strength will get you there
To your beautiful destiny

I was at a family gathering this weekend and looking at books in the lounge when I heard my cousin telling her sister-in-law about one of the guests. Only when she said 'her sister Anne, on the other hand' did I realize they were talking about me.

It wasn't anything horrible (or lovely!) as it happens, it just wasn't the way I would have described me.

Has that ever happened to you?

Even before entering into a relationship, one person is always attracted to the other more than the other is attracted to him/her. This may be purely a matter of chemistry. Both persons may enter into and develop the relationship, being fully aware of this. The one who is more strongly attracted may end up putting more effort into the relationship in the hope that this may cause the other person to become more attracted to him/her. However, things may not necessarily work out that way, at least in the short term; there is a better chance of this taking place in the long term. Ultimately, one may have to make a decision with regard to committing or not committing oneself to the relationship.

If things work out well and both parties are happy and remain happy in the relationship, that is great.

However, if things do not work out that way,then what?

Most likely, there are several persons here at CS who may have experienced such a situation, and some who may be experiencing such a situation at present.

Perhaps the one whose love was not reciprocated in the relationship, leading to a case of unrequited love, may console himself/herself with the saying:

“It is better to have loved and have lost, than to never to have loved at all”.

What do you think?

Open discussion, on the topic, welcome!!!

Need an activity partner,read this on many profiles,just wondering what type of activities are these people interested in..........

concerning 3 blogs i have seen on here since yesterday about what are women looking for i a man..

it has prompted me to create this blog.

now this question was asked by an individual who is desperately searching for someone ..

now i have been on here and other sites where men complain that they cant find a woman ..or a good one ..

i have talk to a lot of men since i have been on many sites and i can name out quite a number of issues i have noticed..


a man say he needs a god woman . he meets a good woman message her for a day or 2 then he just up and stop chatting..
maybe he found someone else and decide you are not good enough for him after all.. then that woman does him the same and he tries to come back..

another thing .. sometimes the conversation die a slow death because the woman is putting in 70% while he is putting in 10% so that burns itself out..


another thing is those nude pics.. sometimes before the first part of the introduction of each other is noted the pics starts rolling in..

and there are the question.. do you have whatsapp? a lot of times thats is the first message from a man.. or email..

and there are also the ..

there are so many things i could add thats a spoiler..

now how does a men expect a woman to take them seriously when this is a trend? there are good men out there but everyone is being cautious..

now this guy sound so desperate And you decide to give him a chance to prove his worth and in a day or two or a week he up and disappear..

and then you see them coming on blogland complaining when they let a good one get away about women asking for cash..those are the women you guys like to chat up so stay silent when that happens ..


a woman only knows how much cash a man has in his pocket when he is robbed..



these issues i have ststed is happening right on this site..so the question should have been WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR..?

What is your advice when dealing with a stubborn personality?

I was 25 when I opened up myself for a romantic relationship. My friends said that it wasn't even real because it was online. We met and carry our relationship online without meeting up in person. To me it was real, i meant every word and everything I did for our relationship. However, we still separated after 4 years.

Moving on, I got lonely, and even when its dangerous and there's too much prejudice attached to a filipina dating in Saudi Arabia, I did it for my loneliness. And because I can bend some rules at my own risk.

After numerous dates though, mostly meeting the guys once, some twice and 2 a few months and 1 labeled relationship, I realized the men (non saudis, expats like me) won't look for anything more than casual. It broke my heart more than the breakup with my boyfriend for 4 years.

So yeah, i don't know if its better for me to take myself back online, or continue dating men without a hope for future. Or stop all the effort and just wait for God's perfect time.