Most Commented Dating & Relationships Blogs (2,550)

The mark of popularity here, is the number of comments you receive for your blog ,well most bloggers feel that way........
So to become popular on the blogs, one should follow few simple rules
1 Start a fight on your blogs
2 flirt with fellow bloggers
3 Indulge in innate banter
4 make friends with people here who comment on any and every blog
5 Double post all your comnents.

You don't think so?
But isn't that some bloggers do to here to become popular and get most comments???

Joy is within your reach, go grab some!

We all want to feel happy, and each one of us has different ways of getting there. Here are 10 steps you can take to increase your joie de vivre and bring more happiness into your life:

1. Be with others who make you smile. Studies show that we are happiest when we are around those who are also happy. Stick with those who are joyful and let rub off on you.

2. Hold on to your values. What you find true, what you know is fair, and what you believe in are all values. Over time, the more you honor them, the better you will feel about yourself and those you love.

3. Accept the good. Look at your life and take stock of what’s working, and don’t push away something just because it isn’t perfect. When good things happen, even the very little ones, let them in.

4. Imagine the best. Don’t be afraid to look at what you really want and see yourself getting it. Many people avoid this process because they don’t want to be disappointed if things don’t work out. The truth is that imagining getting what you want is a big part of achieving it.

5. Do things you love. Maybe you can’t skydive every day or take vacations every season, but as long as you get to do the things you love every once in a while, you will find greater happiness.

6. Find purpose. Those who believe they are contributing to the well-being of humanity tend to feel better about their lives. Most people want to be part of something greater than they are, simply because it’s fulfilling.

7. Listen to your heart. You are the only one who knows what fills you up. Your family and friends may think you’d be great at something that really doesn’t float your boat. It can be complicated following your bliss. Just be smart, and keep your day job for the time being.

8. Push yourself, not others. It’s easy to feel that someone else is responsible for your fulfillment, but the reality is that it is really your charge. Once you realize that, you have the power to get where you want to go. Stop blaming others or the world, and you’ll find your answers much sooner.

9. Be open to change. Even if it doesn’t feel good, change is the one thing you can count on. Change will happen, so make contingency plans and emotionally shore yourself up for the experience.

10. Bask in the simple pleasures. Those who love you, treasured memories, silly jokes, warm days, and starry nights—these are the ties that bind and the gifts that keep on giving.

Happiness and fulfillment are within your grasp, but sometimes just out of reach. Understanding what works best for you is the first step in finding more of them.

Would you give them marks out of 10 for performance stamina or comfort or what deserves your highest mark ?

You know when you write a response, and then think 'can't send that' but you really, REALLY, want to?

Giving advice is the most tempting thing in the world. It wasn't asked for. It won't be appreciated. I know from past experience that only true friends can stand that sort of feedback, and this is not a true friendship. It could be, one day. If I shut up now.

I know I should sleep on it. I KNOW I should. But that impulse to press *send* is very nearly overwhelming.

I should probably go mow the wilderness which is my lawn and do some housework first. Then re-read it. Then sleep on it. Then re-read it tomorrow. I know if I do, I will end up scrapping it.

But I really want to send it!

Weddings cost a fortune in any country...

So if you get married again would you

1.... Have all the bells and whistles

2.... A privet small wedding

3.... Go to a magistrate office and use money for honeymoon

This is for fun.....

I was going to help all the ladies with a proposal in form but am really annoyed to find that neither my Debretts nor my Enquire Within offers any template at all.

In fact the Enquire Within jumps straight from Balls & Evening Dress - where the last instruction is "An introduction to a lady at a ball does not entitle the gentleman to bow to her on a future occasion, unless she first recognises him" to Marriage Arrangements. I appreciate the book dates back to a more modest time (1899) but good grief.

So here we go, guv.

It would, er, make me the happiest woman on Earth, er, if you would, you know, *loosens collar* eh what?

This is harder than I thought it would be. It's leap year, okay? Want me to spell it out? Sheesh. Fill in the gaps.



Phew. But I couldn't have you getting through leap year without at least one.















There you go, girls. Or you could make up your own, of course.

Interesting blog spotted on another website. This woman says she lured a man in with coffee, and she has him trussed up like a turkey for the benefit of herself, her friends and even some relatives.

She did it on an uncontrollable impulse, and now she’s worrying what will happen when (if) she releases him back into the wild.

She was asking everyone on the website for advice. Her aunts are offering to take him permanently off her hands and take good care of him for as long as he lives. She says he looks a little wild-eyed when they discuss it in front of him.

Coffee, eh?

Do you think it could be our Sola? He's not been around since mentioning going on a coffee date ...

I’m seeing a man who is straight as a die and has a personality built on rock. We occasionally do not see eye to eye, which is quite a shock, because my best male buddy is a chameleon. You know the type I mean? expert at being the person you want them to be.

Are chameleons bad? No. They are fun, sympathetic, empathetic, in tune with you, because you ARE the tune. The stronger your personality, the more they will align with you.

Are they cruel and deliberately deceitful? No. They don't do it on purpose, they can't help it. Their attraction to you is real, they like the person you make them become.

Are they trustworthy? Duh, no. When they get tired of the tune, or find an easier one, or feel too pressured by the personality you have given them, they will vanish.

Do you walk away? It is hard to walk away from someone who suits you so perfectly.

So - enjoy the friendship, why not? You’ve made friends with yourself, you know. Just take advice from Auntie Elegsabiff, don't fall in love, as it could hurt deeply when it ends, who wants to be rejected by themselves?? (You haven't been. Re-read)

Think of it rather as finding out you really do like yourself and you enjoy your company very much. Looked at that way, it isn’t altogether a bad thing. Just a bit – unreal.

And look for real friends. They're much harder work, mind you

What does that mean exactly... I am too cheap to buy you coffee or dinner but maybe if we are at MY House then...maybe just maybe we could get lucky?
Hmmmph.

So....I've met up with my mystery man yet again...I haven't drank a drop of alcohol in years....not because of any alcoholism issues, but only because I like to always be clear headed. Well....last night, not so much He had taken me out to a local club where I enjoy singing..ohh my, I think I mixed up every single song I did, was definitely comical lol....and I've told this mystery man a million times, I can't dance....I have two left feet. He finally told me last night, he didn't know what that meant...still getting used to some American expressions ....I've been asked numerous times at this club to dance but I refuse because I'm just horrid on my feet...but last night, we danced. And I will say this, I think it's one step in the right direction towards curing my case of two left feet. There was just him and the music....wasn't sure if it was the alcohol making my head spin, or the company