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Look around CS. There are cheerful people, flirty people, good looking people, old, young, upbeat, animated, serious ... how on earth are we not all snapped up the second we put up our profiles?

Partly because we're perfectly normal, but sheesh, there are nutters out there.

And partly - now let's be completely honest, here - because we're, erm, fussy.

Take you. Uh huh, YOU. I know someone local, right size, nice-looking, relatively baggage-free, solvent, actively wanting to fall in love, who could be just right for you. Guaranteed not a scammer or game-player. Seriously.

No, I don't know if they love animals.
No, no idea how good they are with kids.
No, no idea why the last relationship ended.
No, they don't earn a fortune. Reasonable income, though.
No, they never won a Mr or Miss Universe competition. (Did you? )
No, I don't know if they do or don't want to get married. This is a DATE, okay? Not a contract.
No, I have NO IDEA when they will want sex!!!

What do you mean, you'll have to think about it? You've been talking about wanting to meet someone nice, I found you someone nice. Have one cup of coffee with them, that'll kill you?

Oh, okay. Your loss, though. Stay single. See if I care.

And what do you mean, why don't I date them, they're so good? Well - er - I'm not quite ready - oh bugger off.

I just spent 3 hours tidying up a translation of a trade manual done by an Indian agency from German into English and that's a little too exciting. Not. No more Friday nights like that, thanks. A night out with a boy, every now and then, HAS to be better.

Serious shortage of Scottish blokes on here. The ones I've seen have more tattoos than teeth. And the few who have contacted me direct over my year on CS lost interest when they found out I didn't know or care which footie* team won the night before. S'long, hen.

So I went to a place where the fishing is supposed to be good, and spent a while putting together an utterly riveting fishing rod. The hook looks so good I've got 15 fish already begging to be caught. If I want to view the school all I have to do is upgrade.

What? when did we have to start paying to fish? The bloody universe has so got it in for me.

*soccer

Happy, Happy Birthday to my friend Wallops! May you have many more and may God bless one of the nicest ladies on the blogs!!!!!!!!!

Hey gang, tomorrow, Sunday is her birthday! Let's congradulate her again!

Time and time again I read statements from women on profiles, blogs and forums that state “Not looking for a fling or casual sex”, not only is this declaration a complete turn off for any would be prospective suitor but it pretty much indicates the woman is, has been or wants to be a dating hermit.

In a recent post the blogger did elaborate in words what most women think by saying “I prefer to wait for years and have it with someone very special to me”, and this is the core problem of most dating hermits, if you dont participate how are you ever going to find someone special?

So.... To those women that have this attitude I say to you... “Stop pissing about wasting your time on dating sites”. Either get your shit together and make an effort or crawl back into your comfort zone and grow old peacefully.... AND SINGLE.

I have noticed the fact that almost nobody wants to talk to me. Even though I wasn't rude I just can't build up connections. In the very beginning I thought it is something related to the people of my country,therefore I have realised I encounter the same behaviour on every website I join.
I apologize I am not very attractive!My badluck!

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When you thought you met the person of your dreams online, it turns out they are someone close to home, manipulating you.

Is it just an accent that makes you go all giddy? Is it a bit of a cultural different that goes with the accent? Or a bit of the unknown? For all you accent lovers what is it that draws you to someone with a nice accent and why?

I personally love accents and find them irresistable and sexy. It started out in my 20's I got my first laptop and landed in an australian chatroom. Oh my had my first taste of culture shock and feel madly in love. 3 years later he was on a plane to see me. Kissing him was like kissing my brother lol. He was a cross dresser lol which I didnt know. That didn't stop me from loving accents though.Blimey, Im abit daft at times but defo still into accents.

I've talked to quite a few gentlemen who were Irish, Scottish, danish, dutch, English swedish, norwegian and Australian.Love the variety and the phrases. Have had so many laughs when I was asked if I had a nice fanny thinking they meant nice butt to I need a fag thinking they were gay,lol and asking me if i was a good snogger "a what" .One guy told me he was pissed and I apologised profusely and all he could do is laugh his arse off,another guy told me he was crook and i explained we all make mistakes at least youre not a crook anymore. Boy I'm blonde lol. Bloody ell it doesnt get better then that.Blimey O'reily Love the differences though and for the most part have a good laugh and a very memorable conversation.

So what is it about an accent that is so appealing? Is it the fantasy that you picture them to be the best lover? Or the mystery of what life is like across the pond? For me I will always be an accent lover.

and yes I know I have been snooty about others putting up multiple blogs. If you can't beat 'em, join 'em

This is in part inspired by Mimi's blog, which was inspired by Calm's comment, so there you are, we have a chain of blame.

It is also a genuine question but one, for once, I don't think CS can answer because on CS we are, I think, all about finding the perfect match, and nothing less will do. That's why we are single, you know. Perfect is very rarely on offer

Sometimes, we don't get offered what we want, but we do get offered what we need. Yet because we want perfect, we sneer at the idea of 'settling' for less

If you have ever said 'he (or she) is nice, I like them, but there's no leaping pulses, no WOW factor, so I'm not going to bother, I don't believe in settling' please kick yourself, cut the 'settling' word out of your vocabulary, and let this nice thing quietly grow legs, if it can.

If things don't work out (and here we are back to that chain of blame) well, they don't work out. So what? You got out there, you struck sparks and lit a fire, and it burned out. Not enough for an everlasting flame. There's no BLAME!

Anyone dares sneer at you, well, have they even got that far or are they stuck for eternity on that shelf, peering into the distance for the perfect and ignoring everyone else? Hmmm. Good luck with that.

If I could create a program to sort thru profiles and weed out some of the most undesirable ones, I guess it would simply filter for the word "drama". Apparently, 96.7%* of the most inane people who place online profiles do so with some words to the effect that they have no and want no drama in their lives.

I mean sure, I know what they are really saying is they don't want negativity and they want to avoid people with the tendency to argue and fight and such. Nevertheless it's pretty much like those people who say they want "someone real" or "no liars", "cheaters" and such.

Like all those dramatic lying, cheating sorts will read your profile, gulp and move onto someone less particular? NO! Of course they wont! Once you declare that you want no dramatic lying cheaters, it's like you've made yourself a magnet for said types!


As for those profiles fecklessly crying against "drama".... (evil grin) don't knock it 'till you try it!