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Dating someone who has children
In most cases it would be a woman looking for a man.
It’s obvious that the woman and her kids come as a package and you would need to complement the divorced or single parent’s life.
It’s more than likely they may have some trust issues so perhaps a lot of patience is needed for the relationship to reach a comfortable level, however if you really like the person then they would certainly be worth the wait.
So those Women who have children, what are you looking for in a new partner?
It’s obvious that the woman and her kids come as a package and you would need to complement the divorced or single parent’s life.
It’s more than likely they may have some trust issues so perhaps a lot of patience is needed for the relationship to reach a comfortable level, however if you really like the person then they would certainly be worth the wait.
So those Women who have children, what are you looking for in a new partner?
2016 - year of the Fire Monkey
Not all of us in the West are familiar with the Chinese horoscopes so here's a quick handy guide for the newly dawned Year of the Monkey. I'm apologizing in advance if I get any bits wrong, please correct me! I do find it fascinating.
Each Chinese New Year is characterised by one of 12 animals which appear in the Chinese zodiac. By the way, 2016 marks the 4713th Chinese year.
If you are turning 24, 36, 48, 60 or 72 this year, you are a Monkey. Your compatibility signs are Rat, Dragon, or another Monkey - the positive signs, the doers, dynamic and ambitious. (America, born in 1776, falls under the sign of the Monkey)
There are also five vital elements: Gold, Water, Wood, Fire or Earth. 2016 is a fire year. The cycles match every 60 years so any Monkey turning 60 this year is in double jeopardy - ironically, the years of your sign are tougher. As Monkey years are challenging for everyone, Monkeys especially need to keep their wits about them this year.
Challenging it may be, but for all 12 animals of the Chinese zodiac,provided you demonstrate endurance and patience, 2016 is a great time for receiving invigorating energies.The combination of Fire with the sign of the Monkey brings vitality and innovation to both business and personal relationships.
During 2016, political tensions will be stronger as governments and financial markets get a harder time. People and money are moving around the planet at an even faster rate, and only the most resourceful and risk-taking individuals amongst the 12 signs of the Chinese zodiac are promised great success in 2016.
It's a year to reconsider part of the organization of your social life, as some friends may suddenly become bitter and jealous, leaving you disappointed and disengaged.
Not an easy year, and especially for Monkeys, but still a year of optimism, cheerfulness and happy family gatherings.
What are you?
Rat: 2008, 1996, 1984, 1972, 1960, 1948
Ox: 2009, 1997, 1985, 1973, 1961, 1949
Tiger: 2010, 1998, 1986, 1974, 1962, 1950
Rabbit: 2011, 1999, 1987, 1975, 1963, 1951
Dragon: 2012, 2000, 1988, 1976, 1964, 1952
Snake: 2013, 2001, 1989, 1977, 1965, 1953
Horse: 2014, 2002, 1990, 1978, 1966, 1954
Sheep: 2015, 2003, 1991, 1979, 1967, 1955
Monkey: 2016, 2004, 1992, 1980, 1968, 1956
Rooster: 2017, 2005, 1993, 1981, 1969, 1957
Dog: 2018, 2006, 1994, 1982, 1970, 1958
Pig: 2019, 2007, 1995, 1983, 1971, 1959
As I already said, this is interest, not expertise, I poached off the internet and will instantly correct anything I got wrong, sorry!
Each Chinese New Year is characterised by one of 12 animals which appear in the Chinese zodiac. By the way, 2016 marks the 4713th Chinese year.
If you are turning 24, 36, 48, 60 or 72 this year, you are a Monkey. Your compatibility signs are Rat, Dragon, or another Monkey - the positive signs, the doers, dynamic and ambitious. (America, born in 1776, falls under the sign of the Monkey)
There are also five vital elements: Gold, Water, Wood, Fire or Earth. 2016 is a fire year. The cycles match every 60 years so any Monkey turning 60 this year is in double jeopardy - ironically, the years of your sign are tougher. As Monkey years are challenging for everyone, Monkeys especially need to keep their wits about them this year.
Challenging it may be, but for all 12 animals of the Chinese zodiac,provided you demonstrate endurance and patience, 2016 is a great time for receiving invigorating energies.The combination of Fire with the sign of the Monkey brings vitality and innovation to both business and personal relationships.
During 2016, political tensions will be stronger as governments and financial markets get a harder time. People and money are moving around the planet at an even faster rate, and only the most resourceful and risk-taking individuals amongst the 12 signs of the Chinese zodiac are promised great success in 2016.
It's a year to reconsider part of the organization of your social life, as some friends may suddenly become bitter and jealous, leaving you disappointed and disengaged.
Not an easy year, and especially for Monkeys, but still a year of optimism, cheerfulness and happy family gatherings.
What are you?
Rat: 2008, 1996, 1984, 1972, 1960, 1948
Ox: 2009, 1997, 1985, 1973, 1961, 1949
Tiger: 2010, 1998, 1986, 1974, 1962, 1950
Rabbit: 2011, 1999, 1987, 1975, 1963, 1951
Dragon: 2012, 2000, 1988, 1976, 1964, 1952
Snake: 2013, 2001, 1989, 1977, 1965, 1953
Horse: 2014, 2002, 1990, 1978, 1966, 1954
Sheep: 2015, 2003, 1991, 1979, 1967, 1955
Monkey: 2016, 2004, 1992, 1980, 1968, 1956
Rooster: 2017, 2005, 1993, 1981, 1969, 1957
Dog: 2018, 2006, 1994, 1982, 1970, 1958
Pig: 2019, 2007, 1995, 1983, 1971, 1959
As I already said, this is interest, not expertise, I poached off the internet and will instantly correct anything I got wrong, sorry!
Dating When Over Sixty.
Ok ladies, this is where you get off the bus again. This is for men only. I know a few cheated last time by slipping in by the back door, but this time there will be a short arm inspection. The devil help those who are caught without a decent piece. Of course, you’re still welcome to comment. You never read the blogs in any way.
Hey you, with the snooker table legs! I know who you are, get out!
Now guys, today we’ll be discussing a dating kit for those over 60. If you’re not 60 yet, don’t go away, you’ll be here with us sooner than you think.
Let’s face it guys, we are well beyond our use before date and therefore we are going to need a few things to pave the way in case we should accidentally stumble into a woman stupid (or drunk) enough to be interested in us. When the occasion arises, we need to be prepared. There are a few things that we’re going to need.
I know some women like bald heads, but when it is full of wrinkles and creases, they will like it no more. Get a decent hair piece. One that sits tight that will not be blown off by the fan. Remember, she will, in all probability, be getting hot flushes.
Women don’t like a man to sit with a mouth full of teeth, but when there is nothing in there, they won’t like it either. Be sure to have a full set of well fitting dentures. We don’t want them to fall out when you laugh or cough, do we?
Then you will need a walking stick. Get one of those with the hook on top - like a shepherd’s staff. It serves a double purpose. It will be invaluable if you need to traverse one or two staircases to reach her dwellings and once there, it can be used to haul her closer if she sits too far away. She can probably outrun you.
A collapsible glass is another essential item so you can take your cholesterol and HBP medication in the bathroom without her knowing. This is very important. Never ask her for a glass to take medication. Women don’t like sickly men. If she should notice you popping tabs, tell her it is vitamin tablets. The glass can also be used for your dentures once the light is off. Oh yes, take care to swallow the Viagra tablet fast, otherwise you will be sitting with a stiff neck all night.
And have two or three condoms in your pocket. Women don’t like to use them but she will feel very special to know that you always use them when you date other woman. *!Wishful thinking, methinks!*
Right, that is about it. If you can think of something else that can make our lives easier, let me know. Just remember, this is not a ‘Larry' adventure game where everything can fit into the pockets. Grand! The ladies will be joining us in the next paragraph, so I’m trying to think what to say to get their attention away from the rest of the blog.
Hi Ladies, it is so nice to have you back. Don’t worry, you missed nothing. We were just talking politics.
Now enjoy your day and be prepared. I may happen today.
Hey you, with the snooker table legs! I know who you are, get out!
Now guys, today we’ll be discussing a dating kit for those over 60. If you’re not 60 yet, don’t go away, you’ll be here with us sooner than you think.
Let’s face it guys, we are well beyond our use before date and therefore we are going to need a few things to pave the way in case we should accidentally stumble into a woman stupid (or drunk) enough to be interested in us. When the occasion arises, we need to be prepared. There are a few things that we’re going to need.
I know some women like bald heads, but when it is full of wrinkles and creases, they will like it no more. Get a decent hair piece. One that sits tight that will not be blown off by the fan. Remember, she will, in all probability, be getting hot flushes.
Women don’t like a man to sit with a mouth full of teeth, but when there is nothing in there, they won’t like it either. Be sure to have a full set of well fitting dentures. We don’t want them to fall out when you laugh or cough, do we?
Then you will need a walking stick. Get one of those with the hook on top - like a shepherd’s staff. It serves a double purpose. It will be invaluable if you need to traverse one or two staircases to reach her dwellings and once there, it can be used to haul her closer if she sits too far away. She can probably outrun you.
A collapsible glass is another essential item so you can take your cholesterol and HBP medication in the bathroom without her knowing. This is very important. Never ask her for a glass to take medication. Women don’t like sickly men. If she should notice you popping tabs, tell her it is vitamin tablets. The glass can also be used for your dentures once the light is off. Oh yes, take care to swallow the Viagra tablet fast, otherwise you will be sitting with a stiff neck all night.
And have two or three condoms in your pocket. Women don’t like to use them but she will feel very special to know that you always use them when you date other woman. *!Wishful thinking, methinks!*
Right, that is about it. If you can think of something else that can make our lives easier, let me know. Just remember, this is not a ‘Larry' adventure game where everything can fit into the pockets. Grand! The ladies will be joining us in the next paragraph, so I’m trying to think what to say to get their attention away from the rest of the blog.
Hi Ladies, it is so nice to have you back. Don’t worry, you missed nothing. We were just talking politics.
Now enjoy your day and be prepared. I may happen today.
Right now
Do you know what is happening right now, right this very minute? Statistics never lie.
approximately 14 000 people on CS are having sex
another 25 000 of us are kissing
50 000 of us are hugging or at least holding hands
and you - well, you're reading this.
Trust me, I'm not happy about it either.
Goooood MORNING CS! The clocks went back in the UK, so I became an hour younger during the night. I feel wonderful.
approximately 14 000 people on CS are having sex
another 25 000 of us are kissing
50 000 of us are hugging or at least holding hands
and you - well, you're reading this.
Trust me, I'm not happy about it either.
Goooood MORNING CS! The clocks went back in the UK, so I became an hour younger during the night. I feel wonderful.
What side of the bed?
Do you have a side of the bed you prefer when sleeping with someone?
I am ambidextrous, so for me it doesnt matter what side of the bed I am on, I can still enjoy lots of hugs and cuddles.
I am ambidextrous, so for me it doesnt matter what side of the bed I am on, I can still enjoy lots of hugs and cuddles.
The trick is to know exactly what you want.
Do you? I realized the other day that I don't. I just want someone to offer me interesting options and wait anxiously for my careful consideration 
My daughter has a poster that says it all. I don't ask much of a man. He just has to be handsome, sexy, funny, clever, rich, athletic, adoring, and prepared to feed me ice-cream in bed every night for the rest of my life.
My daughter has a poster that says it all. I don't ask much of a man. He just has to be handsome, sexy, funny, clever, rich, athletic, adoring, and prepared to feed me ice-cream in bed every night for the rest of my life.
Foot in mouth disease - I need a cure
Some days I read through the blogs, skipping the numpties, popping in to see what my favourites have to say, saying little myself, and enjoying CS socials.
Some days, and there is never any warning, I get offended for little or no reason and wham, I'm talking and the feet are kicking themselves to see which one can get into my mouth faster.
Those days I should go away. I'm going now. This blog is just to say sorry if my response on a blog looked abrupt or downright rude. Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings. Sometimes the fingers are rattling away before the brain is in gear and then too late to hit the brakes, the comment is out there, and it is OTT, because I'm an idiot.
Some days, and there is never any warning, I get offended for little or no reason and wham, I'm talking and the feet are kicking themselves to see which one can get into my mouth faster.
Those days I should go away. I'm going now. This blog is just to say sorry if my response on a blog looked abrupt or downright rude. Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings. Sometimes the fingers are rattling away before the brain is in gear and then too late to hit the brakes, the comment is out there, and it is OTT, because I'm an idiot.
He Called Me a Gold Digger!
Good day CS.
This week, I went on a dinner date with a guy. He invited me to his place so we could better talk because its more private and all, I didn't agree. I told him its better that we take time to get to know each other first and for us to take time to have trust before anything more intimate. And also that I wanted to take things slow. He agreed after trying to convince me otherwise the whole time we were at the restaurant.
The next day, he messaged and me to set up a second date. I agreed to meet him after 3 days. I thought, ok this seems promising. The day before the said date, i asked him what the plan was. He then told me, we will stay at his place, watch a movie, and eat something special he'll cook. I reminded him that he agreed to take things slow and that Im still not comfortable going to his place. I suggested it would be better if we go somewhere or do activities like movies or atv riding at red sand. He didn't want those, given the strict laws of saudi about male and female segregation. ( Its always a good card to play for men here, especially when they want to take the girl to his house and make it look like that's the only choice. I understand that some mean it because its truth. But I just can't reconcile it with my consciousness, since Ive been on dates before and nothing happened.) So anyway, we had a discussion where I was trying to reason out with him where I said "oh, I forgot you didn't have a car. It would be difficult to go places together on uber." ( in my mind, usually uber drivers are saudis and they could report us to police and we'd both be in jail.) But after I made that remark, he became distant suddenly.
He didn't message me the whole day next day. And yesterday he messaged me" Hello gold digger" I was so mad I couldn't just brush it off. We went on an argument where I called him a lying AH because he made me believe he was looking for something serious, but when sex was not on the table he disappeared, and he called me a gold digger and Cold because I pointed out out he didn't have a car.
Needless to say I was disappointed because I thought that we had potential.. But what good is potential when its with promised on deceit?
Such a waste of time. At least I had a great burger.
This week, I went on a dinner date with a guy. He invited me to his place so we could better talk because its more private and all, I didn't agree. I told him its better that we take time to get to know each other first and for us to take time to have trust before anything more intimate. And also that I wanted to take things slow. He agreed after trying to convince me otherwise the whole time we were at the restaurant.
The next day, he messaged and me to set up a second date. I agreed to meet him after 3 days. I thought, ok this seems promising. The day before the said date, i asked him what the plan was. He then told me, we will stay at his place, watch a movie, and eat something special he'll cook. I reminded him that he agreed to take things slow and that Im still not comfortable going to his place. I suggested it would be better if we go somewhere or do activities like movies or atv riding at red sand. He didn't want those, given the strict laws of saudi about male and female segregation. ( Its always a good card to play for men here, especially when they want to take the girl to his house and make it look like that's the only choice. I understand that some mean it because its truth. But I just can't reconcile it with my consciousness, since Ive been on dates before and nothing happened.) So anyway, we had a discussion where I was trying to reason out with him where I said "oh, I forgot you didn't have a car. It would be difficult to go places together on uber." ( in my mind, usually uber drivers are saudis and they could report us to police and we'd both be in jail.) But after I made that remark, he became distant suddenly.
He didn't message me the whole day next day. And yesterday he messaged me" Hello gold digger" I was so mad I couldn't just brush it off. We went on an argument where I called him a lying AH because he made me believe he was looking for something serious, but when sex was not on the table he disappeared, and he called me a gold digger and Cold because I pointed out out he didn't have a car.
Needless to say I was disappointed because I thought that we had potential.. But what good is potential when its with promised on deceit?
Such a waste of time. At least I had a great burger.
online today!
Hot and Cold...
I don't like it cold... Even though when I feel hurt I may act a little distant... But I always like it hot, warm... Cozy, soft, hard, sticky, full of emotion, intense, passionate, obscene, sacred, s*xual, innocent... I love it... In all its ways, shapes and forms...
Hot and Cold
"For this love flowing against the current.
For this love that nobody understands.
At times it knows no bounds
and runs amok in a terrible way.
It drags me around like a river,
going between hot and cold,
but it's yours and its mine,
clear as a moonlit night
with the moon full...
it's worth the difficulties.
And at times it takes me so far
that I find myself where I have never been.
Sometimes I lose myself
and then return in an instant, going between
hot and cold.
This love is yours and mine.
For this love that has no pretensions,
for this love
that scratches and spreads out,
for this love born out of time itself.
For this love
that sometimes I myself don't even understand.
And it plays, just like a child
with the face of a rascal,
a game of cat and mouse.
And at times it shows itself to me naked,
so delicate and pure,
that I can't imagine it being wrong in any way.
And at times it takes me so far
that I find myself where I have never been.
Sometimes I lose myself
and then return in an instant, going between
hot and cold.
This love is yours and mine.
And at times I confuse the heavens
with the earth;
at times I don't know if it's going away or coming back,
between hot and cold...
This love is yours and mine."
P.S. What about other things...
My soup, extremely hot...
My drinking water, extremely cold...
My room, cold...
My bed, warm...
My... Nah, I better stop... Jajajajajajajajajajajajja... 
What about yours... Do you like it hot... Do you like it cold... Somewhere in between...
Hot and Cold
"For this love flowing against the current.
For this love that nobody understands.
At times it knows no bounds
and runs amok in a terrible way.
It drags me around like a river,
going between hot and cold,
but it's yours and its mine,
clear as a moonlit night
with the moon full...
it's worth the difficulties.
And at times it takes me so far
that I find myself where I have never been.
Sometimes I lose myself
and then return in an instant, going between
hot and cold.
This love is yours and mine.
For this love that has no pretensions,
for this love
that scratches and spreads out,
for this love born out of time itself.
For this love
that sometimes I myself don't even understand.
And it plays, just like a child
with the face of a rascal,
a game of cat and mouse.
And at times it shows itself to me naked,
so delicate and pure,
that I can't imagine it being wrong in any way.
And at times it takes me so far
that I find myself where I have never been.
Sometimes I lose myself
and then return in an instant, going between
hot and cold.
This love is yours and mine.
And at times I confuse the heavens
with the earth;
at times I don't know if it's going away or coming back,
between hot and cold...
This love is yours and mine."
P.S. What about other things...
My soup, extremely hot...
My drinking water, extremely cold...
My room, cold...
My bed, warm...
My... Nah, I better stop... Jajajajajajajajajajajajja...
What about yours... Do you like it hot... Do you like it cold... Somewhere in between...
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