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i cant believe that there are no single women in iowa..i dont think im bad looking..what do you think???

I have always had the ‘problem’ of attracting younger men, but only because I look and think/act younger than my actual age. As such, all but 2 of my past relationships/s*xual encounters (not that many), which includes my marriage, were with younger men.

The thing was, what they expected of me and I of them, didn’t mesh well enough to keep the attraction going for very long (especially since I’m not easily impressed and get bored quickly).

Crossing 55 made me determined to only form personal relationships with older men, whose future expectations/outlook on life were more in line with mine, and with whom I could fulfil the need for meaningful companionship.

Idealistic? Maybe. Pragmatic? I think so. Achievable? I certainly hope so. Cheers

Isn't it unique the many varied profiles of women who are 65 or older who have one foot on a banana peel and the other on the threshold to a nursing home looking for a useless wanker who is equally or darn near on the same threshold that they will suggest age is just a number or age is not so important. Yet, in my opinion it sounds like a tesimony they are afraid of growing old and bitter and alone. Very sad indeed. To consider most are divorced by the time they reach 40 to 50
They dont want another old useless wanker that they kicked to curb and a guy doesnt want an angry miserable woman who will just spend more time picking out the faults or traits they dont like in a new man either unless perhaps he has a good estate planned.
If you are a poor broken down old fool living on social security from month to month going nowhere what chance does anyone have in entertaining a woman at any level?
Yes we all want a second chance at love and a love that doesnt live 4000 to 12000 miles away
We can all say if we find a personality we can put up with then age is not a factor but having to be middle aged or younger and being compatible would be an ideal hope and predominate reason why we are here or on any other social dating site. Yet, perhaps to be realistic, many should be grateful or happy if we can find anyone suitable. Yet, perhaps its not the search or the chase or catch that matters anymore. Perhaps its OK that people can come here just to exchange banter and not worry about if anyone suits us or is the ideal age or emotional maturity as they say if the shoe fits wear it. Everyone has their reasons why they are here. It is not for me to judge but I find it unique and sad to see my generation is divorced picky and overly critical of the quality of friends they want. Perhaps I am equally guilty of that as well. The problem is our expectations we place upon ourselves and others. After awhile we learn that we sabotage our efforts to fail in finding anyone because of our unrealistic expectations. Something to ponder in your travels here.

Hi all wonderful guys here , wishing you all the very best ,
whatever you wish I wish may you receive it soon ,
whatever you seek may you findout the real person for you,
whatever you dream with true heart may it be nicely fulfilled ,
always stay positive and try to work on it .
Good Luck .

So I learned just now about this movie. Of certain characters called ABC. What a misunderstanding you're about to see. A love affair involving these three. They are all from different lands. With cultural and religious difference.

C, the male protagonist is from England, B, is of course a beautiful Indian while C, hmmmn an American. Now so the story begins to unfold. A relationship that was foretold. C and A were friends and nothing more, to think of anything else is terrible.

Why? Here is the plot I can be sure of that. A never seeks for anything like love. She's so happy and contented in life and wish nothing to ever change that. She seeks knowledge that's for sure. UFO, the Universe and so much more. Love? That's preposterous, she's not looking and that's absolute.

So this movie is a joke, with all the misleading messages and plots.
But for me I know how it ends, B and C as lovers again. They deserve each other till the very end.

Live happily ever after. And A, too is full of joy forever.

Note: For real, I am never jealous nor seeking any love. I never will. I'm happy as I am. Single and independent.

Reading horoscope predictions daily is out of habit and I never take it seriously ,few days back in my horoscope I read that I should be careful that week as I would meet with a minor accident, ignoring it like always I went about with my work but some days later as I was climbing stairs, missed one and slipped spraining my ankle nothing serious though.
So was wondering do the stars really control our lives or was it just a coincidence. .?

Now, being on here for around a week, I had lots of traffic in my inbox. It is very long time ago that I participated on a dating site. First: compared to other dating sites, I find many people here on CS, which are nice, kind, genuine and authentic and to get on well with.

What does do surprise me though, is, that some folks are just getting their bully out and seem to have lost all their education and manners.

For me, it is no problem to deal with them, but it is quite amazing how many ridicule and disrespect other members.

I feel sorry for them, because it is a spineless attitude. It does let me think, in certain respects, of the phenomenon of "gaslighting"!



If one is aware and knows the signs of it, then it is much harder for the "gaslighters" to find their prey.

I´m wishing all of you a splendid day!

There was a reason you joined this site. What was it? To find love? To find friendship? To just read blogs? everyone has a reason..............................what's yours?

For me, I joined after two years of being on my own, I felt I was ready to start meeting people again. I needed these years to gain control of "myself" again after 15 years of marriage. I didn't want to take any baggage into a new relationship if I was to find another one. Am I ready? I don't know, haven't had the honor of meeting anybody yet. So far all I have met is scammers lol. But that doesn't deter me because you can never have too many friends either.............................

Chrissy

I had a Spanish structural survey (finally!) on the Spanish property I want to buy and loved this wording - reúne las exigencias de carácter relativo, seguridad, psico-fisiológicas, de protección y de durabilidad.

(Bing says that means it meets the requirements of relative character, security, psycho-physiological, protection and durability.)

That sounds good. Imagine if we could order an impartial, accurate survey done of the single of our choice? Those qualities, definitely.

Any others?

I'm at your service, as my job ended recently and I am betwixt and between changing my entire life, not much point in looking for a new one. I would be happy to do human surveys for you, for a small fee plus travelling expenses. Think of it as an investment in peace of mind

In any term!

If you said you don't need your opposite sex, mean your heart frozen or your are homo, gay or lesbian.
It doesn't matter how wealthy you are, how independent you are, your mature you are, still you need your opposite sex.

I am woman, and yes, I need man to comfort me. Why do we have to be snob to the world saying that I don't need the opposite sex? and once you have him/her, enjoy it! even if you don't talk much with them.

life is beautiful and too short to be too hard to ourself !

Am I wrong?